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writes:Male(21)Hi..I am 21 and she is she is younger than me. We are in a relationship since last 7 months.We meet frequently.And now I think we both are ready for getting physical. I am confused is sex good for our relation or will it ruin our relation? I am concerned and too serious about our relationship and its future. And I am ready to do any of it that does good to our relation.We live in a traditional society.And at this point I am confused whether or not to take this next step in our relation???? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 January 2017):
 How much younger than you is she? Is she at a legal age for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2017): Depends on how good or bad the sex is.
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reader, Roboaxe  +, writes (13 January 2017):
 Depends on the situation. If you're in that traditional society, perhaps that means she is expecting marriage afterwards.
In any case, if you're ready to start a physical relationship, make sure you're on the same page with her. Do you want a kid or not? Are you using birth control, is she, what are your views on abortion, these are all sensitive topics but are best to be approached sometime before the sex occurs.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (12 January 2017):
 As you say, you live in a traditional society. You do not want to bring dishonour to her or her family. You know the right steps to take.
Furthermore remember this isn't just your decision. Her wishes must be respected and taken into account.
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