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My names Myesha aka Myp, Chitza or LaLeila
i became an "Agony Aunt" on Dear Cupid because helping people is something that i love... it gives me great satisfaction to know that advice i might have given could help someone in need.
i currently reside in the bay area, caliornia... u s of a.[YEE!]
im single but i've got my eye on someone :]. i love art, im a painter, sculptor, singer, dancer, designer, entrepreneur and future business mogul lol i love money, not so much for materialistic reasons but for the security of it.... ive been poor [not a good look]. im a compassionate individual but i speak it like i peek it... ill tell you like it is. im extremely self aware, independent and ambitous and i love to listen and be heard so if you want to talk hit me up!!!
Much love and happiness
-Myesha
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Is it normal to want a baby at my age?
Q. Im 17 and I love children. I think that sometimes they are the cutest ever. I have been having weird thoughts lately though. My parent would kill me if it ever happened at my age though, I would have no support what so ever. So here is my question: ...
A. 17 June 2010: This is totally normal. I had this issue, i still do sometimes. I used to walk through the childrens section in clothing stores, and i would swear that my uterus was talking to me. Or get all doe eyed in the baby food section at the grocery store. ... (read in full...)
I eat because I miss him, and gained weight!
Q. John got together with my best friend again, and I just can't stop crying. When me and John were together it was like we were meant to be, electricity went off whenever we were together. But now that he's gone, I feel empty. I've gained a lot of ...
A. 2 June 2010: Well to be honest that makes john more than a bit of a bastard. Disrespect much??! what kind of man sleeps with his exes bestfriend? ick! ok sorry i had to get that out, regardless of his actions i know how it feels to be heartbroken, it is the most ... (read in full...)
Do I have to marry my Turkish boyfriend in order to live in Turkey?
Q. Hi I was just wanting some advise. I want to move to Turkey to be with my boyfriend and before you all get on your high horse im 28 live in thr uk and have been dating him for 4 yrs. and hes 27. So my Question is do you now if i can get a work p...
A. 2 June 2010: Turkey is the only muslim state that sepereates religion from law but the problem is the social structure of turkey is mostly comprised of muslim religious law. i.e. no fornication, so I think that as for as work goes you might just be able to get a ... (read in full...)
He is 6 years older and been with over 50 girls.. Is he done with sex?
Q. I've been in a relationship now for over a year. We live together, love each other, things are great. EXCEPT I have a WAY bigger sex drive than him. He's not affectionate at all! He doesn’t like holding hands, making out in public, or holding onto ...
A. 2 June 2010: Theres no way that I can assume what his lack of sex drive is about. The one thing I do know though is that its unlikely, that if in good health, hes just done with sex. As women we're used to sexual attention ALL the time even if we dont ... (read in full...)
Is it at all possible to be attractive and just slightly "curvy?"
Q. I am a slightly overweight 20-year old female and I feel that my weight really affects how men view me. I feel that I'm really ready to be in a relationship, but it seems that absolutely no one is interested. I feel even more discouraged when I go ...
A. 11 December 2009: honey, if you feel unattractive, then youre gonna look unattractive. after you get out of the shower stand in the mirror and look at yourself, do you have a round butt? full breasts? long legs? rounded hips? find a positive feature [we all have one ... (read in full...)
How do you use tampons?
Q. I want to start wearing tampons and my mom will not help me with it! So how do u put them in? This question is strictly for women!!...
A. 2 April 2009: this is to kellyxxx. Im quite aware that a tampon does not affect your virginity my concern was her comfort with the size of the tampon. I.E. it might be a painful to insert something too large. but of ourse im sure you know that. you have ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a baby now when we're so ready?
Q. I want a baby. I'm 16, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he's dying to be a father. I started college doing childcare because I thought I'd love working with children, but soon discovered that nursery work really was not for me so qu...
A. 31 March 2009: WHOA!.................ok
lets just go over this.
these are the things you need to support a child.
Rent
PG&E
Garbage Service
Phone Service
Diapers[expensve]
Healthcare[SUPER expensive}
Food
Childcare
Clothing
Do you have a ca... (read in full...)
Are there such things as curses? spells?
Q. Hi, Is there really a curse, spells or witch craft exist, or is it in the mind of the person, who's not having a lot of luck, blames it on such things. I know from time to time you could end of having bad luck in your life, but does that mean s...
A. 31 March 2009: This is a really controversial subject so ill just tell you what i know of personally. My family is Romani from eastern europe and these things are a very big deal. Curses and witchcraft and what not are considered VERY real. Now there is also a l... (read in full...)
How do you use tampons?
Q. I want to start wearing tampons and my mom will not help me with it! So how do u put them in? This question is strictly for women!!...
