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When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?
Q. hey i am 14, i had sex on friday night when me and a few others stoped at my lads mates house and we were not drunk we were sober and i was messing around with this lad and then we went upstairs because this lad had a bad sholder and i said i w...
A. 19 August 2009: Hey. The best time to take a pregnancy test is afew days after you miss a period. However you can get some pregnancy tests that can tell 4 days before your due on your period if you are too anxious to wait. x... (read in full...)
Does young love last?
Q. hiya =] I'm 14 and i was just wondering, if i fell in love at this age, do you think i may be able to spend the rest of my life with someone? I know its unlikely. But it's a complicated story..... If you need more info just ask...but ...
A. 27 June 2009: Hey sweetness.
Well three years ago I met a boy on holiday and I fell in love with him there and then, I was 12 at the time.
He and I lived in separate countries so I couldnt see him.
We kept in contact and a year later he came and visite... (read in full...)
Does young love last?
Q. hiya =] I'm 14 and i was just wondering, if i fell in love at this age, do you think i may be able to spend the rest of my life with someone? I know its unlikely. But it's a complicated story..... If you need more info just ask...but ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi there,
well my autie and uncle have been together since they were 12, and they are now 50, so yeah id say young love lasts.
Gud Luck xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 19 February 2008: hey listen, im sure you really love ur bf and wot u have is special. But i think ur hormones are just a little screwed up at the moment. I dont think ur bf will b 2 happy about it anyway, you need 2 rethink your options. good luck hunni xx... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him. Please help!...
A. 19 February 2008: hey sweeti, erm how old are you because I think if you're only 10 to 12 you've got a problem and you really need to tell your boyfriend x... (read in full...)
My bf keeps asking for sex but I don't know what to do.
Q. dear cupid, My bf keeps asking me for sex, should i say yes or no? I am 13 and don't know what to do.... helppppp...
A. 14 January 2008: Being honest, if you need to ask someone what your answer is then your not ready. If you were you'd know and you wouldnt need to ask. Your bf should understand if your not ready xxx ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom my period has just started when I'm only 10 years old??
Q. HELP! I'm 10 years old and today I started my period in school today for the first time! I didn't tell my mom or the nurse. So so far no one knows except me of course. But I don't know how to tell my mom. She told me one of her freind's daughter is ...
A. 14 January 2008: Well when is started my period i just called my mum into a quiet room and said "mum i think ive started my period" she was really sensitive about it and im sure your mum will be too. Its not your fault you started when you were 10 its nature. Dont ... (read in full...)
Should I abort or have this baby?
Q. help i just found out that i am 2 months pregnant the thing is that it is a result of rape. my family is pushing me to abord it but i dont think i can. i dont know why but something is pushing me to have this baby. i dont know what to do i need some ...
A. 14 January 2008: Mabye this feeling your having to keep the baby is that this baby is still a part of you, its your little son or daughter. It might just be me being bias because i believe abortion is murder. What ever you decide to do just remember its your choice ... (read in full...)
Very self conscious about my big breats. Any natural method for breast reduction?
Q. Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD. Is this too big?? Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds... Should I get a Brea...
A. 12 January 2008: Ok, listen, guys love big boobs. You should feel lucky to have them, im a 34B and i wish i was bigger. Dont stress im sure all of your friends are jelous. I am xx... (read in full...)
What would be the most unpainful position for my virgin girlfriend during sex? Other tips to reduce the hurt?
Q. what would be the most unpainful position, for my girlfriend during sex? if the time comes i really dont want to hert her, what is the best way to make it as painless as possible for her? i would do enything, to keep from hurting her if i...
A. 12 January 2008: Really, you need lubracant, i think condoms have a little lube on them as well so it might make it easier. It better for the girl to go on top for her first time so she can decide how far she wants you to penetrate into her so it doesnt hurt x... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity a while back and it hurt A LOT, but it didn't bleed, is that normal?
Q. I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.. it was hurting alot. and i mean ALOT! but i didnt blead.. idk why because hes realy big.. about 10 in or 10 1/2 yet even thow i was in so much pain i didnt bleed.. is that normal?...
A. 12 January 2008: Dont worry about it, i lost my virginity afew months ago. It hurt like hell but i didnt bleed either, its totally normal.... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I want to do other things.
Q. Heya, I've been with my boyfriend about 3 months now, I'm 14 and in year 10 and he's 16 and left school. I really like him and he wants to have sex with me. I don't want to yet and I've told him, he's fine with it and said that he would ...
A. 12 January 2008: Really, what you need to do is start with alot of hugging and kissing. Tease hima little, mabye unbutton his flies etc. he should get the hints.... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 12 January 2008: well maybe you should try fingering her first to stretch her out a bit. Or if she still doesnt feel comfertable, when she has plenty of privacy, she should play with herself, experiment, and see how good it feels, when you become close to having sex ... (read in full...)
I can't find an opportunity to buy condoms as our parents are restrictive, and I am also afraid they will not accept my bf of different race!
