Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction?
Q. Do you know anybody who quit drug addiction? Do you know what made them quit? Do you know how did they got into it? Do you think drug addiction a disease or a choice? My child is very sick, but I can't do anything, all attempt failed. D...
A. 12 November 2008: My father was a heroin addict, he quit because he had to really the first time when he got caught doing some illegal stuff and was in jail for 6 monthes, then he got back on and quit because he got on to the methadone program, he said that in the ... (read in full...)
I embarrassed her. Does this mean we are thru ?
Q. Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " ...
A. 9 November 2008: I actually couldn't agree more with Emilysanswers that was a cruel cruel cruel thing to say to her, and if you were my boyfriend and you said something like that we'd be through I'd dump your ass thats for sure. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who is no good for me...
Q. We all fall in love. It happens . . . and when it happens there is nothing we can do about it. It's a sensation we cannot control. But what if you fall in love with somebody you're not allowed to fall in love with? What if you were secretly in love ...
A. 9 November 2008: A person like that is selfish and callous either that or doesn't have a heart. Same goes for the mistress that he had. People like that make me sick, your story was amazing but very upsetting when I read about the wife and about your heart break ... (read in full...)
I just kicked my boyfriend out of the house for trying to choke me!
Q. Confused, just kicked my boyfriend of 3 years out my house cuz he tried choking me 2x's with my kids in the house. I know he loves me cuz he tells me but why should I want this man back in my life being that he has a short temper, violent and I have ...
A. 8 November 2008: Do not take him back! You did the right thing, people like that never change they only get worse believe me. Don't take him back because next he'll probably do more then choke you. You have to think of your boys here, they need a possitive male ... (read in full...)
Why are girls against polygamy but okay with being the mistress?
Q. Why girls against polygamy? You might say it cause she doesn't want to share her guy. But I don't think it's that simple. A lot of girls are okay with being the mistress. They don't mind sharing a man, as long as the other girl doesn't know abo...
A. 4 November 2008: Yeah I agree with Kuroneko I'm not okay with the thought of being a mistress either, and I think a lot of ladys feel the same. Don't judge all females on what a few do, because we're not all like that. ... (read in full...)
How do I make friends?
Q. how do i make friends in my school. i am not new but people seemed to not like me, i talk to people and they reply but other times they seem like they are totally not interested. i just want to have conversations with people and have them like me ...
A. 9 October 2008: Ive asked the same question! heres some really good advice I've receieved. Join a school activatie like a soccer team or something, that would be a way of getting to know the people on the team, or if theres a debate team any sort of activity it ... (read in full...)
Our adult son is addicted to drugs and we cannot say no to helping him...how do we cope?
Q. This about a parenting dilemma. I hope someone can come up with some good advice. My adult son is addicted to drugs. We tried to help him many ways. We never found out ,what happened in his life what made him turn to drugs.. We tried many ways to ...
A. 29 September 2008: He doesn't want that kind of help, he doesn't want to get off drugs. And I know what your say when you said its hard to watch him sick and fallen but when it comes down to it you have to let him hit rock bottom. I know this because when I was little ... (read in full...)
What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?
Q. What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ...
A. 29 September 2008: Me personally I would break up with them, because I believe that if they do it once theres a good chance it will happen again. That's just me though. ... (read in full...)
Do giving blow jobs make your stomach hurt?
Q. hey :) whenever my boyfriend and i hang out (two-three times a week) i give him a blow job. but the next morning, my stomach hurts really, really bad. are they linked? or is is a coinsidense?...
A. 26 September 2008: Well try spitting it out in to say.. a towel or something and see if your stomach hurts the next morning if not then maybe you should go to the doctor... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 25 September 2008: This is a neat question I might add :)
I do home schooling, have been since grade 5 got pulled out because of bullying, but it suits me just fine. At school I was always told I was stupid by the teachers and the students but as I found out when... (read in full...)
He wants to kiss me, but he's too shy! What should I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been have been dating for like 3 weeks and last week he told his friends that he wanted to kiss me and i want to kiss him too but he keeps chickening out!!! he leaves me notes in one of my classes and he tells me "at lunch" ...
