Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?
Q. I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...
A. 1 October 2010: Yes, it is normal to want it. However like the others have said, performing the action at 13 is not. In the long run it will end up hurting you and you will regret it. My advice is to listen to everyone and do not do anything that makes you feel ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?
Q. I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...
A. 30 September 2010: Yes, it is normal to want it. However like the others have said, performing the action at 13 is not. In the long run it will end up hurting you and you will regret it. My advice is to listen to everyone and do not do anything that makes you feel ... (read in full...)
A bad time in the a relationship for the nice guy
Q. hey all i want to ask a very diffacult question i am 18 and my gf is 15 turning 16 she is might be pregenet with anothers man kid hu doesnt belive her and since i love her i will take the kid as my own but everytime she gos to guys house to talk ...
A. 15 September 2010: I'm sorry but my advice is to break up with her. First of all you are 18 while she is 16. I'm am guessing you are more mature then her and she still has alot of growing up to do.
Second, she acts aggressive towards you and it seems like she is n... (read in full...)
She lied and I broke up with her, now I don't know what to do!
Q. When my girlfriend and I first hooked up, I didn't have feelings at all. She told me about the last guy she's been with and how she gave him head. I didn't care cause I was just hooking up with her. Months later and here I am 9 months later still ...
A. 15 September 2010: Well,
If I were you I wouldn't have broken up with her but since you already did then the only option is to get over her. Concentrate on other things and within time you will be over her.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to combine being gay with being a catholic?
Q. I've been raised in a catholic family and have always believed in god, but lately I have become more agnostic. I'm gay and feel like a bit of an outcast in the church. I'm not out, and don't think my family will accept it. As far I know, bein...
A. 15 September 2010: I personally think that if you believe in God that should be your main concern. Is your relationship with Him. I think people put too much focus on their religion and not enough on God.
Now from my understanding is that sex is only ok with you... (read in full...)
This relationship lacks so much affection
Q. I have been in a relationship for seven years now. We live together, am engaged, and I have an eight year old son. However, this relationship lacks so much affection. He has never been the affectionate type, however I like affection. I don't need a ...
A. 13 September 2010: I'm sorry, this must be painful for you.
Your relationship lacks more then just affection. It lacks communication. That is one of the things you NEED in a relationship. You cannot survive in one without communication.
Try talking one more... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my BFF's ex
Q. I have a guy friend named 'Nick'. We have been friends for 6 months. In that time, we have been throughso much together, and he is now one of my closest friends. Until a month ago, he was also going out with my BFF. They had a nasty breakup, b...
A. 13 September 2010: I would talk with your best friend over this. Try to understand it from her point of view. Things did not end well between them and it was HIM who broke up with her.
I could understand her being very upset.
If she disagrees and gets upset y... (read in full...)
She is so selfish, she's driving my crazy!!!
Q. ughhh someone please give me some advice!! i dont mean to sound nasty but my friend is driving me mad! she is so selfish... she broke up with her boyfriend over 6 months ago and was having an affair with another man at the same time she broke u...
A. 7 September 2010: Your friend doesn't sound like a very healthy or kind person.
I think it would be wise to distance yourself from her. Find someone who will listen to you.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!
Q. Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of ...
A. 31 August 2010: Wow....re-read what you wrote sweetie...
"he showed me and little private box in his car, and there was condoms in there"
"So sometimes when things happen with his friend for example he wouldn't tell me"
There are some big red flags...I w... (read in full...)
My little sister wants to have sex in the church! what can I do?
Q. this question is for my little sister she is 16 and she really wants to have sex with her boyfriend she thinks she will be with him forever i dont know what to tell her his parents are total assholes and the only place they can have sex is church ...
A. 31 August 2010: Unfortunately there is little you can do unless you are really to tell your parents.
I understand you feel horrible about this but this is her life and you are not her mother. As much as love and care for her it is not your job and you either l... (read in full...)
Is not trying to have sex with someone respectful?