Q. ok so it is not that we are embarrassed to buy condoms it is that every were we go our parents are there so we don't get the time to buy them and when we are alone we are not in a store to buy them.what should i do because if i tell my dad that i ...
A. 12 January 2008: You could just tell your mum your going out for tampons or something, and i think its discriminative that your dad wouldnt like you being with a coloured lad. You should tell him you dont believe in racism... (read in full...)
Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?
Q. is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...
A. 12 January 2008: personally i think its really sweet of a guy to wait until hes in love, it makes the girl feel specail. ok im a bit of a hypocrit here and i totally agree with the uk being full of underage sex.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is smarter, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriend is smarter then me what should i do...
A. 12 January 2008: just be proud of her.... (read in full...)
Will we do it wrong?
Q. Hiya, This is two of us speaking we're 15 and 16. =] Okay, we're really confused about some sexual things so wondered if you could help us with our problems. 1. We're both thinking of going further with guys, that we like, but we're worried ...
A. 12 January 2008: hey there im going to try my best to answer your questions from personal experience.
1. Ok so when my ex fingered me he seemed fine that i hadnt shaved in a few days, only afew months after we broke up he started to give me the nickname stubble,... (read in full...)
How can I convince my friend I am serious about her??
Q. Ok so I have this friend who I really like and she knows I like her but when I try to give her hints on how much she doesn't take me serious. She don't think she will be able to find someone that likes her a lot. So my question is how can I tell her ...
A. 12 January 2008: simple ask her out on a date, really pamper her and show her how much shes worth, good luck hun x... (read in full...)
How is sexual pleasure related to using tampons?
Q. I have been using tampons for about 6 months now. No one has fingered me, or given me oral and i have not had sex. So many people say that you are sensitive in your vagina. If this is so, why doesn't it feel "nice" when you move a tampon in or out...
A. 10 January 2008: No, I dont think anyone gets pleasure from a tampon, its not just the sex that makes it feel good, its the little things like kisses and touching so dont worry huni x... (read in full...)
What is sex like?
Q. I'm asking this totally out of curiosity i do not have a bf or intend on having sex anytime soon. I just want to know what does the pleasure sort of feel like? What does it feel like when your having sex? Is it a warm feeling or what? What sort of ...
A. 10 January 2008: Well, its really hard to explain, you do get really hot and sweaty, and it does hurt for the first time (well it did for me anyway) but my first time i was stupid enough not to use protection then i was panicking for a month until i got my period so ... (read in full...)
The whole school knows I love my teacher but every time I try and get over her it doesn't seem to work.
Q. I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it ...
A. 10 January 2008: Mabye you need to get interested in girls your own age. It might not be such a bad idea moving schools. Well whatever you decide to do good luck sweeti x... (read in full...)
I feel so alone, and like nobody pays attention to me. I can't stop crying. What can I do?
Q. Recently, I've started feeling depressed quite a lot. Just a few nights ago, I couldn't stop crying, and I didn't see the point in my life. I'm in a relationship with a really great guy, but when we argue, or something comes between us, then I j...
A. 10 January 2008: I know what you mean, Im in sort of the same position, only mines to do with family. All I do is give myself something to look forward to, and if I have an argument I cry on my friends shoulder and then well have a laugh. Talk to a frtiend have a ... (read in full...)
I he serious or only toying with me? And if serious, how can I get him to make the first move?
Q. Hi, I know Ive talked about this guy before but lets just say since I got ack to school the other day he's acting in a way that I cant figure him out. We flirt all the time and today he slapped my ass and he keeps making gestures with his tongue (I ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi again, well some of you wanted information on the situation, lets just say last summer me and him got very close once or twice, and hes flirting with me the way he did then. It didnt work out, and we went our own separate ways for the rest of the ... (read in full...)
Was she preoccupied or embarassed?
Q. Hello. There's this girl who I'm just starting to get to know. I like her a lot, and am hoping she likes me too. Can you tell me if you think she does, or if she's just being freindly. I skied with her for a while, and we rode the lift together ...
A. 8 January 2008: I can tell she totally likes you, usually when a girl walks past witht their heads down and they have nothing in their hands there embarressed so you should ask her out good luck x... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?
Q. ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really rea...
A. 8 January 2008: Mabye you should tell your friend how your feeling or better yet the lad you like, I mean its completely against the rules to date you best friends boyfriend, but hey if you really like him then screw the rules. Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do you keep a secret that is burning you inside?
Q. How do you keep a secret from anyone, one secret which is mine (i kept for 6 years but can't cope anymore, it's killing me inside and making me mad) the other which is my families...
A. 8 January 2008: Well its hard to keep secrets (Im a complete blabber mouth)but the best thing is not to think about it, I know that can be hard. You could also write it down on a piece of paper, write down all of your feelings and secrets and really let your heart ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't want my grandma at my wedding, what can I do?
