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writes:I'm always having dreams of my girlfriend and her husband sleeping in bed. Then i get in the middle and they start making love to me. I seem to enjoy it in my dreams and i wake up weirded out. Could i really be interested in "sleeping" with my friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 I think the previous writer said it all. I don't think you are desiring this other couple physically, you are desiring what they have together - for yourself. You did not say if you were single or not - but if you are lonely, maybe the dream is just mirroring what you like about them - the fact that they have a close, loving relationship. Maybe you are also wishing you were part of a loving couple. I think your dream just put 1 + 1 together and came up with 3 (as dreams tend to do). Relax, don't worry about it and don't get all weirded out the next time you see them, they can't read your mind and we all have strange dreams from time to time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Well, I don't analyze dreams, but my guess since you have to ask the question, is no, you are not interested in sleeping with your friends.
I think dreams are a jumbled up mess of things that are on our minds at the subconcious level.
It may be that you are lonely, don't have a mate, are missing having loving sex, and admire or are envious of the couple who are your friends and they have shown you kindness and friendship, so you are feeling close to them in a good way, but because of all the other issues running through your life, your dream just came out in that fashion.
Just remember dreams are not reality or a window into our rational thought, they are just what happens during sleep...not our waking hours.
You might want to direct this question to agony aunt "Ask Eve", I think she is into dream analysis....
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