A. 25 September 2008: you should kiss him, take him by surprise it would be cute and I make a bet he'd enjoy it
:)... (read in full...)
I've left him and now he says he won't see the children anymore. Have I made the wrong decision?
Q. I left my husband of three years last weekend. We have two children together and I have a older daughter that he was parenting for 4 years. He says that I have broken up our family and he will not see the kids anymore. That if they want they can ...
A. 24 September 2008: You have done the right thing!! And its not your fault! You can't be with some one so controling and cheuvansitic and you can't have your children around some one whos addicited to cocaine. Its really not your fault you've done the right thing and ... (read in full...)
He lives in another country, he's 10 years older than me, I'm 13 and beginning to get a crush on him.
Q. [What is a frienemy??] Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginnin...
A. 23 September 2008: Please Please Please do not meet this man, Like every one else said he could be a lot different person then what he says he is, he could be 45 for all you know, believe me I've had my fair share of creeps on the net. I know we sound like we're ... (read in full...)
I was told the most precious person in my life... my nanna, has a tumor. Every minute I'm awake I'm thinking of her and worrying. Please help.
Q. Hi Everyone, i just need some help. yesterday i came home from my holidays and was told the most precious person in my life.. my nana, has a tumor. she has been ill for ages, and now we have had our worst fears confirmed. i am unable to cope with...
A. 12 September 2008: I sort of know what your going through, but at teh same time this is different.You see I just recently lost my dad, the person who knew me best. He was died because they wouldn't give him a liver transplant, even though he was a really good canidate ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to make friends. I don't want to be friendless my whole life!
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I was wondering how to make friends, because I don't have any and I really don't know how to make some, and I don't want to be friendless all my life and I don't know how to go about it. Any tips? Thank you xxx...
A. 9 September 2008: Thank you :) I'll keep it all in mind. I'll do my best, wish me luck! :) I appreciate it very much :)
thank you once again xxxx ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend put the condom on wrong! Am I Pregnant?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend a week ago last wednesday and i were due to come on my period wednesday just gone,, i used a condom but my bf put it on the wrong way at first then just turned it over,, could i get pregnant from that write bak asap plz...
A. 15 February 2008: Go get a test there could be precum on there from him puting it on one way then flipping it over. ... (read in full...)
He's in the army and I miss him so bad! Help!
Q. I know this sounds silly but my bf of two years is in the army Sometimes this means him being away for a while I keep myself busy and he is not always contactable but sometimes - like tonight - i cry as I miss him so much I just want a cuddle from ...
A. 19 January 2008: it's truly understandable and I'm sorry to hear that :( but look at the bright side absence makes the heart grow fonder right? If you want to talk just message me ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and pregnant. How do I run this by my family?
Q. Well..I am thirteen years old ..I am pregnant..I dont know how to tell my friends and especially family...Im not all that tight with my family...But we are getting alot of support from my boyfriends side of the family..I just dont know if i will ...
A. 18 January 2008: I agree with mandy 100% You really really need to think about this before having it and you really should talk to your family hun of even just your mum to start with you know? and yeah if you need to talk just message me
(hugs) - Emily... (read in full...)
How can I get this guy off my back?
Q. hey, I asked this question a couple of hours ago but then realised that I hadn't included everything I wanted to. Well I've been going round to my boyfriend's mate's house quite a lot recently. His name is Dan* and he's 18. My boyffriend is Tom* ...
A. 14 January 2008: I'd say tell your boyfriend, so that if anything does go on and he finds out it's best he finds out from you and he finds out the truth you know? You really need to get stern with dan and say no! this has got to stop! you have a girlfriend and I ... (read in full...)
Am I bi?
Q. Lately I seem to look on the internet on porn and I can't stop myself... I'm disgusted in myself. I don't really have a degree in masturbating but what I do seems to work... is it wrong?? Also sometimes I seem to do it when thinking about p...