Q. I need help again. Please refer to my last question (about my controlling mother) for more in-depth background information. Really quickly- planning a wedding, mom and her own mother (my grandmother) do not speak. Mom has said she isn't allowed ...
A. 8 January 2008: You should sit down and explain to your mum that its your wedding and you would feel happy without your Grandma there. I hope you have a lovley 'big day' x... (read in full...)
I have a thing for virgins! Is this normal?
Q. I am a 21 year old female, and I have a thing for guys who are virgins. I really don't know why, I am not attracted to young boys, it is certianly not to do with age... so I am not a female pedophile at all, I just find myself wanted to sleep with ...
A. 8 January 2008: No, theres absoloutly nothing wrong with it, you probably feel that theyre more respectable x... (read in full...)
Do I contact him or should I wait for him to contact me??
Q. I met a really great guy online. He's a few years older than me, divorced - I was never married, just engaged, though both our partners cheated on us - both these relationships ended about 5 years ago. I have a kid which this guy has known about si...
A. 8 January 2008: I think you should text him tonight, but start the conversation casual, then ask him. Good luck, I hope you enjoy tomorrow.... (read in full...)
She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?
Q. i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all ...
A. 7 January 2008: I dont think you should mary this girl if you arent completely commited and drawn to her. Remember, you cant divorce until 2 years. Just think to yourself, do you really want to be commited to her?? Good Luck.... (read in full...)
Every time we have an argument he kicks me out. Do I let him come to me or should I go to him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, we've lived together 9 of those months. We have been friends for 10 years, so we know each other very well. 3 months ago, he broke up with me, and because he pays all the bills, asked me to move out. ...
A. 7 January 2008: I Definatley think you should let him come to you, then you will find out how much he really wants you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....
A. 5 January 2008: I agree with Limbo57... (read in full...)
Lesbian sisters?
Q. hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...
A. 5 January 2008: Yes its wrong number 1 shes under age, number 2 she your sister!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Scared about Sex for the first time. Can you help?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend have decided we want to have sex, but i have never been fingered or used a tampon before so i'm scared it will hurt alot i tried to use a tampon the other day but i'm not sure what hole to insert in so can someone please t...
A. 5 January 2008: I dont think youll worry too much about the pain when your having sex. You dont really care what it feels like for the first time. You have to make sure you are definatley sure if your scared then your not ready. It doesnt hurt for everyone it might ... (read in full...)
Am I average height and weight for a 16 year old?
Q. hi can anyone tell me the average weight for a 16 year old. iam 136 pounds and 5feet 8 inches. is this normal?...
A. 5 January 2008: The anonymous answerer is absoloustly right apart from the fact that she feels fat because shes curvy, but you are a great weight and height for your age, remember muscle weighs more than fat. im 14 5 ft 4 and im 9 1/2 stone im not sure what that is ... (read in full...)
Who gets the best orgasms - men or women?
Q. Im not sure if there is an actual answer to this, but do both sexes get the same amount of pleasure during sex? for example if they both reach their 'peak' orgasm. in other words, wat sex overall recieves more pleasure?...
A. 4 January 2008: I think boys and girls both get the same amount of pleasure however lads can get an orgam in more ways than girls e.g girls cant get a real orgasm through intercourse.... (read in full...)
I'm a 14 year old girl and can't stop masturbating to lesbian porn!
Q. What`s wrong with me!? Okay I`m 14 years old and I littrally just turned 14 last week. Anyway, I`m obsessed with masturbating! I`ve been doing it since I was 12. When I first got the internet on my computer at the age of 12 my parents said "dont ...
A. 4 January 2008: No, if you like boys then it doesnt make you a lesbian unless you have feelings for girls. A lot of girls get off on lesbian porn, its just that none of them talk about it because their scared of being considered a lesbian.... (read in full...)
What could be making my daughter so miserable? How do I through the parent/child barrier?
Q. Dear cupid, My daughter is 13 years old and for the past couple of months she seems to be really miserable, i've tried talking to her, i've even asked what is wrong but she always says nothing, my husband tried to find out why she is so miserbale ...
A. 4 January 2008: I know it doesnt seem like it, but your daughter may be having problems with friends mabye her and her friend likes the same boy or something. Silly little things are really emotional to young girls. ... (read in full...)
How do we tell each other of our love? (neither of us will admit his feelings and I leave the country soon)
Q. ok, here's the deal... I like this boy and I know he likes me back. But I won't accept i have a crush on him and he won't either. What should i do?? I'm really desperate! Besides I'm leaving to Mexico in 2 days!!...
A. 4 January 2008: If youve only got afew days, the best way is to confront him and tell ask him how he feels about you, if he says he likes you then tell him how you feel about him. Good luck!!... (read in full...)
At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?
Q. hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx...
A. 4 January 2008: Well, the next time you go on a date with him try and pre-think questions or conversations you can bring up to break the silence, try and think of conversations he knows alot about so he can babble away. Dont worry I didnt really talk to my bf much ... (read in full...)
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