Can this relationship be saved??
Q. My ex and I have been together for 6 years and we have a child together. We seperated on several occasions but always get back together. The dynamics have changed since the last 2 breakups because we slept with other people and we realized...
A. 2 December 2007: I think this relationship CAN be saved. If there is enough love, trust, and LOYALTY it will work. If you want to put that effort into your relationship you have to stick with it and let her know you'll do anything for her. When you break up with ... (read in full...)
We are back together but he still can't believe I did nothing with this other guy.
Q. My boyfriend can't let go..about a year ago i knew a guy and we were talkin but just as friends i knew this guy from school and i told my boyfriend about him then he heared from a friend that im cheating on him with this guy though i never did this ...
A. 1 December 2007: Do people know that you are not a virgin? If not, do not be with him. I had a similar situation,and it's not fair to you. That is what youdid in your pastand no one needs to know that but you. I made a similar mistake of him pressuring me into ... (read in full...)
We plan on getting married, we love each other, but the sex is drying up, I am wondering if he really loves me?
Q. I have been with my BF for 2 years now, we bought a house in the summer so since 6 months. We love each other so much that I think we love each other so bad. It is so funny why we love each other so much when we have sex once a week and when we do ...
A. 21 November 2007: I know how your feeling. First of all DO NOT let video games get in the way of your relationship. It's so bad, and pointless. If your boyfriend likes to play fine but tell him to limit himself, that extra hour of half hour not playing could be you ... (read in full...)
What do the lines mean on a pregnancy test?
Q. I did a test from my doctors, a pregnancey one and it doesnt tell you what the lines mean could you tell me what one blue line mean and two lines mean please asap Thankyou Sam...
A. 12 April 2007: One line- not pregnant
Two lines- pregnant
good luck... (read in full...)
Do you think I should break things off with my boyfriend?
Q. im going out with this boy for 2 months who i really like and he really likes me but i think i am still in love with my ex, he borke up with me just less than a year ago. my ex's m8 is telling me he still has lots of feelings for me....please help ...
A. 12 April 2007: I would talk to your ex before believing what anyone says. Start talking to him again. I do feel bad for ur current bf though, it was kind of a rebound which no one really likes. But if your feelings and ur ex's feelings are that strong maybe you ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend had dry sex and my mate filmed it on her phone!
Q. me and my bf have had dry sex and my m8 filmed it on her fone and she has showed loads of people, but as i am only 13 loads of people are calling me a slut. but the real problem is that my bf wants to do it again but im not sure now that people are ...
A. 12 April 2007: You're 13 honey you shouldn't be having sex, or dry sex. It's not a pleasant thing to do. Its supposed to be special with your partner, and romantic. Flaunting it around isn't so smart. I really don't think you should do it again. ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be thinking about marrying this woman someday?
Q. I have only been with my girlfriend for 10 months... and we are young. I have never met someone like her... as I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person.... in otherwords, I'm a little quirky. I've had my past relationships... but this one is ...
A. 12 April 2007: NOT AT ALL. Im 19 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage since we were 14. Imagine that. It's really not that simple but I won't get into it. Now that we're together for a year, we always talk about our future, even having kids ... (read in full...)
14 and I'm curious about sex...should me and my gf do it? any thoughts?
Q. this may sound like a silly question but i really want to have sex with my boyfriend.we have been going out now for 13 months got with him on my 13th birthday im now 14 he is 16 and i feel like i am ready but im scared. he is a virgin and i am a ...
A. 12 April 2007: You have to be absolutly positive this is the man you want to share a great experience with. 14 is very young although I lost my virginity when I was 14 as well. It's great that both of you are virgins and you've been together for a long time. That ... (read in full...)
I need some thoughts on this major "school drama" that went down! Who was right and who was wrong? Any thoughts?
Q. I was just wondering what the readers of dear Cupid thought about something that happened to my friend a little while ago. It has puzzled me greatly over who was in the right or wrong. A friend of mine was really popular in the centre of her gr...
A. 12 April 2007: I think both were in the wrong. If she was pregnant, the boy should always be there to go with her to the doctor or support her in any way she needed. And he shouldn't have treated her badly by making her depressed and making her feel bad ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and unhappy with the way my bf treats me! What should I do?
Q. Hi I don't know if I am over reacting but my boyfriend is really bugging me 'cause he keeps sending messages to his ex, it's nothing flirty but it bothers me 'cause I am pregnant right now and he keeps on calling her Aunt Sara and things in the ...
A. 12 April 2007: Aw!!! That's horrible. I know how it feels to have someone that doesn't practice the same religion. I'm Christian and my bf doesn't believe. So it's hard on both of you. But he should respect you for your decision. Your baby's religion though, you ... (read in full...)
I need advice on what to do with my hair! Any suggestions?
Q. HELP!!!!!!!! im tired of my old-fashoned-hairstyle. i have curly hair but i always blow dry it so it gets straight. i have above-the-shoulder-length and side bangs. a lot of people have told me to get the "V" haircut but i havent seen it yet. if y...
