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Am I crazy for donating my eggs even if it makes my boyfriend mad?

Q.   Today I saw a show on TLC about great people, great couples not being able to have children and it broke my heart. I have a son and I'm not wanting to do the pregnancy thing over again but I cant help but want to help. I'm a full-time student and I ...

A.   13 March 2008: Im 18 now and I'll do what i please, so please get off your high horse lady!... (read in full...)

I'm 15 with no boyfriend, but I want to have sex...what should I do?

Q.   Hey there im 15 ive not had a proper boyfriend (and still don't) but i really want to have sex ino i obviously can't but im so down about it :( help me pleaseeee x...

A.   13 March 2008: I was the same way when i was your age! I just wanted to have sex i felt i was ready and that i needed to do it right then and there. So i did. I had the opportunity and i went for it and till this day i regret it! I wish i would have waite... (read in full...)

How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?

Q.   How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual a...

A.   13 March 2008: I had the same problem and fantasy I didn't tell my bf for a year and a half and then one day i just finally blurted it out. I told him i wanted him to be rough and use force. He smiled and he was just thrilled i finally opened up. I was really g... (read in full...)

How can I help my girlfriend handle depression and the past when she won't talk to me about it??

Q.   hello, im here out of concern, i have a really loving and awsome gf. we have great communication skills and it is really easy for us to talk and be together...but for the past month i feel that she has receeded into a form of depression..due to ...

A.   13 March 2008: Just let her know that you are there. Of course you don't want to pressure her to talk but she is probably wanting to talk it out with you, she's just nerves and afraid of your reaction. When you guys are alone together give her a big hug and while ... (read in full...)

We have broken up and I cant stand her flirting with others...i need time for us to be friends.

Q.   Ok I broke up with my girlfriend, the issue is: I've not told a girl before I loved her, and I did to her and meant it. She told me she loved me. However, following valentines day and my birthday she told me and wrote to me telling me she loved me,...

A.   12 March 2008: No, dont chase after her, she will get way to much pleasure from it! In fact turn the tables. She is probably flirting in front of you on purpose, why dont you go out there find you a good rebound and get over this girl. If you put your atte... (read in full...)

Can a woman get pregnant having sex on the first day of her period?

Q.   Can a woman get pregnant after having sex on the first day of her period?...

A.   12 March 2008: You cant! I know you cant, they made us study it in health another thing is that the first week after you period is the safest time to have sex but why risk it get on some kind of birth control.... (read in full...)

How can I accept my pregnancy and the idea of adoption? Is there any other option?

Q.   i'm celeste...i'm 13 going on 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant. i found out way too late. me and my boyfriend used a condom but it must have split without us realising. the first thing i said was i wanted an abortion. but they wouldn't give me ...

A.   12 March 2008: Okay, im not going to call you a brat or pass any kind of judgement because that is that last thing you need. What i will do is tell you a little about me and then give you my opinion. I got pregnant at age 16 and for a long time i sometimes ... (read in full...)

If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Other implications of such exception?

Q.   If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Please, I'm really worried I could be pregnant. So if your period comes, but is late, what does this mean? Is there something wrong with the pregnancy, or are you not pregnant at all? Thank ...

A.   12 March 2008: Then i think your in the clear, just make sure this scare doesnt happen again. Your young and you have so much life ahead of you. There are so many options when it comes to birth control. If you didnt want your parents to know they wouldnt have to. ... (read in full...)

If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?

Q.   im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...

A.   12 March 2008: This one is easy! Hes young and stupid! You are to young to be having kids, you are a kid yourself. Being 14 is hard going through high school is hard and having a baby doesnt make it easier. Take it from me i was a preganat teen and having a bab... (read in full...)

If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Other implications of such exception?

Q.   If you're pregnant, can you still have a late period? Please, I'm really worried I could be pregnant. So if your period comes, but is late, what does this mean? Is there something wrong with the pregnancy, or are you not pregnant at all? Thank ...

A.   12 March 2008: Most of he time when you get your period it means your not pregnant but in rare and i mean rare cases you can have a period at the beginning of your pregnancy. I did. The period is usually very light and last three days or less. If it seemed like ... (read in full...)

I want to be the person I was before I had my daughter. Any advice??

Q.   I just had my daughter four months ago and ever since I got pregnant my entire personality has changed...for the worse!!! I used to be a happy go lucky get along with everyone kinda of person and now i am depressed and angry and rude an sarcasti...