A. 14 January 2008: No no no! it's not wrong believe me! i think just about every girl your age goes through this trust me its completly normal! and don't be disgusted in your self its normal like I said before! You could be bi or it could just be horimones you'll find ... (read in full...)
I never got an orgasm, what is wrong with me?
Q. rite this is really embarasing im 15. when i masterbate i dont get an orgasim or come, i have never done anything with a boy before, just a kiss. i have never had a proper realtionship either. when i finger myself i dont get any pleasure out of it ...
A. 9 January 2008: Theres nothing wrong with you, you may not be doing it in the right spot every one is diffrent right? just exprement, it will happen in its own time. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be involved with your 1st cousin?
Q. Is is ok to be with your 1st cousin ? i live somewhere where it is legal, but is it really acceptable in todays society, please give me your honest opinion. Thankyou....
A. 9 January 2008: Well I mean it's legal right? If you happy man that's all that matters :) I know some one who married their first cousin and people don't care about that right? like the other guys said it's perfectly acceptable. HOpe this helps :) ... (read in full...)
Is this girl fair game to me? And if so, how would you advice I pursue her?
Q. A while back a buddy of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of his. At the time I think we both weren't interested in being set up. Well, I finally met this young woman (we r both mid-twenties)at a party and i think we connected. There was ...
A. 15 December 2007: I think you're wrong here you don't seem to have to much respect for her or her boyfriend I mean would you like it if you were with her and some other guy did that to you? I say when the time comes the time comes but until then back off ... (read in full...)
She is scared to hug me or be affectionate with me in front of her parents!
Q. I have like the worlds greatest girlfriend but i am getting really annoyed because she is scared to hug kiss or do anything with me because she is scared fo her parents who i have known for a long long time and they both like me. how can i breakher ...
A. 29 August 2007: You have to respect her on this one to, she may find kissing an cuddling in front of her parents disrespectful. Talk to her about it. Have you ever thought what her parents say to her when your not around, when you try to kiss her? Think about it, ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't then he does not want anything to do with me.
Q. I've been with my Asian boyfriend for 3 years, in that 3 years he was made to get married by his dad. I've got 1 child to him and another to another man but he has brought her up as his own, now I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to ...
A. 19 August 2007: THEN YOU KEEP THE BABY!!!!!! SCREW HIM! any "man" who does that is not a man, not a man at all. Congrads on having a baby :) never let any weasle black mail you like that. Never. ... (read in full...)
I get razor burn all the time! How can I get rid of it?
Q. hi i need help i want to shave down there because i dont like have hair it bothers me and i have tried everything mens razors and women razors soap and shaving cream for man and woman and also medications for the lil red bumps called razor burn but ...
A. 9 August 2007: razor burn what I find helps is if you exfoliate right after you shave then its not half as ichy ... (read in full...)
He's going on holiday for three weeks and i won't hear from him.
Q. I'm going on holiday for almost three weeks.. and im terrified my boyfriend will lose interest durin this time..he cnt text..i can send stuff to him but i wnt hear frm him for ages.until the third week when he said he'd send a letter and birthday ...
A. 9 August 2007: hun! heres something that I've learnt with stuff like that, Absince makes the heart grow fonder :) Have a little faith in the guy he'll be back :) and plus 3 weeks isn't that much just keep thinking about how exciting it will be when he comes home ... (read in full...)
I want a divorce but my husband scared me by telling me how angry God will be
Q. I asked my husband for a divorce and he started spewing out a bunch biblical stuff at me, telling me God was going to punish me and my whole life will be cursed after this. He really freaked me out. I don't want to anger God by filing for divorce ...
A. 4 August 2007: I think God would want you to be happy but like the others said you should go see your local minister or something, your husband controling and like the others said as well don't take notice of him, you do what you please and if your happy I think ... (read in full...)
I heard if you try to shave all of your pubic hair, you get cancer. Is it true?
Q. Girls only answer please! I feel really silly asking this, but can I shave my pubic hair? I am an early bloomer and I'm going into middle school where we have to shower in front of each other. I even think I have the biggest breasts besides "heavy" ...
A. 4 August 2007: its not true hun you've go nothing to worrie about... (read in full...)
Do I tell the wife?
