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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sisters have cut me out, why do people do this to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age - I need some help and advice as my heart is breaking. I have a sister who has some sort of mental issue. She's a compulsive liar, a master manipulator, a character assassin and will twist your words around until you don't recognize them. From her teenage years on, she was out ... (397 words)

What's the right way to break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - last year I met someone and I liked him and I thought I loved him but now I know many things he knew about me and kept away from me, he was always talking to people behind my back about some stuff of my past and it was very hard for me to know all this very late.. he doesn't ... (109 words)

What should I do my bf is driving me nuts!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ! I have a bf of almost 5 years. He is a hard worker he is funny and has a great family . We use to live together but we couldn't afford it so we both moved back to our patents. My dad and him don't get along so he isn't aloud at my house. He works from 4am to 2pm . I work ... (470 words)

If someone is ready to be pleasured how can they not be ready to give pleasure?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Is something wrong with me? My boyfriend and I (I am a gay man) have been together almost 3 years, we are getting married in November. We live together and have a very open and public relationship. The problem I am having is in the bedroom. Our sex life is so one-sided. I ... (277 words)

I need advice on how to get over him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahhh, Where do I start. My boyfriend of a year and a half, and I just recently broke up. I called it quits after I found out that he has been lying about smoking weed. He would smoke after I left his house. And ever since I broke up with him, shits been hitting the fan. ... (124 words)

Should I just ignore her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys.. I'm having this issue with my boyfriend right now.. I've been with him on-off for a year or so.. and he's got 3 girls on facebook that has a crush on him.. and he even admitted that.. And now, one of the girls added me and said things like.. "I know you and ... (128 words)

This internet conflict went too far, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and i frequently use the website tumblr. i am a sophomore. i made a post with advice for freshman, and at the end i said (jokingly) "if you scream when you see your friends, i'll hit you". this girl messaged me anonymously saying things like "oh you think you're so cool ... (325 words)

Why do I always end up in abusive relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, why do i always end up in abusive relationships? im a bubbly, sexy, supportive girl and i always try hard in everything. I know i have flaws too, im no angel but no matter what i do i end up with guys who are perfect at first, then they change and its really ... (130 words)

My best friend's boyfriend will make him choose between us. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am gay and have a bisexual best friend. He is purely a friend and we have a platonic relationship. My best friend has just got a new boyfriend. I am 40 my best friend is 31 and his new boyfriend 20. His boyfriend is very possessive and does not like him spending any time with ... (374 words)

Is there something wrong? I've only had sex twice and it's not even painful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have had sex only twice with my boyfriend. but it doesnt hurt one bit. its not even liek hes small. but even when he penetrates its not at all painful. it just feels like something is inside. i cant even feel the movement inside. is something wrong with me? or are we ... (60 words)

Advice on choice of condom needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We have always used Trojan Her Pleasure condoms, but the condom has never been able to roll down to the base of his penis. Earlier this week we bought Trojan Magnum condoms due to them being sold out of Her Pleasure. The condom ... (142 words)

I am worried about him financially. Am I wrong??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi aunts and uncles :) I will try to make this short. My bf moved in with my two children and I about three months ago. He has helped us out with rent,cable, electric AND food. Hasn't missed a week of payments. A few weeks ago he called me and asked if I could pick him up... (402 words)

What does a guy mean when you tell him you like him and he say's "cool"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so I like this guy and he is one of my friends , I have heard rumours that he might like me, I have tried testing it. I was walking with him and another guy and asked if they thought I was pretty, the guy I liked said yes straight away, the other didn't reply. so the othe... (145 words)

Should my boyfriend pay something if he moves into my house?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) age 41-50 - My bf and i will soon be moving in together - he will be moving into my house. We have already agreed on that we will split the utilities bills and food. However he doesnt think he should pay anything weekly. Obviously i am not looking to make any type of profit by him moving ... (94 words)

How do I end this babysitting arrangement without things becoming awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been babysitting on and off for a couple (I'll call them J and B) with a little boy of two years old since October 2011. They didn't used to call me often, maybe once a month, but since around April of this year they've been in touch more regularly. The problem is that ... (304 words)

Guy at a bar leant in for a kiss and got my lips before I could turn away, do I tell my boyfriend about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

- Hi everybody, just a quick question! I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him so much, I went away for a night out with my girls Saturday night and a few men were chatting me up I think I must of said "sorry, I've got a boyfriend" about a dozen times! A... (235 words)

I love her but I think our relationship is dead, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, Me and my girlfriend, we have been together for more than a year now, but recently she started to act like she does not want to see me anymore. We used to have fun together almost every single day, but now I haven't seen her for almost a week. I asked h... (307 words)

How do I cancel the date I have planned now I am exclusive with my partner, but still keep this other man as a friend in case this one doesn't work out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been single for about 14 months, dating casually here and there, I've been seeing a guy that I've known for years the last couple of months casually and also been seeing and texting other people. (as he has as well)This guy and I have decided to make a go of it and be ... (190 words)

