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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't like sex. Anyone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I just wonder why people can't accept that i dont like sex. Ive never been raped, abused or anything like that, i just dont ever feel the need for it. All my hormone levels r ok. I can watch it on tv, if a sexy scene on a programme comes up but that is the only time i wld ever ... (110 words)

Insecure about my boyfriend's past with other women and with porn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance has a whole bookshelf of porn in his room, makes comments about porn sometimes, and I know he's slept with women before me. He's the first man I've ever been with and the last. Sometimes while we're together, I wonder what porn he's learned something from or who he's... (180 words)

How can I stop being in love with a straight guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I’m a young gay guy and I feel like a crap right now. I’m in love with my straight classmate. It’s so hard for me that I’m literary breaking down. Of course, he doesn’t love me back. He has a girlfriend, and seems that he’s happy with her. I know I should be happy for him, but ... (277 words)

My boyfriend's son is the first priority in his life and I hate myself when I get jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry I'm not very good at explaining stuff. I'll do the bast I can: My boyfriend has a 6 year old son and they have been the only real family eachother have had since the kid was born. My boyfriend's parents have never really been in his life and the kid's never known hi... (346 words)

How can I get her to love and trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, I am hoping I reach someone who has some actual knowledge in relationships. I am just unsure of what to do. I have been married for 9 years come November (2012), and my wife is no longer in love with me because I destroyed her trust. This happened 1 year ... (467 words)

I love him, but I'm really lonely and miss my friends and family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey If anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much. I went backpacking to Australia 2 years ago and met and fell in love with an Aussie. Things have been so good and still are only now I'm lonely. I love our relationship but we do not have any friends. Lately I ... (134 words)

Why is he lying to me if he isn't doing anything wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a new relationship, have been with the guy for about ten months now. It has recently turned into a long distance thing which is fine as I have done it before. I trust him.. or at least I did. He is gud friends with a girl, which is fine, except they only became f... (345 words)

He isn't ready for a relationship, but I really like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help or advice .There's this guy in my English class that i really like .he already knows that i like him and he told me that he just wasn't ready for a relationship just yet due to past ones ,and that he just wanted to be friends. we are currently friends but i want to ... (106 words)

I like my best friend's brother, but should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my best friends brother is amazingly cute and I sadly like him alot and he works down the street from my job and with out fail he comes and visits me at least to 4 times a week with out fail . He doesn't even work.on saturdays and he'll still come visit me. And one ... (253 words)

I found a lot of disturbing things on his pc and I'm worried about my children

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello i really need help with this its killing me. Ive just moved my boyfriend in and he bought his pc wellni looked at it and found loads of lolicon on it. It was horrible and my head is so messed up, we have been friend years then i started dating him a year and half ago i ... (134 words)

I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to a uni for freshers week with ... (459 words)

She is going to Uni and things are hard, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, i'm 18 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now.. i love her too pieces and i believe her too be my world, however, lately i feel distant from her, i feel un-loved like she doesn't care, i think its the fact that she told me that she ... (215 words)

She is very down and I worry about her, should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have a female friend who has recently separated from her husband. I have made it clear that I am here for her if she needs me to be but have tried not to smother her. She has other close friends. The problem is that she will send me a message to say she is feeling sad and ... (172 words)

An overprotective mother, how can I get her to be reasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. My question deals with an overprotective mother. I am 22, going on 23 in 3 months. I never dated in high school because of how she over reacts about boys. It was just easier to not date then to constantly argue with her. So yesterday, I had my guy friend pick me up ... (285 words)

How do I make her feel comfortable about having sex with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - long story short, i pressured my gf into sex because i wanted to catch up to my buddies that had all done it. i felt left out so i pressured my long-time gf (2 years) and she gave in, even though i knew she wasn't ready (hence 2 years without any). i felt kind of guilty about ... (215 words)

Should I marry him now or wait until I finish school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for five years.my boyfriend cheated and left me when i got pregnant.i had my baby and take care of him alone.He had never shown to me that he care.Then i chose to be a single mother,and my son carry my last name.Later on,he came back in my life and try ... (369 words)

