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writes:A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chated almost all over the night for 2 months.He was always online and replied my messages as soon as possible.He shears everything but never tell that he loves me.Now a days he reply my massage after a day .But we will never dating.Its a distance relationship.I messaged him on whatsapp. He replied after 7 days.Then I do not reply him still now.We are not in contact for 20 days.I am very much confused if he love me or not.I can't forget him.What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 October 2016):
 I think he thought off you as a penpal. Someone to talk to about stuff when he couldn't sleep. Someone who could be his friend. I don't think he loved you, to love someone you need to spend quality time together face to face getting to know each other. I know it is hard to forget about him as you spent a lot of time talking to him, but just distract yourself. Find a hobby before bed time, maybe read a book or play a game, something to take your mind away from him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 October 2016):
 I don't think he loves or loved you. I think he was honest when he said he LIKED you. He LIKED talking to you.
I think because there is a distance here, he has either pulled back because he sees no future or... he has met a new girl who is closer to his location.
I'd wish him well and let him go. Block, delete and move on. Eventually, you will get over him. IF you choose to do so. He seems over you already and it was only 2 months of talking.
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reader, UniquelyMe  +, writes (6 October 2016):
 Honestly Hon I know you say you can't forget him. I can completely relate trust me. The best thing you can do for yourself is to let him go. It sounds like he isn't interested in talking judging by his lack of time responding. Same thing happened with me. But I kept telling myself he must be busy replying late. I'm not saying it's going to be easy. But trust me you will be doing yourself a big favour by forgetting him. Take care of yourself Hun :) x
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