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I'm willing to try a relationship despite distance and the age difference
Q. I met this guy the first day of my freshman year and he was a senior.. I was interested right away, but my friend told me he had a gf so I eventually just gave up. His gf and him broke up before graduation. Later that summer we started talking ...
A. 15 August 2011: Long distance relationships can be very hard to cope with. It's lots of time spent apart often with longing for that person which could lead to stress or depression on the part of one or both parties. Since you don't know how he actually feels ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to try a relationship despite distance and the age difference
Q. I met this guy the first day of my freshman year and he was a senior.. I was interested right away, but my friend told me he had a gf so I eventually just gave up. His gf and him broke up before graduation. Later that summer we started talking ...
A. 15 August 2011: Long distance relationships can be very hard to cope with. It's lots of time spent apart often with longing for that person which could lead to stress or depression on the part of one or both parties. Since you don't know how he actually feels ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should I be worried?
Q. I think my best friend likes my guy... you see me and my guy only started seeing each other about a month ago (not really official we're going out, just that we meet each other etc.) and she is constantly asking about him and saying she wants a guy ...
A. 15 August 2011: It's not a given that things are aspiring between the two of them. Do realize though as you have stated yourself that you and the guy aren't really official. This gives him the rights to date casually more than one woman at the time. Some people ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?
Q. I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...
A. 27 February 2010: Decent Guy
To err is human
To forgive is DIVINE!
FOR ALL HAVE SINNED AND COME SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD.
When you ask forgiveness HE FORGIVES. The option to fogive for the one who was hurt is up to them. No matter what you do please remem... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?
Q. I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...
A. 27 February 2010: You are welcome. A heart is long way from a happy existance if only on half of it beats. You pain is deep for you but in time a heart will mend...in the right time and in God's timming. May your heart be blessed with forgiveness and allow you to be ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't trust me. What do I do?
Q. Hey Guys Since i moved to America from England last year, i've really struggled making friends of any kind, so most of my social interactions have taken place online. Today i woke up to a nasty note from my wife, she's gone through my e-ma...
A. 26 February 2010: This last comment was for Ortega63, I had thought to have sent it to his account and my computer stalled and it wound up here. Thanks for understanding!
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?
Q. I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...
A. 26 February 2010: OOOPs that was meant to be friend and not wife. Sorry for the typo.
Blue_Angel
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Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?
Q. I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...
A. 26 February 2010: It sounds like she may love you to BUT she is married! Until she can decide to leave and divorce her husband you have no place other than friend in her life. You should never believe this will happen but there is a big chance it never will since she ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't trust me. What do I do?
Q. Hey Guys Since i moved to America from England last year, i've really struggled making friends of any kind, so most of my social interactions have taken place online. Today i woke up to a nasty note from my wife, she's gone through my e-ma...
A. 26 February 2010: I will be honest here and say that you should let your wife see you delete all of the accounts if need be. Trust once broken is often hard to re-etablish. It may time some time to regain her complete confidence. The Bible says that you should ... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 26 February 2010: Congratulations to all! That is such great news. I am proud to be a part of DearCupid and so glad when I can help someone else in whatever way I can. There are so many nice ladies and gentelmen here who give their time and share in experiences in ... (read in full...)
Is there another reason my period could be late?
Q. My boyfriend and i have had sex, the past month has been very stressful cause we werent sure if i was pregnant or not because i hadnt got my period yet. He went out and bought 2 pregnancy test i took one on a sat. and it came up negative( i took ...
A. 16 February 2010: Hormonal problems can also cause irregularity in your monthly cycle. In some cases it is a scar tissue from other internal injuries. If there was none then you can rest assured that stress can do it too. If you don't think you were under stress ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends phone was busy for 10 minutes when I tried to call her
Q. what message is my girlfriend sending to me when she denied talking to anybody yet her phone kept being busy for 10 minutes when I had been calling her?...
A. 16 February 2010: You are welcome. I hope it helps. :) Thank you for your kind words. God bless and keep you.
Blue_Angel
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My girlfriends phone was busy for 10 minutes when I tried to call her
Q. what message is my girlfriend sending to me when she denied talking to anybody yet her phone kept being busy for 10 minutes when I had been calling her?...
