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writes:I've fallen for him...Back again. But I've spoken to this guy for near 9 months now and I kept thinking he was after only one thing... Then today I realised, why would he wait around 9 months just for that?! So I began to think that maybe he wants something more..!We've had two dates which doesn't seem like a lot but he works offshore so it's been tricky to meet up. We talk every day and I really like him. I've told him this and he still sticks around... I'm trying to be patient and wait to see what happens but I want a relationship with him...Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet? Have I missed something completely? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 October 2016):
 Pluck up the courage to ask him out, either that or you will only be miserable sitting around wondering what if. You have nothing to lose.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (7 October 2016):
 Go for it, or you're just going to be in limbo. If you like him enough, ask him out. If you don't, find someone else :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2016): I don't know if he is. We've spoken a bit about him being interested and he said he is. Just I don't know if it's enough for me to brave and ask him out..
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 October 2016):
Speaking to someone daily is very different to spending time together getting to know each other, it sounds like you are more like pen pals than lovers. You have only met each other twice. I know nine months is a long time but would a relationship between you work when you only see each other a couple of times a year? Be realistic about it, would it be enough for you?
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reader, N91 +, writes (5 October 2016):
 Nothing stopping you asking the question...
I think guys are a lot less likely to ask whats going on in a dating situation so you may be waiting a while.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (5 October 2016):
Why can't you ask him to be your boyfriend? Or ask him out on more dates, so you get to know each other better?
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reader, UniquelyMe +, writes (5 October 2016):
 Hon, It seems like to me he is maybe nervous about asking you out. We live in the century now where girls can ask guys out. As scary as it may sound to you, It did to me. Thats the only way you can put this to rest. You say you talk every day well maybe when you talk. Try to go more in depth and say everything you said here. You don't Know till you try hun. Go for it :)x
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