Today marks the end of our month break... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well today is day 30 of our 1 month agreed to "break". For those of you that have read my other posts you will know that I've been through a lot with my boyfriend of 3.5 years and while he kept telling me he wanted to marry me and that we have the same dreams and goals, he ... (506 words)

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted opinions to see if my boyfriends behaviour is normal or not. so I left his house around 12 this morning to meet my best girlfriend for a coffee and I told him that i MIGHT go to a shop to look for bridesmaid shoes as my friend and I are going to be bridesma... (236 words)

I'm shy, how can I tell he likes me without asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my friend tried to set me up with her college friend around 5 months ago. I wasn't interested at first but recently we've started talking again and it's got to the point where were talking everyday. We haven't met yet but were arranging to. I've started to really like him, ... (95 words)

Can't believe he spoke to me this way! Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were having a disagreement tonight, and it ended with him saying 'f**k you you little piece of s**it' then he hung up on me - in the 2 years we've been together hes never spoken to me like that, I can't get it out of my head he keeps saying he's sorry and he ... (107 words)

How can I be sexy to the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I guess I can illustrate my issue with an example. I'm standing in this hip dive bar I like with some friends, and as we sit at a table cracking jokes and making pop culture references, as is the way with most of my social engagements, I see a guy and a girl nearby. The ... (418 words)

Does he want more than FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago I started uni and met a whole lot of new people, I got in an awesome friend group and everything was good. One of the guys from the group was a bit of a slag and hooked up with tonnes of girls, but he was still a great guy. After the first 6 months he ... (256 words)

If you won money, how much would you give your guardian?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, This is not a relationship question, it's a "what if" question. Ok, let's say you are 17 years old and you've been living with somebody like a guardian since you were 16, you don't have any parents, and you pay the person $300 every month, so on your 18th bir... (93 words)

I'm confused about becoming aroused from dirty talk on a teen site

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I recently was on a teen chat room and a guy private messages me. He started talking dirty and at first I laughed but I became aroused. I eventually engaged in the chat and got off on it. After I was done I was shocked and scared that I might be gay. This was ne... (93 words)

I can't believe anything my husband says anymore. I just want the truth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has problems telling the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. We've been married 21 years and the amount of lies he's told is astounding. Sometimes it's about stupid things like if his dog used the bathroom in the house, sometimes he leaves out facts ... (266 words)

He treated me badly, I knew we couldn't marry so why do I still miss him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY FOR MY bad ENGLISH.... I met my boyfriend one year ago,it was a rebound relationship, I was so much attached to him, we used to talk 7-8 hours in day. He used to tell me he wants to marry me, but we both belongs to conservative families where caste matters a lot, m... (654 words)

Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story short, he initiated txting ... (737 words)

Ladies: Do you wear stockings underneath your clothing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question to all those ladies out there. Does anyone actually ever wear stockings underneath their clothes (like on t.v and in movies) or do people just wear leggings? The reason I ask is because if true then... ;-). But anyone I've ever actually mentioned it to ... (73 words)

Husband didn't introduce me to anyone at a party and I was left feeling very uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very sad and disappointed at the moment because my husband and I went to a party where I knew almost anyone and he didn't introduce me to anyone. He says he doesn't like all these mannerly introductions, but I think that's common sense. I got to introduce myself because ... (148 words)

Will the man get the yeast infection too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - if a female has a yeast infection and has intercourse with a man, does the man gets it?!... (18 words)

G/f's ex FWB still contacts her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me my gf have been going out for more than a year now we are living together. I don't think of my self as being a jealous or a controlling Bf. Her ex fuck buddy would text her every now and then for a chat. I have never like him contacting her because of the fact that she di... (240 words)

My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is absolutely amazing, although ... (418 words)

Have I been friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What could it mean when a guy treats you differently than he does other girls or his other friends? Like he may hug/flirt with other girls but he doesn't ever do that to you. Like, this is my situation, but what is confusing is like, we are in the same clique right? I have ... (698 words)

Is he using me? Should I just cut off all communication?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - there is this guy whom I met online. Two years ago, he said he would try to come back to Singapore to live. He is working and living in Thailand. Two years later, while we are still communicating, he is still there. I asked him if he will honor his word and return to Singapore. ... (196 words)