A. 31 March 2009: ok, well if you're a virgin it might be a bit difficult, though it is possible. first you want to make sure you have the right size, so if youre a virgin use slender regulars or slims and if youre not regulars should be fine. this applies to ... (read in full...)
My first time was great...is there something wrong with me?
Q. hey. urm, well here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months, im 16 and he is 19, we decided today to have sex for the first time, my parents are out until sunday so we had a free house, and it went pretty well, exept ive ...
A. 14 November 2008: dont worry the question is perfectly appropriate for this site.
all girls are different when it comes to their first time. its perfectly normal to feel pain and perfectly normal not too. some girls bleed like a stuck pig and some have a great ex... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if he's using her for money but not for sex?
Q. Is a guy cheating on his girlfriend if he just uses another girl for her money and not for sex??...
A. 14 November 2008: Where i live i see a lot of this. Commonly referred to as the 'cash out' and it just makes shit complicated and causes unecessary drama. tell him to get a job. and to be honest most women [at least the ones who would fall for it] arent going to ... (read in full...)
I lost my best friend because I started to date her ex-boyfriend, now I am so sad, and I think I want to break up with my boyfriend to regain her friendship, should I?
Q. my best friends and i have been friends for 2.5 years. we have done alot of things together and gone through alot. we even live under the same apartment. her very first love, i was the cupid who match made them. both of them lasted for about ...
A. 21 August 2008: okay im sorry i know that your in pain and you want your friend back but i dont know if shell ever forgive you, that was the one thing that would totally obliterate your friendship. if my bestfriend started dating my ex... not just my ex but my ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he does decide to settle with me that he'll stay faithful?
Q. Ok for a long while my cousin has tried to get me with her bf of two years' ((who I went to school with)) brother....and about a month and a half ago they introduced us. Turns out I went to school with the brother too. He had just dissappeared after ...
A. 10 August 2008: haha i agree with bluntasaspoon, i normally wouldnt say keep on keepin on, but shes right, sounds lke hes fallin for you. The key with boys like that is to let them think everything is their idea... dont pressure him, let him come to you. as for the ... (read in full...)
Why are horrible people happier?!
Q. at school there is this one girl who is centre of attention. shes pretty and popular. however, she is downright mean. the other day she thought it would be funny to spill a cup of hot chocolate into my desk that had some of my belongings. i knwo she ...
A. 9 August 2008: ooo girl.... theres a reason girls like that are popular and consistently happy (or appear to be), they dont care about others feelings or belongings. People like that dont have any respect, if i was in your position i'd be more than infuriated that ... (read in full...)
I'm scared about sex - I just feel so exposed!
Q. Hi there. I'm a virgin and am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months, who isn't (and who's pretty experienced). I've watched a fair amount of pornography and read a lot about sex, so I'm pretty clued-up about it. But.. I'm really nervo...
A. 9 August 2008: i know exatly how you feel.. when i was a virgin it all jus seemed so intimate and vulnerable. totally opening yourself to someone else sounds terrifying. However pornography, i have to admit, is not an an accurate depiction of what happens between ... (read in full...)
Is she the right one for me?
Q. Hi all, I have a question to ask and desperately need some suggestions! I have been dating this girl for 6 years now, yes that long and we have decided to move to another country to improve our standards in life. All is getting better and bette...
A. 9 August 2008: rule#1 never marry someone youre not in love with....
everything else falls by the wayside
and there is a diference between loving somebody and being in love with somebody so evealuate your relationship and make that delineation
if ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that this girl is going to ruin my life, and there doesn't seem anything I can do to stop it! Please help.
Q. Hey all! Me and my girlfriend were going out for three months when i found out she was cheating on me. We talked it over and decided to stay together. We continued going out for another three months and then she dumped me for a different guy (not ...
A. 9 August 2008: a bit far.... youre kidding
shes friggin psychotic!!! get a restraining order immediately! if she keeps bothering you or your (potential)girlfriend file charges for harassment, and if it
continues file stalking charges.... so on and so forth ... (read in full...)
After several, awful relationships, I met and moved in with a very nice, caring, wealthy man, but he has changed, no sex drive, no romantic overtures, I am unhappy, but with four kids, I can't leave, what do I do, he tries to change but then reverts,
Q. I moved in with my partner last year and since living together, he has changed from someone who was romantic affectionate to someone who sleeps and has a low sex drive. My past relationships were awful, i was married for 13 years to a man who always ...
A. 3 August 2008: well compared to your past relationships hes friggin prince charming! however just in general hes probably the most boring partner ive heard about. if hes not bein what you need then id say leave him, but if you cant do that i suggest you take your ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, my boyfriend is abusive, I'm afraid and don't know what to do.