A. 12 April 2007: Go to google.com type in V hairstyle look at U tube, or go to images and look at Mary Kate and Ashly Olsen's pics. It's actually really nice, I'm getting my hair done Sunday I might do that! HAHA. Good Luck.... (read in full...)
My gay partner is wanting me to quit the job I love! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to quit my job to stay at home. I don't want to quit my job so please any advice? I'm a 20 year old man and I've been with a 33 year old man for almost 3 years now. I've known him for about 5 years though. He's a really ni...
A. 12 April 2007: Tell him how you feel. Tel him you want to work and bring some income into the house. Tell him you truthfully don't want to be sitting at home doing laundry and cleaning. Tell him what an amazing and sdtrong man you think he is, but you want to have ... (read in full...)
Was it stupid to give up my feelings for a girl because of a friend's feelings?
Q. If you really fancy someone but you best friend fancy that person as well, do you let them have her and you back away? Well, this is what i've done, was this stupid?...
A. 12 April 2007: I'm always the person to help people. And I'm that type of person, togive up a guy I like so my friend can have him. Truthfully, that's very sweet of you, but sometimes you have to think about yourself and your situation. There are other guys out ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him?
Q. Hi, i've only been wth my boyfriend 4 months but i really love him and he tells me he loves me, but i can't sem 2 trust him. I really want to as he is now talking about ending things which i do not want, and i wanna change. Every man i've been ith ...
A. 12 April 2007: Tell him this. Tell him exactly how you feel and that your past boyfriends didn't treat you good. Tell him you are a little nervous because that's what your used to. Tell him that you love him and you want things to work out. You just have to be a ... (read in full...)
Bf's friend is reducing my time with him. How can I tell him this?
Q. Hi i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. It's a very serious relationship and I love spending time with him. The first month we were dating we were together all the time doing everything, having fun. He has a friend who never goes ...
A. 12 April 2007: Well that's not good. My best friend's bf is the same way he gambles a lot and he's always out with his boys. Not as bad as Nick but similar. The best suggestion I have is tell him you have to talk to him privatly. Tell him you love spending time ... (read in full...)
she made out with him and gave him a hand job and this really bothers me.
Q. I like one of my close friends, she is everything i'm looking for in a girl, and i think i might luv her. but the only thin holding me back is that when i asked her out, she said her guy friends are either "jus friends" or "dating friends",at that ...
A. 11 April 2007: Ok, well I think you should talk to your brother and ask him if he still has feelings for her. Tell him you like her and you want to go out with her. Depending on what your brother says, I think you and the girl should get to know each other more ... (read in full...)
Does she want to be with me or is it the sex she wants!?
Q. I have known this girl for over 7 months now it has moved to her staying over sleeping separately then then sleeping together then we split for about a month no contact... Got together again moved in with each other great sex, then she left again ...
A. 11 April 2007: You guys are adults. TALK TO HER. Tell her listen we've been through some rough times but I like you. You say you want to get over me, but you keep calling. So which one is it, do you want to be with me or not? Plain and simple ask her straight up ... (read in full...)
How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends with them?
Q. I haven't been in a relationship since before the summer of 2007, and I really want to find a girlfriend, someone that I really care about. But I just don't have that many female friends. How can I be more outgoing around girls and become friends ...
A. 11 April 2007: You are pretty much old enough to be going to nightclubs, and lounges, and house parties, and fun events like this. You definately should find a girl at one of those places. It's fun to go out and meet all different kind of people. You have to get ... (read in full...)
I want her to be more affectionate, shouldnt she be comfortable being affectionate after 2 months ?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. She is really self conscious, and she even admitted it. She and I have held hands, etc, but at school she doesn't like anything else but hugging. I respect her space and comfort, but I really ...
A. 11 April 2007: Well, maybe you should talk to her and ask her how she feels about being affedtionate with you. Tell her how you feel. tell her that you really like her and holding hands hugging, and kissing means a lot to you and you want to do it more often. Tell ... (read in full...)
I have a low self esteem and dont hold any of myself in high regard at all!! Please help!!!
Q. I really hate my body and my low self esteem is beginning to distract me from everything else that i should be focussing on. I actually feel a constant disgust from just being in my skin, i can't look at myself in the mirror without seeing all my ...
A. 11 April 2007: I know how you feel, because I'm kind of in the same situation. I suggest going on Weight Watchers, or a diet that fits your schedule. It's real easy and it works. I lost 10 pounds once. Now I have a bf for a year and i gained all I lost and more ... (read in full...)
He lives across the country and I care a lot. How do I deal with the long distance?
Q. i've fallen hard for someone who lives on the opposite side of the country and it's highly unlikely i'll be able to see him again for at least another three years (until i graduate university). we email constantly and chat online and i got to see ...
A. 10 April 2007: If you are serious about the relationship, and you want to be with him, there is a possibility of you guys being together. Its takes a lot of trust. My friend has been in a long distance relationship for 4 years now, and they are still together. It ... (read in full...)
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