A. 12 February 2010: Suggest nicely that she have the phone checked. Mine was acting crazy too! Telling people it was disconnected or no longer in service.My children and my b/f kept asking why I didn't answer my phone! There would be times I would get messages on ... (read in full...)
I am terrible at making new friends. How do I out myself out there and meet people I can hang out with?
Q. This is my first year at college, and I never realized how horrible I am at making friends. This wasnt my top choice and I had no intention of making friends here because I thought they werent my "type" of people. But now that Im in my second ...
A. 9 February 2010: ooops MY COMPUTER LEFT WITHOUT ME!
Continued...
You must choose with knowledge that THIS WILL AFFECT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Some people really aren't always the best friends. Seek friendships that will bring you joy and good times, but at the s... (read in full...)
I am terrible at making new friends. How do I out myself out there and meet people I can hang out with?
Q. This is my first year at college, and I never realized how horrible I am at making friends. This wasnt my top choice and I had no intention of making friends here because I thought they werent my "type" of people. But now that Im in my second ...
A. 9 February 2010: I wonder if you are either shy or if you have a low self esteem problem. Bonding with new friends can be a task but when you look around you can see more and more prospects. Don't necessarly include nor disclude someone from the rigid first ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't trust me. What do I do?
Q. Hey Guys Since i moved to America from England last year, i've really struggled making friends of any kind, so most of my social interactions have taken place online. Today i woke up to a nasty note from my wife, she's gone through my e-ma...
A. 9 February 2010: It's quite possible that she feels your playstation buddy is taking up her oneon one quality time you should be spending with her She thus may feel unwanted, unattractive, unnoticed, etc. This could have been worsened when she sees a pic and the ... (read in full...)
I want to do something nice for valentines without spending a fortune!
Q. I want to do something nice for my boyfriend( we've been dating for about 2-3 months) for valentines day but i dont really know waht to do.. ive never had a boyfriend before and ive never celebrated the day before could some one give me ideas on ...
A. 9 February 2010: They say the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach! Actually I think an apple pie with the middle fixed in a red heart would be a simply and elegant,loving jesture. Go for it!
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND FROM ~~Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I think she may be mentally unwell, but the police say just stay away
Q. hi im robby, i shall begin with my question and then explain some what would all you out there do ? how would you handle or deal with my situation ? i met a beautiful woman approx 2 years ago, during this time together we have shared all th...
A. 9 February 2010: So it seems you have your answer. Accept it and move on. No one knows what tomorrow brings. You can only live your life from day to day. Live it fully, live it whole. Live it with God. Patience and forgiveness can bring you peace within. Allow these ... (read in full...)
Still living together after they wanted a divorce, is this normal?
Q. A man tells his wife he can't do their relationship anymore and wants a divorce. His wife is devastated, but has since "accepted the facts of the situation". This was 3 weeks ago. In the last 3 weeks, they have separated the bills (not legally ...
A. 9 February 2010: It may be a a thing of convienience. It is costly to move. If they are trying to finish paying off some old bills they have togetheror even ones they owe seperately it can get pretty hard while taking one ven more bills living seperate. IF the ... (read in full...)
Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?
Q. Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...
A. 8 February 2010: You are indeed looking for signs of hope and LOVE. It's a human flaw that sometimes makes fools of us all. He may love you but not enough to give a sincere committment. He is confused. perhaps with your help. You did tell him you thought he was ... (read in full...)
Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?
Q. Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...
A. 8 February 2010: You are indeed looking for signs of hope and LOVE. It's a human flaw that sometimes makes fools of us all. He may love you but not enough to give a sincere committment. He is confused. perhaps with your help. You did tell him you thought he was ... (read in full...)
Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?
Q. Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...
A. 8 February 2010: You are indeed looking for signs of hope and LOVE. It's a human flaw that sometimes makes fools of us all. He may love you but not enough to give a sincere committment. He is confused. perhaps with your help. You did tell him you thought he was ... (read in full...)
Is Facebook reflecting how I fail socially in the real world?