Q. well to put a long story short. i have been with my boyfriend since my 14th birthday and i was 15 in may, 17 months i have been in the relationship and for about 9 of it it has been terrible. i have wanted to end it but i cant cos he says if i do i ...
A. 6 October 2007: Nobody deserves what your being put through!, Never stay with a person who doesnt make you happy, especially one thats abusive. Hes beaten you and raped you, just the fact that your asking for help shows that you know in your heart that this isnt ... (read in full...)
But what does strawberry flavored lubricant mean?
Q. My boyfriend and I have trouble having sex. He can't fit inside me. Some of my friends tell me to use lubricant. At the drugstore, I saw a whole bunch of kinds. I bought a strawberry flavored one because it smells goo. But what does strawberry ...
A. 6 September 2007: im not going to tell you your too young to have sex because if u feel like ur ready than perhaps u r, however be careful and use condoms always, birthcontrol isnt enough.
strawberry flavored lubricant jus means the lubricant tastes like strawber... (read in full...)
Can I get on the pill even though I am only 15?
Q. I will be 16 in about 5 months. I dont want to wait to have sex with my boyfriend of almost a year until then but under no circumstances will i have sex without doubling up on contraception. So my question is, will the doctor give me a prescription ...
A. 26 August 2007: go to the local planned parenthood office, everything should be confidential and as long as youre over 12 they should give you everything u need... best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
His FRIEND asked me to the ball and it was HIM I wanted to go with...
Q. I really like a guy in my year at school, but sometimes I hate him so much! It all started at the begining of the year, I was new, and he seemed REALLY into me. All the signs pointed that he liked me, he was always talking to me and smiling and touc...
A. 16 August 2007: no it was perfect, it wasnt crap at all. :] dont be scared, it sounds as though hes just as nervous as you, so take a deep breath and relax. I truly wish u the best of luck, and ur absolutely welcome. :) let me kno how it goes -Myesha... (read in full...)
His FRIEND asked me to the ball and it was HIM I wanted to go with...
Q. I really like a guy in my year at school, but sometimes I hate him so much! It all started at the begining of the year, I was new, and he seemed REALLY into me. All the signs pointed that he liked me, he was always talking to me and smiling and touc...
A. 15 August 2007: he sounds confused, with you and himself, if ur leaving at the end of the year then u really have nothing to lose tell him how u feel and if he doesnt like you the same way then at least youll kno. If you cant ask why hes ignoring you then ask him ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my bf asked me to move in with him. Is this a good idea?
Q. Im almost 16 my boyfriend is 17. We've been together quite a while now and both our familys seem to approve. However my boyfriend is having abit of problems at home and is soon getting his own flat. I have also been having a bit of trouble with my ...
A. 14 August 2007: My nother did this when she was 16 and stayed with the guy for 5 years, My english teacher did this also so its not unusual. Its up to you, if it feels right go for it, jus make sure if things dont work out u still have a place at home. I understand ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Anti-spam technology now live :-)
Q. Hi everyone After the recent spate of "spammings" I've introduced some anti-spam measures. I don't want to go into them all in detail here but there are numerous systems in place now to help stop, mitigate and allow you to report spam. The...
A. 14 August 2007: THANK U!! [HUGS]
ur awesome
-Myesha... (read in full...)
How long after you take drugs can you give blood?
Q. heyy its my birthday in a week, and now since they lowered the age to give blood my mom wants me to give. I'm all for it, but the problem is around june i smoked some weed, i'm wondering how long i have to wait before i can give blood? and what ...
A. 14 August 2007: marijuana usually leaves ur system within 30 days on average, double check though, u should b ok if june was the last time but i highly suggest visiting the site Penta linked u too best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
His FRIEND asked me to the ball and it was HIM I wanted to go with...
Q. I really like a guy in my year at school, but sometimes I hate him so much! It all started at the begining of the year, I was new, and he seemed REALLY into me. All the signs pointed that he liked me, he was always talking to me and smiling and touc...
A. 14 August 2007: i doubt he hates you, theres really no valid reason and that seems more than a bit extreme[eek]. Perhaps he was nervous, u wont kno until u ask... i kno that seems mortifying but if u ask in a confident charming way then u wont look or feel as ... (read in full...)
His FRIEND asked me to the ball and it was HIM I wanted to go with...
Q. I really like a guy in my year at school, but sometimes I hate him so much! It all started at the begining of the year, I was new, and he seemed REALLY into me. All the signs pointed that he liked me, he was always talking to me and smiling and touc...
A. 12 August 2007: Ask him what his problem is? maybe he thinks that since u danced with his friend for the ball that u like his friend more than him. U just need to communicate, if u like him tell him how u feel, it seems to me that everyone knows but him, and hes ... (read in full...)
