He says my body is his.
Q. My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...
A. 26 January 2017: How have things progressed for you?... (read in full...)
I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?
Q. My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...
A. 26 January 2017: How did things go for you?... (read in full...)
Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?
Q. I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...
A. 26 January 2017: Thanks for the update and I am sorry about your husband. You speak perfect sense and yes off course if you are used to getting lots off attention from men then you feel you need even more from him. That is natural in your world. It is good to ... (read in full...)
What am I doing to not want men to talk to me or want me romantically?
Q. I am 21 and still never had a boyfriend or asked out. It really upsets me that guys almost never start a conversation with me. I have only had 2 cute guys reasonably around my age start a conversation with me and that was a while ago. Now, only old ...
A. 18 January 2017: You talk to them. Honestly they might think you look uninterested as well. Show them that is not the case. Talk to them and see how it goes. You need to try be more outgoing and confident. That shines through.... (read in full...)
He says my body is his.
Q. My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...
A. 18 January 2017: Speak to someone in Australia sweetie. A therapist or a womens aid. I would be scared off what he could do to your daughter if he is showing sexual signs in front off her. Can you call home, ask for some help with travel?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't post us on social media
Q. My boyfriend and I have been official for about 90 days. I have very few complaints about him- I'm extremely happy. We go out regularly and spend lots of quality time together and go on fun dates. But he has nothing about us posted on social media. ...
A. 18 January 2017: Honestly be happy that he does not want to post everything on Social Media. My fiance is the same, and believe me I am glad I see people posting the worst things ever up and then hugely regretting it. If he is being a good boyfriend and is not ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my parents for a day off study?
Q. Hi everyone i need some advice on parents.. So recently my parents told me not to go for hangouts with my friends as my exams are in April. They were also worried at first that i was not going to get an offer from any of my universities, bu...
A. 18 January 2017: I am sure they understand that you will want to celebrate your birthday. I am sure in the UK that is normal enough, I mean I am from there myself so I do understand. Yes your parents probably want you to do well but am sure they understand that your ... (read in full...)
Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues
Q. About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...
A. 18 January 2017: Honestly if you have to go investigating yourself in to his past then maybe he is not the man for you. Do you think you are even in the right relationship? If you barely see each other, and he doesn't talk to you about things then maybe you are ... (read in full...)
I live at home and my Mum won't let me clean it up, its a biohazard mess!
Q. It's a long story, but I got laid off from my job last year and I live at home with my mom. I feel like I've failed at life and this wasn't how I thought I would turn out, but this is just background information. What's going on is that I'm ...
A. 17 January 2017: Honestly you and your mum are polar opposites, and as it is her house then you just need to follow her rules. Yes it might be difficult but at least you have a roof over your head. You need to stop telling yourself you are a failure and get back out ... (read in full...)
If I am talking online to a guy, just talking as friends, with nothing sexual said, BUT is it cheating for me to do this?
Q. Sometimes I talk to someone on Skype (just text never camera or voice), I came across them on Tumblr and we became friends. He is a guy and we mostly talk about random things, never anything sexual. He knows I have a boyfriend and to be honest h...
A. 17 January 2017: Its not cheating, but if you are hiding it from your boyfriend and keeping it a secret then it is not healthy in the relationship either. ... (read in full...)
Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues
Q. About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...
A. 17 January 2017: Is it complicated? Could it not just be a friend and he worries about her abusive husband?... (read in full...)
Can two cheaters make a relationship work?
Q. I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...
A. 17 January 2017: I can understand why you are still over thinking this because the break up is still fresh to you. But honey you need to deal with the fact that this man was no good for you. Try not to care if they will work out or not. He might do the same to her, ... (read in full...)
I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?
Q. My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...
A. 17 January 2017: There are a lot of men haters on here, which I do think is rude and offensive to the agony aunt uncles on here, or men who come for advice.
Crying for two days straight because your boyfriend is away on holiday with the lads is NOT normal. If he h... (read in full...)
Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?