She hates me, she loves me I don't know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 11 years told me a couple times past few years that she wanted a divorce. Completely caught me off guard and I know that sounds crazy but I didn’t see it coming. She used to say it every time she got really mad. She said she wanted to work on it but then never ... (324 words)

What does he mean? He says I changed his life forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, Can you please explain what my boyfriend meant when he said I've changed his life forever? 1. Its changed since he met me and I will always be part if his history. 2. He sees me as being part of his life always? Sorry English isn't my first language and some... (92 words)

What do you think she's up to?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So I dated my ex for 5 months, and everything was great except for a few really bad arguments. I wasnt committing to her, because i thought it was too early and wanted us to take our time, and she wound up breaking up with me. I realized i really wanted to be with her, and... (336 words)

He said if I dislike his pot smoking I can leave

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok! So me and my fiance have been together almost 9 years. When I met him he did not smoke, we've broke up and got back together in between that time, but here we are together again, and now he smokes weed. I have a serious problem with it. I mean everytime he smokes I get ma... (184 words)

Advice needed on how to meet attractive, feminine women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old female currently studying in college. My sexuality is complicated...I guess I would identify as bisexual but with a strong preference for women. I've been longing to meet a girl and have a relationship (or just hook up as long as it's not a one night stand) f... (214 words)

When does intercourse become less painful for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! So, I'm getting married soon and I been reading a lot about sex preparing somewhat for it. My fiancé has told me that she has had 1 sexual partner and they only did it twice the same day she lost her virginity. One worry that she has is our first time will be painful ... (103 words)

I asked him where the relationship was headed and now he seems distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Everything was going really well until I commited the ultimate girl mistake in a new relationship: I asked where this was all headed.... surprisingly he was very calm (i could tell he was annoyed but was willing to have this conversa... (335 words)

I get very anxious when my boyfriend is out with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So me n my bf have been together 4 yrs and sometimes we both go out seperately with friends. We r pretty laid back about it but it seems that I get really jelous over him going out and then I text him and feel like I'm ruining his night out w/friends. is that normal to feel lef... (152 words)

What's going on with this guy? He's playing games with me and I cant figure out what the deal is with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) age 41-50 - My question: Is he really sick or did he stand me up? Our history: I met this guy online last year. We talked for 2 weeks and then went out for a dinner date. After the date, he kept insisting that I want to have sex with him. I told him that we just met and that I wasn't in... (782 words)

Is my ex in denial over our break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend last week over his bad temper and slight emotional abuse. Anyways we live together so it's hard to completely cut it off and not see him anymore but he said he would be looking for another place to live. We've been doing our best though as I've ... (198 words)

Boyfriend doesn't seem to understand my needs in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First off I just want to say that I love my boyfriend to bits. We've been dating for a little over a year and we both lost our virginity after about 7 months. I don't have issues with how long he lasts and he really does try to do foreplay but it's like he just doesn't get it. ... (361 words)

My ex and I reconnected over Facebook and then he suddenly blocked me! Why would he do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I sent a Facebook message to my ex boyfriend to smooth over the awkwardness after we broke up (almost a year ago) and kind of extend a hand of friendship, which he gladly accepted. A few months after we broke up he wanted to get back together or even be fwbs but I turned him ... (167 words)

My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

30 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great relationship. anyways-- the ... (349 words)

Squirting issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

30 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my wife and I have a really healthy sexual relationship. We love trying new things. She has came to like squirting as much as me. We was watching some porn and a girl started cumming and white stuff was oozing out of her. We are trying to figure out how to make this ... (67 words)

I'm not attracted to my boyfriend's lack of motivation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

29 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just graduated college with my bachelor's degree. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. My boyfriend will be done with his bachelor's degree in December. We've had many conversations about the future, from where we wish to live to if we want to have children. However, ... (144 words)

Why can't I ever get a guy who cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so here I'm going to give a little back ground before I ask the question hopefully so you all somewhaht get a better idea of what is going on. In July, me and my ex broke up because I found out he was cheating. Well, I gave him another chance about a month ago and it turns... (417 words)