I was hoping I could get some women's advice who have had a tummy tuck procedure?
Q. I got really fat and bad stretch marks and loose skin when I had my 1st baby. I am pregnant with my 2nd. I don't want any more children after this and my stomach is so gross, I was hoping I could get some women's advice who have had a tummy tuck ...
A. 11 August 2007: to be honest the only person who can give you really great professionally informative advice on a tummy tuck, is the surgeon performing the operation. However my mothers friend had a tummy tuck and it looked great.
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
What kind of game is this guy playing with me?
Q. I dont Understand him at all...A couple days ago he wanted me to sneak out of the house so I could spend the night with him...I didnt sneak out of the house because I wuz to afraid...SO today when I check my myspace friends I find out that he had ...
A. 10 August 2007: Why dont u do just that? Ask him why hes acting strange.
Sounds to me like he was tryna get u to sneak outta the house for a booty call and then decided that since u werent cooperating hed jus cut contact. But i dont kno the guy so i cant give you ... (read in full...)
What does the word 'freak' mean?
Q. what does a FREAK mean? I hear people used this term a lot at school, and saying it to people....
A. 10 August 2007: well the definition varies, however where i live (california) its used as a term to describe someone who is sexually adventurous or "kinky", or a person who is renowned for there sexual prowess.
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?
Q. I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...
A. 9 August 2007: somenes paying you to have sex, then horny guys watch. To the general populus thats legal prostitution. Plus, you become the object of fantasy which really pisses women off, cuz there husbands and boyfriends are imagining having sex with u, not with ... (read in full...)
Have i been broken in?
Q. Iv'e Had Sex...But I didnt Bleed...I Just Wanted To Know...Weather Or Not I Have Been 'broke in'...Thank You...
A. 9 August 2007: some girls hymens break before they ever have sex, for instance if you play a lot of sports or dance. Some girls bleed and its really painful others have no blood and it doesnt hurt at all, everyones different but if youve had intercourse then ur ... (read in full...)
Am I gay, straight, or just gender confused?
Q. Hi, I'm having a bit of a tough time. I feel attracted to guys physically and emotionally, but since I was 5 I've imagined dating girls. I was a bit of a tomboy and use to pretend to be a boy. Recently I've been attracted to one girl in particular. ...
A. 9 August 2007: u might jus be bi, if u like girls and guys
-Myesha... (read in full...)
We're both dating other people but still want each other; should we cheat on our partners?
Q. I have been knowing a boy for about 5 years. We used to like each other but then went different ways. He now has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We still like each other so he asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. I don't know what to ...
A. 8 August 2007: if u want him more then ur bf then BREAK-UP with your bf, cheating is wrong and i dont encourage u to do it, but if u like him more then ur bf then like i said dump the bf.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 8 August 2007: ive got one too, some lady from nigeria...they claim
thx for lettin us kno about the reoccurence
-Myesha... (read in full...)
There's an 8 year old boy next door to me and he's emotionally neglected and I hear screaming; what can I do to help him?
Q. i know this is not love or reletionship advice but i need to know what ppl think i have no where eles to turn. I need real help the boy next door well i know he is not treated right not hit bbut shout at alot and i never see him have hugs or kisses ...
A. 8 August 2007: yeah u could offer to babysit, jus being a part of his life will help with the neglect and abandonment issues. idk what they call it in the UK but here in the US we call it CPS or child protective services, if suspect abuse or neglect call ur equiv... (read in full...)
My friend gave me oral sex and I returned the favour; does this make me a lesbian?
Q. i'm not too sure whether i'm a lesbian or not because i slept around my friends house the other night. we had to sleep in the same bed as there wasn't anywhere else to sleep and we both slept naked. about an hour after we'd gone to bed, i got woken...
A. 8 August 2007: not necesarrily, u could be bi unless u jus dont care for guys at all
-Myesha... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: We had over quarter of a million people visit the site over the past month!
Q. Just checking the site stats. We had another milestone... for the first time, in the past 30 days, we had over quarter of a million people visit the site... not 250,000 "hits" or "visits" but actual unique visitors! As counted by Google Anal...
A. 8 August 2007: good suff
-Myesha... (read in full...)
He knows that I hate porn... so when he came home with two videos on his mobile phone I hit the roof!
Q. Hi..... I have a little prblem.. It may seem silly to most but to me its a big deal.. I hate porn or any form relating to porn weather its a girl stripping or full sex I just hate it. My views on this is if a guy or a lassie has pron in thei...
A. 8 August 2007: ok wll he needs to respect your wishes and get over his macho trip. If u dont like it then you need to have a long talk about where u draw the lines in your relationship and whats acceptable to both of you. If he cant respect your request and jus ... (read in full...)
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