Q. I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...
A. 17 January 2017: Yip OP I think you just need to do what you need to do and end it. If you cannot go a week or two without loads of attention from him because he is with family then you need to let it go. Me personally I wouldn't need so much communication after ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend isn't really committed to me!
Q. Hi, I'm just looking for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm really unhappy. I feel like he isn't really committed to me, I'll give you some examples. He's messaged other girls behind my back and admitted he l...
A. 17 January 2017: Have you decided what you are going to do? Why settle for him for fear off being alone? When you could be independent for a while and then meet the man who will be the one for you. That will do anything to make you happy. That won't disrespect you ... (read in full...)
I get pouty when we are apart and he doesn't text!
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 Submissions combined. I'm embarrassed to even ask this question, but how often can I expect my BF to text me when we're not together? A little background- we've been together about 4 months. He's very kind, patient, considerate, an...
A. 17 January 2017: Female anonymous, I think you have misread the question and also what N91 is saying. The poster has asked how she can stop herself pouting when he is with friends at a social gathering. It sounds to me like he is showing her love and affection she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend came back different from vacation
Q. My boyfriend went home for two weeks and came back different. We texted over the phone while he was gone and he seemed fine. However, when I picked him up from the airport he did not seem impressed to see me. He acted somewhat aloof. Since then, ...
A. 17 January 2017: Is it possible that he is just feeling that his life has no direction. Maybe distance from you made him realize that you are both stuck in a routine and not meeting new people. Therefore he wants to change things up. He is making plans with you as ... (read in full...)
I think I am pregnant and the dad has disappeared.
Q. Well. I met a guy months ago. We went out 3 times. At the 2nd one we had sex. I was the one who brought the sexual topic to the conversation. After sex we had sex once more. And the condom didn't work. I think I'm probably pregnant. He started ...
A. 16 January 2017: Well it is clear to see that he used you for sex, he heard you may be pregnant and he has done a runner. Now you need to concentrate on you and what you want to do. Is there a women's clinic in your area where you can go and talk about your options ... (read in full...)
What can do, I am still learning how to negotiate conflict in a relatonship.
Q. My relationship recently ended with my girlfriend of nearly a year. There was a falling out at my uncle's wedding where my girlfriend was heavily intoxicated and left the dinner table to vent to a bartender about things she did not like about my ...
A. 16 January 2017: Her mother is wrong, she is sticking up for her daughter, but it is no excuse to try and blame you for her daughters behavior. My guess is that your girlfriend is probably very embarrassed by her behavior. I do think it is worth giving her a second ... (read in full...)
I asked before and followed advise but nothing works
Q. I have written here before asking for advice and I tried to take th advice but I'm still feeling the urge and fighting so hard to be happy - I can't seem to get over my ex- it's been close to a year - it was a short relationship and he wasn't let's ...
A. 16 January 2017: I think your problem is that you are lonely more than the fact you cannot get over this guy. You are building him up in your head to be much more than he was. Maybe you relied on him a lot for company and friendship but honestly I think now you are ... (read in full...)
I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.
Q. I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...
A. 16 January 2017: I think the best thing you can do is be honest to your boyfriend and also to the guy you made out with. It will only eat away at you if you don't.... (read in full...)
I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.
Q. After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...
A. 16 January 2017: Honestly I think you will never trust him and you are staying with him because you are scared to be alone. Honey you need to stand up for yourself, don't allow him to treat you with such disrespect. He cheated on you years ago and sometimes stays ... (read in full...)
I'm so in love with him but I don't even think I know who he is!
Q. So ive been with my boyfriend a year and 2 months now. I recently found out he was lying about having a Facebook, I never cared he had one in the first place because I trusted him. So I'm on my moms Facebook and I see he still had it when he told me ...
A. 16 January 2017: I know that this is difficult because you love him, and believe me I understand how you feel because I have been through it myself. You need to ask yourself does he love you when he is messaging other people and sending photos? If he is capable of ... (read in full...)
How can you talk to a platonic friend everyday you used to have feelings for?
Q. Hi Ive been wondering something recently... would love people's takes on it- particularly men! My bf is best friends with a girl he says he "used to think he loved" This was years ago but she rejected him. However he still talks to her ev...