Q. Is not trying to have sex with somebody respectful? Somebody was telling me how they knew this guy in college who was really great, etc and wanted her to move away with him. She then told me that he was really respectful because he didn't try to ...
A. 31 August 2010: It means that you show you care for them and you are not just using them for sex. I find these types are usually gentleman and I feel safe being around them knowing they will not try to use me.
If you are in a relationship it can even also app... (read in full...)
She doesn't understand my problems with the club scene
Q. My girlfriend likes to go to clubs to dance with her girlfriends and i know she wont dance with any guys. Heres what bothers me though, I dont like her getting all scantily clad and going into a predatory environment. Guys at clubs want to grind ...
A. 29 August 2010: Why not go with her to the club?... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 5 August 2010: "We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months..."
Don't worry about it. :) It might take a bit longer then a few months. Go see a doctor if you feel concerned.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is this forgivable and would you forgive?
Q. I just got out of counselling over an issue that I am having a very hard time forgiving myself for. I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on ...
A. 23 July 2010: You are not a monster!
You made a mistake but realize it and feel guilty.
NOW move on. Forgive yourself because it is very unhealthy to continue like this.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Has anyone been in a similar relationship to mine? He cheats and puts me down.
Q. I am so lost. My boyfriend that I have lived with for the past 4 years is cheating on me, puts me down constantly and always calls me names and tells me he hopes i have a terrible life. I want to break up with him soo bad but I live with him an...
A. 23 July 2010: Wow...honey you need to get out now. I know you are having trouble and right now depend on him. So you need to either go back to family. Or wait. Get another job as soon as possible and move in with a friend.
Leave asap!
Keep us updated!... (read in full...)
I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?
Q. I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 ...
A. 13 July 2010: BAD idea!
Don't try to get revenge...trust me it will kick you in the butt.
Instead get over her. Stop thinking about her and move on with your life.
The best thing you can do is move on and be happy!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
My stretch marks!
Q. im 14 years old and i have stretchmarks. im so embarised by them that i were shorts with my bikkini i like evry part of my body exept my upper legs. does anyone know a cheep way i cood get rid of them bye next summer?...
A. 13 July 2010: I think you should get a doctor to look at it and get his/her advice. :)
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Help! Am I plan "B"???
Q. Ok so I met this guy and we started texting he was really sweet and we had a lot in common. We talked on the phone for 2 hours one night, and tried to get to know each other more. When we first started talking he said he wanted a relationship and ...
A. 12 July 2010: Yes, you are plan B. Get rid of him!!
You deserve more then that!... (read in full...)
In a relationship but I don't feel we see each other enough...
Q. hey every1! me and my bf have been going out for more than 3 years and we're both 20(im a month older. He works at least 4 days a week so we only ever end up seeing each other once a week and we text for like 2 hours a day. I feel like this isnt g...
A. 12 July 2010: I know how you feel but I'm in the position of your boyfriend. I work 5 days a week and have long hours sometimes, 12pm-11p...
I feel like I never spend time with my bf and I live with him!!
But I simply cannot do anything about it. I need... (read in full...)
How can I let this go?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing one another for 10 (ten) months now. I love him to bits, and everyone and anyone can see how head over heels I am for him. The only problem is I feel very insecure, because of something that happened in the ...
A. 12 July 2010: I'm still a little confused. Did you find this text recently or in the beginning of the relationship?... (read in full...)
Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?
Q. hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ...
A. 12 July 2010: I agree with TimmD, since his penis was inside you then I wouldn't consider you a virgin. Again like he said it is all of a matter of opinion. Since he pulled out before you two really engaged in sex then you could also say you are still a virgin. ... (read in full...)
My stretch marks!
Q. im 14 years old and i have stretchmarks. im so embarised by them that i were shorts with my bikkini i like evry part of my body exept my upper legs. does anyone know a cheep way i cood get rid of them bye next summer?...
