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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ex left a month ago. Is one month too soon to start a new relationship with a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with the first boyfriend i ever had almost a month ago. I am 15 i was with him for 6 months, i have never felt so strongly about a boy as i did with him, he took my viriginity, and at alot of different points in our relationship i felt we could of been ... (638 words)

No to a tubal ligation. But I never want to be pregnant. Terrified of it. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m a woman aged 28 years old and I’ve very big trouble. I’m dreadfully afraid of pregnancy and it affects my sex life more and more. I’ve a boyfriend, we’re together for two years, but sex has always been a stress for me. I want him and I want sex with him, but I’m so afrai... (236 words)

Completely utterly totally besotted with her. What can I do? I will wait until she is free.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So here I am once again asking for help from strangers, cause I simply can't take it anymore. I need help, because from an year or so I'm incredibly depressed. I know I'm young, but I just want to finally find the person I love. Please, I don't want to hear 'at your age you ... (738 words)

At 61 and divorced I feel I have no friends. No family either. How does one make friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age - I just dont know how to make some real friends. I was brought up in children's homes so have no family as such I was divorced years ago and have had a few boyfriends since but one way and another all folded up. I have tried working in charity shops and got on ok with the ... (232 words)

Please help me move past his cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. My husband cheated on me 6 months ago, lets just say i saw it from a third person view. So i saw everything. He and I have been trying to build our marriage again to what is was like but better. I do love him but I do look at him differently My quest... (138 words)

Why am I hanging on to a bad relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Your thoughts please. Why on earth am I hanging on to my waste of space bf? The good bits,- he.s good looking,and good in bed. The bad bits- he.s unreliable,manipulative, decitful, selfish, mean and moody. I.ve hung on in there for almost two years somehow. I don.t ev... (132 words)

I'm a straight A student and he is a skater boy. Should I take the chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So all my life, I have been pretty tamed(: I do my school work and get straight-A's (I'm planning on being a doctor). I am a senior this year, 17, and school starts in a couple of days. However, I am so not prepared because my mind is completely somewhere else. I met a guy, ... (254 words)

My starbucks barista crush, does he like me at all or do I notice these signs because I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush in guy; I'm 18, and he is probably around 20. I know he is in college, I think it may be even his first year. He is a little quieter, but not shy. I hardly see or talk to him and we don't know each other. I occaisonally interact with him. He works at a coffee ... (284 words)

I just started college but have no idea what type of job I want. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i started college last week and i really like it, i just have no idea what kind of job i would want, i want to do something that i would enjoy ,that would make me a lot of money and doesnt require that much school,i like to work with people and i want to do something worth ... (63 words)

I should be enjoying my life right now but instead I am constantly worrying and paranoid. Does anyone else feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, In the past 4 months I have gotten engaged and bought a house with my fiancé. We are both really happy as its something we have wanted to do for a long time. Now here's the problem... I can't stop worrying that something will go wrong. I mean I'm really happy a... (388 words)

Do his comments mean he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for about a year. I have a broken collarbone and I really wanted to get a photo taken with this particular guy. I told him to get on the other side of me that isn't sore and he smiled at me and said to me, "Is that your best side?". I then said, "No it's ... (200 words)

I like this guy but he suddenly stopped talking me and said he would rather date himself. How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I recently have been hanging out with this guy who likes me and I like him. We have been through a few years and he says he wants to go out with me and now he stopped talking to me and said on Facebook he knows now he would rather just date himself. how do I get over him ... (64 words)

Are guy's disgusted by breaking a girl's hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so last week, I was getting fingered by a guy that I've been fooling around with. I'm a virgin and I guess I never really took into consideration about my hymen. Anyways, while his fingers were inside of me, he pulled out and said "Are you um, on your.." and had blood all ... (211 words)

He makes 6 times the money I do but he won't spend anything on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a new guy weeks after i ended up the relationship with my worthless boyfiend.Now We are dating for about three months relationship.He is a successfull man,he makes almost six times of what I make at my job; but it won't spend nothing on me. He call me anytime to prepare ... (237 words)

My severe acne has me hating myself! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am embarassed to step out of the house. I sleep all day because I am ashamed to go out. I am hedious. My severe acne has scarred my face and I feel worthless. I am afraid to go to shopping malls. Everyone else looks amazing with good skin. I am always the only one with this ... (178 words)

I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have an interest in, and I just ... (243 words)

We were fooling around but stayed in our underwear, I am worried I could still get pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My guy and I were hooking up last night in our underwear. He was wearing boxer briefs and I was wearing lace underwear that had a sheet of fabric between the lace. I was worried that since I think he precame and though I didn't remove my underwear that there could be a chance ... (84 words)

My teacher is married with a child, why is she asking about my feelings towards her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hey cupid team and onliners! The girl am gonna tell u is my teacher and she is about 30 or so and i am 26,she is married and has a child,i think she has a crash on me and asked my feeling towards her by text. And immidiately she texted and said she don't want to ruin my life ... (96 words)

My marriage lacks a sex life so I have a friend with boundaries. How do I be happy with my husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a happily married woman (20+ years). Hubby is great, we get along, we have grown children, built a nice life, etc. We work great together, have some of the same hobbies, and almost always agree. He is sweet and nice and we are happy together. I am not now, nor have I ever ... (153 words)

I have really bad acne scars and I'm losing all self confidence over them.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have really bad skin and it's really getting me down. I have acne scars and a few spots, but more scars and it has started to really get to me. I also have dry skin so wearing make-up to cover it doesn't help, it just makes my skin look really flaky and horrible. Plus I... (135 words)