I'm in my 30's and feel like I don't have a life, I don't know what else to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help i dont know what to do. in my 30s living with parents and i feel like i did when i was 16. they pay all the bills so i dont have them worries but i suffer from depression and find getting a job hard. i was starting to feel a bit better had counselling looked into ... (221 words)

He has also been going to his ex girlfriends house.. Is it something I did? Do I say something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy who's my friend's brother. He is a lot older than me and when we started seeing each other i said i wasnt interested because he had a girlfriend but he reassured me they werent together he told me he really liked me and he thought i would sort his... (198 words)

Should I make an effort to try to strike up communication between us, or should I just leave things as they are and wait for him to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure where I stand or how to act. Been seeing a guy and everything seems to be going well, except we don't see each other often. We only really text to discuss when we can meet again. The 2nd to last time we met went great. My friends said it was obvious he really likes me ... (368 words)

A baby 3 months ago. So why do I feel so dispirited all the time? Should I start afresh, or is there other options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So had a baby been together for two years and I dont think I want to be with him anymore.I love him but I'm falling out of love. Lately I've been sleeping on the couch in the living room, I dont enjoy kissing him or being all cuddly with him. I dont know what to do, if I leave ... (115 words)

Why does my Ex talk about coming home, but he can't make his own mind up to do so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I talked to my ex today for a long time . We laughed about old and new events in our lives even though we live so far apart we still have feeling for one another.We went our own way I moved and he stayed. So now he is giving little hints on coming down to where I live lik... (124 words)

Was I just a customer to them? Unrequitted friendships? Do I go back or let them go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going to try and make this as short as possible. ok, so here's the deal I met a group of people during an abusive relationship, and they were really nice and supportive and helped me whenever i needed it. Four years later my friend died (suicide) and because i ... (449 words)

What options do I have? I love him very much I do not find our love life very satisfying.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age - My BF prefers oral and anal to intercourse. I prefer intercourse to oral and anal. Despite my repeated requests to have him "cum" inside me during intercourse using a condom it still has not happened. When he does make love to me (which does not happen very often) it is... (161 words)

How can I tell him that the one night stand meant nothing?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm after a little bit of advice. I really have messed up and don't know how or if I can fix this. I really like this guy, but I thought he had made it clear that he wasn't interested in me. His best mate started flirting with me and I stupidly ended up having a one night st... (124 words)

My Bf says I should just fit in with his plans. So why can't he try to understand how difficult it is for me with my illness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. I have depression and social anxiety disorder and this is already causing problems in our relationship. Before we started dating he knew I had these issues. (I've been on antidepressants for about 2 months n... (524 words)

Why didn't he reply to my message but did ask my friend about me? Are there feelings there for me?

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4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy (let's call him B) a little over a year ago on a trip, he was friends with my best friend, we started dating while one our trip and decided to see where things would go after we were back in the city (we both live in the same city). So yeah, we had fun, we talked ... (407 words)

I fell for her pretty hard. Should I send her another message to check if she received the first one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, there's this girl, let's call her X, I really like. We've known each other for a couple of years, and we worked together quite closely previously. While we were working together I fell for her pretty hard, but never made any moves or voiced my feelings for a couple of re... (394 words)

I know he likes me and I treasure his friendship. Should we just keep it that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm developing feelings for one of my best guy friends. He is two years younger than me. He has his silly moments but he is very thoughtful, detail oriented, reliable, supported, and makes me laugh like there's no tomorrow. However a few years ago in high school he tried ... (134 words)

I want a better, happier and non-abusive relationship. So who should I be considering? These are my current options.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Let me begin by saying Im a 46 yo female, Was married for 12 years, Divorced 3 years ago, Was in another abusive realtionship for 2 years, Been single for 6 months, I have dated alot, Recently I meet a man (50). We both are looking for the same thing, Settle down,mar... (298 words)

How do cope with my Gf''s request and suggestion? She wants space, plus she suggested I date her friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4461 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now, and i love her to bits. we recently moved in together and it seemed perfect, but 2 weeks later she told me she was unhappy. we used to say we wanted to get married, and live a long life together, now she wants a ... (281 words)

I think my best friend slept with my FWB

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my best friend slept with my friends with benifits. She brings him up alot. How do I find out ? I slept with him two daya ago thimgs were good... (33 words)

Do I leave my wife over breast implants?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

4 September 2012 (M)

age - my wife lies to me she had a breast implants done without my permission i dont like it what will i do. leave her?... (24 words)

But what do I do? I love my ex but I can't hurt my Bf.

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4 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I had a crush on my ex Bf for 8 months before we started dating. Then dated 6 more months. He dumped me because he was moving a few cities Away. We both started seeing other people. But I still love him. He told me he still loves me and has written over 200 songs a... (108 words)

I'm 14 and I'm pregnant by my 15 year old B/f who talked me into sex. What do I do now?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

4 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!:) Ok, I have a huge problem and really need some help! I'm 14 years old, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months. He is 15, and in the year above me at school. At the beginning of the relationship, everything was absoutoley amazing! He would tell me ... (285 words)