Q. Sorry, but this is post about using a social networking site to validate my worth as a human being. I am on facebook and I am not popular on there, nor am terribly popular in real life. I'm like a leper of facebook actually. Less than 30 friends and ...
A. 8 February 2010: OH MY BAD!! That was withdraw not draw. My computer keys jam up and I lost half the word!
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Is Facebook reflecting how I fail socially in the real world?
Q. Sorry, but this is post about using a social networking site to validate my worth as a human being. I am on facebook and I am not popular on there, nor am terribly popular in real life. I'm like a leper of facebook actually. Less than 30 friends and ...
A. 8 February 2010: You don't need anyone to validate who you are! You should learn that you are unique just the way God made you. There is something is this life surely waiting JUST FOR YOU! Keep your eyes open to new things and don't worry on what you probably can do ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends phone was busy for 10 minutes when I tried to call her
Q. what message is my girlfriend sending to me when she denied talking to anybody yet her phone kept being busy for 10 minutes when I had been calling her?...
A. 6 February 2010: You are welcome and I hope that things work themselves out the best for both of you.
Blessings.
Blue_Angel0316
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I think she may be mentally unwell, but the police say just stay away
Q. hi im robby, i shall begin with my question and then explain some what would all you out there do ? how would you handle or deal with my situation ? i met a beautiful woman approx 2 years ago, during this time together we have shared all th...
A. 5 February 2010: Your love for this woman may be pushing her away. If you love stronger than she does it may be she can't handle this pressure.It's possible that something hormonal or chemical is going on. There is another option that she is either interested or ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends phone was busy for 10 minutes when I tried to call her
Q. what message is my girlfriend sending to me when she denied talking to anybody yet her phone kept being busy for 10 minutes when I had been calling her?...
A. 5 February 2010: She could be reluctant to end the call with a good friend or family member as not to seem rude. Perhaps she really wasn't talking to someone and someone else just happened to be calling in at the same time. That will also give you a false busy ... (read in full...)
I've just realised me and women see things differently
Q. I need some insight. From women especially...(guys feel free to share if it has happened to you...) It's a little long winded, I apologize for that but I want to be thorough. Here's my situation. I am engaged. Totally in love... My fiance and I...
A. 5 February 2010: WEll first off let me tell you that you could be telling someone elses story. The only difference is the woman was in the same position as you. This left her quite often at witts end because she didn't understand what SHE was doing wrong and why He ... (read in full...)
Have I been raped?
Q. (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) ...
A. 5 February 2010: You are welcome for anything I can do to help. I am so proud of you for making some changes and picking some new friends! BRAVO!!!! Hang in and let God take you thru step by step. It's been awhile since I have been here too due to ill health. May ... (read in full...)
Believing in fate....The biggest LIE
Q. Do you know what the biggest lie is? The lie that people believe that our lives are shaped by fate thas the biggest lie. Everything we do is the careful path that God set us up to make our personal legends. What is our personal legend you ask? It ...
A. 3 July 2009: The word Fate is used in the Bible. It's Hebrew Meaning is "to believe in. What happens is indeed part of God's eternal plan for our lives but we DO help shape the outcome. It's by the choices we make and how WE choose to live. Fate is something ... (read in full...)
Stop taking so long in the bathroom!
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs for about 9 months. We live in a super tiny apartment - so privacy is tough to get. In the morning he takes about 2 hours to get ready before he goes into work! It drives me up a wall because I ...
A. 25 March 2009: You're welcome hon and I am glad for you both!
Continue to talk and grow with one another,things should work out fine. 8=)
Blessings,
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?
Q. Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both ...
A. 25 March 2009: Perhaps you should spend some time trying to find out why they are unhappy with you and in turn why your parents feel this way about your girl. If you get to the bottom of the problem it could help in figuring out a solution to the problem.
Rem... (read in full...)
Stop taking so long in the bathroom!
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs for about 9 months. We live in a super tiny apartment - so privacy is tough to get. In the morning he takes about 2 hours to get ready before he goes into work! It drives me up a wall because I ...
A. 24 March 2009: Don't forget that every relationship needs an adjustment period. Some just take more time than others. Rome wasn't built in a night and it took a entire week for God to create the Heaven's and Earth will all it's creatures and mankind. Just take ... (read in full...)