A. 12 July 2010: What are the stretchmarks from?? ... (read in full...)
He tells me he'll kill me if I leave him
Q. Yesterday was my b-day and I went out with my girls after while we went back over to where my car was and jumped in the vam (that I gave my fiance)as I'm getting in I reach in the side pocket and pull out (5) condoms you can tell it was a(6) pack ...
A. 11 July 2010: Go to the police...this man is dangerous and you are putting yourself and your kids at risk.
Go to a women's shelter in your area.
Run now while you have the chance!
Keep us updated!... (read in full...)
How to move on when badly hurt?
Q. Help! Since my boyfriend ended things suddenly three months ago I am getting more angry and depressed as time goes on, rather than feeling any better. I can look back now and see that he was insincere and didn't love me like he said he did. He ...
A. 11 July 2010: Talking about it helps so don't apologize for explaining how you feel. This is what dearcupid is for.
The reason why you are not feeling better is because you have not tried to move on. Instead you focus on him and his relationships. You feel bit... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 18. He wants to have sex but doesn't want a relationship!
Q. i really like this boy and he's eighteen and we've been really close for ages. he say he wants to have sex with me and do other stuff but he doesnt want a relationship or know what he wants. it really upsets me coz he would be a great bf but i dont ...
A. 10 July 2010: Wow.....he sounds like bad news!
He wants sex but doesn't want a relationship...in other words he is just using you for his pleasure and doesn't care for you at all! You would be just a slut to him if you do have sex with him.
Also think ab... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend show me affection?
Q. me and my girl has been together for 2-3 months. we had the same class in school and started talking when we saw each other. at that time she had a boyfriend and talked to me about her relationship with him. we also talked about anything else and ...
A. 10 July 2010: I think you should sit down and have a talk with her. Ask her how she feels about you. Talk to her about ending it. Tell her everything...
Then decide from there...
Don't forget to update! :)
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Separated, girlfriend got pregnant, had abortion, he wants her friendship but wants us to work it out, how??
Q. my husband and i have had our ups and downs and so on may 30th 2010 i left him and during the 3wks i was go he met someone else and they had ben having sex and i coame back so we could work things out and things were going fine and then i find out ...
A. 10 July 2010: Wow, yea my advice is to move on. You don't need this kind of drama. Especially where he still wants to be her friend. He is playing the both of you. You don't deserve this.
You will never be at peace if you stay with him.
Let go and mo... (read in full...)
My husband isn't interested in having sex with me, but had sex with a stripper!
Q. my husband doesnt want to make love to me or even me touching him do you think that their is someone else i use to wake him up with love making before and now he says he doesnt like it whats really going on this past october he told me that he had ...
A. 10 July 2010: Leave him!
He cheated on you and your relationship is falling apart.
You don't deserve him!... (read in full...)
Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??
Q. I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost ...
A. 10 July 2010: Go to the doctor now!... (read in full...)
My b/f upset because he says I encouraged guy who asked me out!
Q. A guy I didn't expect to, asked me out, when I am already in a relationship with someone else. I told him I'm already committed and suggested if he wanted we could just remain friends. Now my boyfriend thinks that I shouldn't have "encoura...
A. 10 July 2010: Try to understand how your boyfriend feels. What if a pretty girl asked him out. He refused but offered friendship. They are now friends and are hanging out. You know she wants him and wants more then friendship. Would you be ok with her spending ... (read in full...)
I think I need to break off the LDR but unsure how to do it
Q. Hi. I am a young man from Germany who is in a long-distance relationship with a Brazilian girl from Brazil. We met 4 years ago, over the internet. I visited her the first time 3 years ago and since then we were in a long-ass-distance relationship. ...
A. 10 July 2010: I think it will be better if you break up with her now. You know you are going to break up with her so it is not fair to lead her on. Especially if you go there and last minute break up. Write her a e-mail now explaining everything.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
He says he loves me, but also loves his girlfriend? Help please!