A.   12 March 2008: Having children really takes a toll on your body. It not only effects the outside but also the in. It sounds like to me you could be suffering from postpartum. No matter how hard you try to fight it, you cant do it alone. You should talk to your ... (read in full...)

Is masturbation a turn-off?

Q.   is masturabation a turnoff to a girl i do it regularly will it effect my sex life?...

A.   12 March 2008: Bamsido14, It shouldnt effect your sex life. I find it to be a turn on. But like she said just keep it to yourself until you know who ever your seeing thinks it is too.... (read in full...)

I need to lose the pounds quickly!

Q.   hi, How much weight will I lose by Easter Sunday if I do one hour on the treadmill a day at 6km per hour, and eat one apple everyday and nothing else. I'm 5 ft 3 and 9 and a half stone, so I really want to shed the pounds. Also, what would be the ...

A.   12 March 2008: honey, If you want to shed some pounds and keep off what you take off i can tell you. I have some experience in the matter. First what your doing will get you fast results but for sure will catch up to you. You want to lose the weight and K... (read in full...)

Will my boyfriend ever meet my family?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now and he will not meet my family. I have asked him a few times to meet them by inviting him to events and what not and he still will not. I come from a big, tight-knit, Italian family. My family is ...

A.   12 March 2008: honey, Meeting the parents is a big step for any relationship. If he's been hurt in past relationships its going to be harder for him to make this move. Take things a little slower. Its only been four months focus on getting to know him and no o... (read in full...)

It's not you... It's me?!

Q.   After dating a guy for a month, having a blast together and talking about future dates and fun plans together... I had a "bad day" at work and was really quiet while spending time with him that evening and it upset him in the long run - ...

A.   12 March 2008: Honey, Don't even worry about this. Chances are that its not you. It might sounds like a stupid tired line, but most guys who are turned off by a girl wouldn't give them a 2hr break-up speech. He would avoid phone calls. If you had one off date... (read in full...)

How can I meet other girls and how should I approach them??

Q.   I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old crowd that go to ...

A.   12 March 2008: This is 2008 almost every girl is open minded about bisexuality or they are bi themselves. Just be yourself and be forward about who you are and what your looking for. Don't be afraid to tell people your sexuality, be proud of it, flaunt it! If you ... (read in full...)

Making myself sick to lose weight, will it work?

Q.   I'm 15 and I weigh 11 stone. I look at myself as fat, but I know I'm not that fat but for my age I am over weight. Ii stopped eating for 4 days once and I lost half a stone. As soon as I ate again I put on half a stone again but recently I've bee...

A.   12 March 2008: Honey, I was the same way. I use to eat very little and work off everything i ate. When i went to bed hungry i was proud of myself. But after a whole summer of it, it got old. I started craving to be normal again but after doing it for so long my ... (read in full...)

He is older then me and if anyone in my school finds out before I graduate he can get fired.

Q.   I'm currently in a dilemma. I'm a college student about to graduate in a couple of weeks and I'm currently seeing this guy that works there. We aren't supposed to be together and he is seven years older then me. He has so many good qualities ...

A.   12 March 2008: Seven years is'nt that big of a difference. Its not like he went out looking to find someone your age, it just happened. I think your problem has nothing to do with age. In my opinon nothing stays a secret, its hard to keep things hush hush and if ... (read in full...)

We've been together 2 months and he's cheated on me. How do I know for sure he won't do this again?

Q.   Recently my boyfriend admited that he cheated on me. I forgave him after a period of time. Up to now I am not having any trust issues but I am worried that it may happen again we have only been together for 2 months but I really like him and I think ...

A.   12 March 2008: Once a cheater, always a cheater! The longer you stay in this relationship the more you will get attached and the worse you will feel when he does it again. Its only been two months he couldn't keep it in his pants for two months. You need to have ... (read in full...)

Women and stretch marks.

Q.   I had a baby and now I have stretch marks. Are men turned off by stretch marks?...

A.   12 March 2008: Honey, I wouldn't worry to much about it. I had my son very young and im scared for live! My stretch marks are pretty bad. I didn't take off my shirt for my boyfriend or even let him touch my stomach for a long time. I found out that my lack of ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?

Q.   Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i ...

A.   11 March 2008: IF you have to ask yourself if your boyfriend is gay and you don't automatically think that the thought of him being gay is ridiculous than chances are HES GAY ... (read in full...)

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