Is it me? Why do I keep on attracting the type of men who are abusive, drink and do drugs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Yes I am looking for a decent well kept man that doesn't drink, do drugs ,and does believe in hitting women . I don't understand why do I attract these type of men if they aren't doing one then it's both or all three. I am so tired of this cycle.I mean I just don't understand... (81 words)

This older married woman is giving me mixed signals. Do I persist or finish the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, well i made friends with this woman who is older then me. we got really close. She is married but they dont get on at all i never get a straight answer from her. One day she is ok, saying 'I love you' then next she just doesn't seem to care what do i do. I'm always left ... (103 words)

How can I be a part of my fiance's family when he sister doesn't like me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my name is alex and i'm 20. I'am currently engaged to my fiancee. Im really stuck in a very awkward situation which is destroying me as i love my fiancee to death as he does me. My fiancee has an older sister who is only a year older than him, she and his mum are the ... (416 words)

I've been hurt so I back off from relationships but I want to be in a relationship!

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1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Im 23 years old and I have been single for a year now after a long term relationship. It was a nasty breakup and i had a very low point but in this time iv learnt how to be by myself. I have spent the last year partying with friends, going out every weekend... (349 words)

My instructor touched me when I don't think he needed to, what does it mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry this is terribly wrong, but I need help... every time I meet him at the corridor or out of college, he will raise his eyebrows twice,lowers his eyelids and smile, there, he did it again today. The way he raises his eyebrows are something like..'I raise my eyebrow... (427 words)

I'm worried that I'm getting feelings for this girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hello, i am kind of in an awkward situation again with a girl i have mentioned a few times on here before. me and her always talk and she has even shared a few secrets with me also we like gaming with each other sometimes, like minecraft and call of duty. anyway my friend has ... (276 words)

My online affair is becoming too real

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a married man who has been having an online romance with a married woman I have never met for over a year now. This is problem enough, I suppose. However, what makes it worse is that the relationship is becoming more and more real. My lover talks about leaving her spou... (215 words)

Why are people so hot and cold with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is not a relationship question but it kinda is sort of in a way. Well anyways i have noticed that people always seem to be mean to me not all the time but most of the time i get people mean to me or take me to serious, it's like this with both girls and guys, ... (300 words)

How do I not worry with my long distance girlfriend going out and having a drink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me just say at the front that I get the need for drinking. It's a great escape with an awesome buzz that helps you just relax and go crazy and forget about the stress that have been bothering you for a while or during your work week. I used to do it all the time. But ye... (394 words)

Before we do go ahead, and that is NOT yet: what should we consider before we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll give a bit of background info first.. Basically My boyfriend and I have been going out almost two and a half years and the sex topic has come up quite a lot recently, we both agreed we aren't ready yet and that we're happy to wait for each other, but I just want to know ... (139 words)

I'm beginning to lose interest in my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I am starting to become uninterested in my boyfriend. I was afraid this would happen if our relationship did not take off. Some things may have changed, but not enough to say this is who I want to spend the rest of my life with. When it comes to who he is and what he ... (357 words)

Advice needed on how to get on with her difficult exes.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Two weeks ago I met a girl from a online dating website, Im 25 and she is 23, we spoke on there for a few days, swapped numbers and found out we lived 2mins from each other. We arranged for a date a few days later and before we knew it we had seen each other every day for the ... (353 words)

I'm back and still in need of help in overcoming my obsession with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have made two posts about this girl before if you remember me. Doesn't matter though if you do. I am ashamed to say but I am obsessed over this one girl and I need to know of some tips to get rid of this feeling. So basically like a month ago I started having feelings for ... (392 words)

How does a cock ring feel for a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I read a question on here about a cock ring earlier. I have never tried one with anyone before but have heard about it. For some reason seeing the post made me very interested in trying one or trying other toys. I like trying different things in the bedroom. When I asked my... (224 words)

Should I get out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I've begun noticing unpleasant things about my boyfriend and I've come to the conclusion that he is controlling... I just couldn't figure it out for the longest time because he is so timid and he has never lifted a finger on me...I never thought he would EVER be the controlling ... (297 words)

My lawyer told me my husband wants to give up his parental rights

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - See at one point I didn't give my husband space when he wanted it and we fought a lot so he would take off for days then come home and we would be fine for a little while then he'd take off again and I lost my kids to the state and I'm fighting to get them back and he took off ... (161 words)

Am I mistaking my college advisor's friendliness with other intentions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am 19 and a bit confused about a man I met a few months ago. He works at the college I recently transferred to, and from the beginning, I have been noticing some stuff that makes me raise my eyebrows, but in a good way, if that makes any sense. He is married, ... (1090 words)

This guy seems into me but I think he may be engaged, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy have been talking. We both find each other attractive. Here's the one thing that's bugging me...he has told everyone I know he's single. But we found pictures of him from a few months back with a girl and an engagement ring. His Facebook still has pictures of ... (134 words)

My long distance boyfriend wants to go to prom with me but I'm afraid he won't like me because I am fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a long distance relationship and he wants me to go with him to his senior prom, i told him i will. HE wants to see me sooner than that and so do i but the problem is im afraid to. I know im fat, but im not really huge like i should be, i weigh alot but i dont look how ... (185 words)

I always do favors for a work collegue but she doesn't appreciate me or do anything in return!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a certain work collegue I have done many regular favors for over the years. One specific favor takes me out of my way a bit and she has takes it for granted. Yesterday I was stuck and couldnt get my morning coffee. I saw her coming back after her break and asked her if ... (184 words)