Q. hey guys, hope you can help me in my situation.??Basically me and this guy have known each other for 4 years, we always liked each other, but knew we couldnt do anything about our feelings. We were always very very close mates and always there for ...
A. 10 July 2010: He is in a relationship...time to move on. He's right, it isn't fair to his girlfriend or you that you two continue like this. The best thing to do is move on. It will be hard but in the long run it will be better.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I am finding it difficult to fulfill my fantasy!
Q. I masturbate a lot, and it has always been a fantacy of mine to masturbate in front of a woman. I tried to get my wife to watch me, but she thinks I am disgusting. I even tried to let one of her friends catch me masturbating, but it turned out ...
A. 4 July 2010: Wow....slow down.
You are MARRIED! If you do this act in front of other women then I'm sure your wife would consider it cheating.
Please talk to your wife and explain how you feel.
Cheating is NOT the answer and will only lead to pain, ... (read in full...)
From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!
Q. I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just ...
A. 30 June 2010: I'm sorry, I know it hurts but the best thing now is to move on and concentrate on what makes you happy. Maybe he is having a really hard time at work. Don't worry about it. He will contact you when he is ready. For now move on and don't contact ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my secret other life?
Q. Help me understand this man? I have been in a long distance relationship 10 yrs with someone I used to work with.I am married with 2 children whom I adore and would never hurt,my husband is a selfish man,I have been to a therapist who told me if my ...
A. 28 June 2010: Wow...I would reconsider getting another therapist!
You call your husband selfish but you cheat on him. If you are that unhappy with your husband then leave him. Have you even tried to talk to your husband? Explained how you feel?
Now for... (read in full...)
Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 28 June 2010: Yes you are young and you want to have fun. But you are also in a relationship. Unless your bf understands it is open then this is cheating and is wrong.
Tell your boyfriend that this is an open relationship and what to expect.
Just because ... (read in full...)
We are Both in Relationships, But he Wanta A Blow Job, Should I??
Q. Im 14 and this guy iv new for over10 years hes 15 and wants me to give him a blowjob and i said ill think about it..couse he gots a girl friend and i have a boy friend...i want to but dont know what i shoud do?...
A. 28 June 2010: Please do not cheat on your bf.
How would you feel if a girl gave your bf a blowjob.?
Plus think about this guy's girlfriend. How would she feel?
No good comes from cheating and it just causes pain and you lose respect!... (read in full...)
Should I Text Him Happy Birthday After All of This??
Q. My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I ...
A. 28 June 2010: My advice.
Text him Happy Birthday on his birthday.
Move on...he does not want a relationship with you and is currently involved with another girl.
Do NOT contact him ever...except that one birthday text. Go out with friends and have a ... (read in full...)
We are of Different Races, Should I Pursue This Relationship??
Q. I met this girl, Shirley, almost a year ago when we both started working at Salvation Army on the same day. We were quiet at first, but after I made conversation with her, we learned to work well together, and we became friends. We'd talk to each ...
A. 28 June 2010: It would be probably better to keep quiet and move on. You seem hesitant in forming a relationship with her because of her race and you will be apart soon.
You sounds like a lovely girl but a relationship based on these conditions is not a good i... (read in full...)
I got drunk and gave him the wrong idea...
Q. Recently I've gotten to know this guy, "Sean". We became really good friends quite quickly. Yesterday, I was in his house. His older (18) brother was there. We had a little bit of drink on us but his brother's pretty cool and wouldn't tell hi...
A. 28 June 2010: Don't worry about it for now. He's in Spain for a while. I suggest moving on because he might get a girlfriend in Spain.
The only problem with your ages is that he is legal age while you are not.
When he comes back just act normal and stop ... (read in full...)
Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 27 June 2010: No honey, cheating for kids is not acceptable. You are a teenager...not a kid anyway.
You are cheating on your bf...how would you feel if your bf went out with other girls and kissed them?
If you don't feel bad and you still want him then te... (read in full...)
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