A. 16 January 2017: If it was me I would be worried about the need for contact daily. Sounds like it is friendship from her side, but he has probably is kidding himself that it is platonic on his side. Am sure he has some feelings for her. However that doesn't mean he ... (read in full...)
Should I just quit the job I hate?
Q. I have been working for the same company as a CNA for 5 years and I absolutely hate my job. I went back to school for dietary aide and I just got a offer in different facility to work in the kitchen.I went for training and I must say I like the job ...
A. 16 January 2017: You should do a job that you are happy at. Don't leave yet until you have settled in to the new job and are sure that the wages are good enough. But yes go for the work that makes life easier for you. No point going to work and coming home stressed ... (read in full...)
Can you be pregnant with negative test results?
Q. I had sex with a guy one night in September. I dont really remember what happened but i know we had sex. We used a condom but i am unsure if he secretly slipped it off or of the condom may have failed. It isvDecember now and my stomach looks ...
A. 16 January 2017: So how did you get on?... (read in full...)
Should I take a step back and distance myself from her?
Q. so I like this girl who is one of my best friends. when we first met we started something it wasn't serious but that ended due to me and hers mental health issues. anyway we stayed friends and we're really close talk everyday, tell each other ...
A. 15 January 2017: I willl marry you xx... (read in full...)
I found a dildo in my boyfriend's closet!
Q. I'm a 47 year old woman that found a dildo in my boyfriend's closet! We've been dating 2 year's and only see each other on the weekends,but talk every night. He has two kids,so he's home with them every night. He isn't vocal about what he wants in ...
A. 15 January 2017: Aw bet chat to me he sounds shitmxx... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that my wife is texting a younger male co-worker outside of work!
Q. My wife is a manager in a small store of 20 employees. She texts and Facebook messages a male employee half her age. The texts/messages are both work related and non work related. Non work related include videos of songs and home decor along basic ...
A. 15 January 2017: I will be honest with you, I am getting married August, I am very close with a guy at work, would never effect my marriage ... (read in full...)
Should I try to win back my friend after criticising her uncle?
Q. My best friend's uncle is making me feel uncomfortable. He is an older unemployed man who might be in his late 30s. Everytime I go to my friend's house he calls me names like "my baby, sweetie" which he normally does not use with any of the females ...
A. 15 January 2017: Honey I think she knows her uncle is dodgy she is highly embarrassed about it so she chooses to ignore it. Yes your boyfriend is right in she is not a great friend, but who knows her uncle may have treated her bad? That is what I would be worried ... (read in full...)
Could it be her using fake profiles?
Q. I would like your opinions about what has happened four times in the last four months, i have been on a dating site for few years now, I've had two girlfriends,so the one ghost me a year ago, I've ask a few women friends of mine about this, well I ...
A. 15 January 2017: I think you need to delete your profile from that dating site,
Looks like she is messing with your head, don't allow her. Why not try going to bars and clubs to meet women? ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's still not over her. What can I do?
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend who is my first love, boyfriend, and overall first (in everything). However I am not his. This normally wouldn't bother me as much as it does, but his first was so significant to him that I'm not sure what my ...
A. 15 January 2017: You sound very insecure, it seems you are looking for a problem here, if you know he loves you then what is the problem? People have exs you need to get used to that. That is life. Are you sure you are ready for a relationship because it sounds like ... (read in full...)
What makes a relationship different from a friendship?
Q. What makes a relationship diffrent from a friendship? I'm twenty one and my boyfriend is eighteen. At first he would call me pet names say random sweet things and say he loves me randomly and he hasn't done that for the last couple of months (we've ...
A. 15 January 2017: Yes sweetie he may be telling you what you want to hear but no it is not normal for the affection to stop, it does sound like you are more friends than anything else.... (read in full...)
Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?
Q. Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then i...
A. 15 January 2017: Honestly I think at your age (mid to late thirties) he should be capable off talking. If he runs then he is obviously not wanting anything serious. Surely he is to old for this play ground behaviour?... (read in full...)