Stop taking so long in the bathroom!
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs for about 9 months. We live in a super tiny apartment - so privacy is tough to get. In the morning he takes about 2 hours to get ready before he goes into work! It drives me up a wall because I ...
A. 24 March 2009: I'm not positive but it sounds like he may be a bit addicted to his masterbation routine. He most likely is not only enjoying the feel of the shower and having a relating moment to himself but is most likely continuing his release in the shower. ... (read in full...)
This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...
Q. I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just ...
A. 9 March 2009: I am glad that you are in a better light than before. I know how you feel as I am disabled. I've had cancer and my immune system is kinda shot. I have many disabling conditions and have been in your shoes with relationships. I know how hard it can ... (read in full...)
This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...
Q. I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just ...
A. 7 March 2009: You are most welcome! I will suggest that you get some conseling to help you deal with the pains of the past. You have to learn to let it go and focus on the future. Your fears are holding you in the past as far as relationship.
Remember ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: Sometimes the path is narrow upon which we stand and the road too long. He has held your mind captive for perhaps what seems only a short space but rest assured that if he is up to NO GOOD then it will make your journey more weary with each breaking ... (read in full...)
This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...
Q. I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just ...
A. 6 March 2009: If a man gives a woman his ring that is too big she will most likely use tape around it for her finger OR wear it a chain around her neck.
It's possible that it's just a keepsake of an old flame or it may be her Dad's or it perhaps belongs ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex so this can't be an STD! Any ideas?
Q. I have a problem and I need some answers please. Okay aunts the problem is I'm scared that I might have an std, but I'm a virgin and haven't had any sexual contact with anybody so I dont think that's possible.. The thing is I have a few pimples ...
A. 6 March 2009: You know I just remembered that white cotton briefs are best to wear. It helps to promote dryness and less chance of allergic reactions. Loose fitting boxers or boxers briefs also allow air to keep the area more dry. Sometimes sweat alone can cause ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex so this can't be an STD! Any ideas?
Q. I have a problem and I need some answers please. Okay aunts the problem is I'm scared that I might have an std, but I'm a virgin and haven't had any sexual contact with anybody so I dont think that's possible.. The thing is I have a few pimples ...
A. 6 March 2009: They could be caused by some type of sebacious cysts. Ingrown hairs can cuase problems in these areas as well. You also have to be concious of the fact that staph infections are pretty well accessible also. Stapy CAN set up in the hair follicles of ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: My apologies for the bad link below. That should have been as follows.
CyberAngels@ http://www.CyberAngels.org
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 6 March 2009: Yes indeed! If you are already noticing discrepencies in his stories about himself or others, take note! I have been doing chat on the internet for years and I am here to tell you that this is a RED FLAG FLYING HIGH!!!
Set your sights on ge... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 5 March 2009: I am thinking you were referring to my post.*LOL* Tis ok...but I wasn't Screaming. I was making point. She is the one who fears his isn't straight about himself. She referred to him as a possible pedophile. The last but not least section was in ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he might be a paedo!
Q. Help. I'm 15, and recently been talking to this guy. He's really sweet, but he's 20. I'm worried he might be a peado, but he has already said he does not want to see me until I'm 16, and he'll wait to be with me until I'm ready. He explained h...
A. 4 March 2009: IF YOU DO CONSIDER THIS........
I would suggest being chaperoned until you are a couple of years older at least. Providing he is sincere and acts with respect, according to his word then it (might be considered ok. I would be very cuatious not to b... (read in full...)
DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!
Q. I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...
A. 6 February 2009: GREAT news Andrew, this is a BLESSED EVENT! CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERYONE WHO HAS PARTICIPATED! There are so many wonderful people on DearCupid who are willing to share their advice and ecperiences. Thanks to all those who wrote in also, without you ... (read in full...)
Have I been raped?
Q. (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) ...
A. 18 November 2008: It could be hard to prove if you do try to prosecute. You were molested and lucky that it didn't go further. You don't know for sure who is he or what he even looks like so you are going to find it hard to get anything done. You have to know that ... (read in full...)
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