Q. I became involved with a man about 3 years ago, who is married, though I didn't know it at the time. Once I found out I ended it immediately but I'm ashamed to admit I went back to him, as I had fallen hard. He said all the usual things, he wante...
A. 29 July 2007: I think you should tell his wife its the nice thing to do, think about it, if that was your husband and you didn't know would you want to? put your self in her shoes, and I don't think anybody who does that, that many times will slow down any time ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? How can I tell my parents?
Q. My dad found me with a guy making out in my truck. and now he doesn't let me do anything with out someone with me well me and this guy have had unprotected sex before and i haven't got my period this month and it really scares me because im not ...
A. 28 July 2007: go get a pregnancy test!!!! maybe just tell your mom and tell her to keep it to her self, you know? but some times you just have to be up front if you want to talk more about this message me k?... (read in full...)
Update..
Q. This is an update to a question I asked about 6 months ago... I was worried about pushing my boyfriend away. He was a great guy, but I had past baggage issues!! Thanks to the great advice from some great agony aunts (and uncles! :P ), I made it ...
A. 25 July 2007: thats really good to hear hun! :)... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if it's love
Q. 1st off im female using my boyfriends account. im having some problems knowing if i really love him or not. i KNOW he loves me and would do anything for me and i have very strong feeling for him but i dont know if its love or not. what are the ...
A. 25 July 2007: you know what it could be you could love him but not be in love with him you know? if so you should break up with him because if you don't it could hurt him even more in the long run you know?... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my 17 year old boyfriend and I had sex; he said he'd pull out when he came but I don't think he did it fast enough. Could I be pregnant?
Q. hiya im a 13 year old girl,and i lost my virginity to my 17 year old boyfriend on saturday but we didnt use a condom!and now im scared incase im pregnant!!befor we had sex he said that befor cuming in my vagina he will remove his penis but im not to ...
A. 24 July 2007: that was a silly thing to do, go get a pregnancy test because you could be, just because he's pulls out doesnt mean its going to stop you from getting pregnant from pre cum ... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.
Q. I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....
A. 13 July 2007: the way you talk about it doesnt sound like you have much respect for her at all, well think about it would you want to suck some one off? I don't think so, so don't try and persuade her, if she wants to do anything let her do it in her own time... (read in full...)
Is 30 minutes of exercise in the morning enough to lose weight?
Q. Is 30 minutes of exercise in the morning enough to lose weight? I just do aerobic, should I try incorporating weight lifting, if so, how many minutes of weight lifting is needed?...
A. 11 July 2007: my sister tells me anything under 30 minutes and you wont lose weight so 30 minutes is fine :) ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian or am I just curious?
Q. Ok. I know that quite a few people am probably going to say I'm too young to really know what I'm feeling but whilst I understand that and know my feelings may change as I get older right now this is impossible. I'd begun to suspect I might be gay/ ...
A. 11 July 2007: k with both you maybe a lesbian just wait and see you never know right? it will come to you trust me =) and with getting over her some times you just have to remember that friendship is important and if you try any more with wanting her then you ... (read in full...)
How come my answers dont get posted?
Q. hey! I've been on this site for a while and I was wondering why arent most of my answers being posted?!...
A. 6 July 2007: thank you =) =)... (read in full...)
How come my answers dont get posted?
Q. hey! I've been on this site for a while and I was wondering why arent most of my answers being posted?!...
A. 6 July 2007: how do I get in contact with site owners? ... (read in full...)
How come my answers dont get posted?
Q. hey! I've been on this site for a while and I was wondering why arent most of my answers being posted?!...
A. 5 July 2007: No I was not disrespectful my answers were not lame! They were not fake, they were not dangerous, they were not any of those things, and to be honest I'm a little pissed off about it.... (read in full...)
How come my answers dont get posted?
Q. hey! I've been on this site for a while and I was wondering why arent most of my answers being posted?!...
A. 5 July 2007: thanks you =) nope I don't make it one long sentence so I
dunno lol thank you again tho =)... (read in full...)
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