How do I say NO to my boss?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, This is not a romantic relationship question, but I need help :) My boss wants to change some fundamentals we agreed on years ago and I need to find a delicate way to say no. I work for a minuscule company as a trans...
A. 13 January 2017: You answered your own question, the best thing to do is have a friendly chat with her and tell her how it does not suit you but that you are always at the other end off the phone. ... (read in full...)
Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?
Q. Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then i...
A. 13 January 2017: Is it possible he could have met with an ex in his home town? It won't do any harm to ask him why the U turn. Just ask and see what he has to say. If he denies anything is wrong then just cut contact it is obvious he has lost interest.... (read in full...)
I've got an ex husband, an ex fiance and a new guy who all want me
Q. I'm 39 divorced and had been dating someone for 3 years. I knew him from university.He lives in another country. We became engaged. I have gone through a lot for this long distance relationship to make it work. I applied for a fiancé visa for him ...
A. 13 January 2017: You didn't cheat, you had told your partner it was over. So stop feeling guilty. You where free to kiss whoever you liked. I guess you are feeling guilty because it happened so quick but you need to let that go now.
If you have lost feelings then... (read in full...)
Will sex ruin the relationship or make it better?
Q. Male(21) Hi..I am 21 and she is she is younger than me. We are in a relationship since last 7 months.We meet frequently.And now I think we both are ready for getting physical. I am confused is sex good for our relation or will it ruin our relation...
A. 13 January 2017: How much younger than you is she? Is she at a legal age for sex?... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of our anxieties and start to date?
Q. I really like this guy I met online. We have spoken a lot and he's asked to meet me. I am extremely shy and it (has) taken me a while to get comfortable with meeting new people. Sometimes it stops me meeting people because I get so worried about ...
A. 13 January 2017: Always meet in public, never ever go to someones home. Social anxiety or not he should understand that it is dangerous for you to go to a strange house. He should not even ask this from you.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?
Q. I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I sa...
A. 13 January 2017: You simply say you are a trust worthy person and that is why you are keeping things confidential like you were asked and you are keeping your word. If she was a true friend she would understand and not try to get some gossip from you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?
Q. My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...
A. 12 January 2017: yip I also remember your previous post. You seem to be more interested in if she is flirting or not than you should be. You obviously have some feelings for her or this wouldn't bother you. ... (read in full...)
My sisters deserve better. What can I do?
Q. Hello all, im in a very strange situation.. I hate the husbands of my sisters. I regret they didn't marry other people. My sisters are both beautiful and good people. My first sister's husband might not be a very bad guy but he embarrasses her in ...
A. 12 January 2017: Try and be happy for your sisters honey. You might not like their bad habits but your sisters might not mind them. ... (read in full...)
We are five hours apart. Could it be worth it?
Q. How do i know if it's worth the pain? Me and this guy met online, we live about 4 or 5 hours away from each other, he's just coming up to very big exams... We both really, really, like each other... infact, i think im falling for him, hard and fast...
A. 12 January 2017: Distance makes the heart grow fonder when you are both committed to each other and know what it is like being together without the distance. Honey you say you miss him but you have only met this guy once. I honestly think at your age you need to let ... (read in full...)
He has lied and I don't know why
Q. My boyfriend has lied to me about how serious an ex relationship was but I don't know why. He said he and the girl were just friends and they flirted a bit but that was it however while over at his house a few days ago I found an old valentines c...
A. 12 January 2017: Honestly why does it matter? In my experience most men don't really like talking about there old relationships, therefore I think you should just let it go. He is with you now and that is all that matters.... (read in full...)
Can you be pregnant with negative test results?
Q. I had sex with a guy one night in September. I dont really remember what happened but i know we had sex. We used a condom but i am unsure if he secretly slipped it off or of the condom may have failed. It isvDecember now and my stomach looks ...
A. 4 January 2017: Did you get your doctors appointment moved forward? Also get checked for STI's if this was a one night stand. It could just be bloating and worry. If you cannot remember much due to alcohol or drugs then allow this to be a wake up call that these ... (read in full...)
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