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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell her about my feelings, or just leave things the way they are?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in 10th grade and so is this girl who I really like. We have been best friends for years and I've always liked her but have never asked her how she feels about me. She flirts with me alot but she also flirts with other guys. S i don't know if she likes me. I'm so happy ... (91 words)

My true love moved away to find himself. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I dated for over 2 years moved about 3,000 miles away a month ago because he wanted to go find out what a makes him tick. He told me when he made this decision to move is that he didn't want me to think he was trying to run away from me, just that he wanted to find what ... (282 words)

I'm in love with him but he is sending me and my friends mixed signals. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to know some reasons a boy might hide his feelings. He has told me up straight that he doesn't fancy me, which was hard because I am in love with him. However, at the beginning of last year, he said he wanted to kiss me, and we did. Since then he has been sending me all ... (100 words)

I can't believe cocaine had such an effect on our relationship, how do I move past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i beeen with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, he is on cocaine, but trying very hard to hold hide it, anyway he was living with me, and it was a nightmare from hell, finally he left in jan 2012, been gone since, we still saw each other, but it was still terible, he broke up with ... (127 words)

Feeling guilty and lonely. How can I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I parted ways a little more than a month ago, not because we had issues but because we both are now living in different countries. I talk to him often, and I miss him all the time (and sometimes it makes me want to cry). I think he misses me too. However, I know we ... (373 words)

Need some suggestions on toys/lube. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best brand of silicone based lube to buy? Opinions? Also what is the best/most reputable brand of vibrators or toys to buy and what should i look for when buying one? I have a hard time acheiving orgasm and have never rly bought good lube and never have had toys. I ... (73 words)

How can I calm myself down and stop thinking about this? I couldn't stand his paranoia and name-calling!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently split up with my boyfriend because we argued a lot. He was very paranoid and called me a slut a liar and a cheat practically everyday although he had no grounds for it, that's just the way he is. Well I checked out his facebook and a couple of days after we'd ... (186 words)

She sees no problem being flirty with guys, should I even bother trying to get back with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me last week because I kept giving her a hard time about her guy friends, they openly flirt with her and she spends more time texting them when shes with me and does not seem to speak to me. She wants to see me Friday and ... (290 words)

Keep the baby, adoption, or abortion?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 yrs old and i just found out that im pregnant. I was taking the pill, have been for 3 mos. Idk how but i must have taken it wrong or maybe it just failed. Anyways my current bf and i have been dating 8mos. He is rather self absorbed, and is very needy as in needs me to ... (187 words)

Should tell her myself or let her find out in the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have kind of a weird situation. One that would either make me sound helpful or make me sound like a raging *itch. I dated a guy named "Mike" and he turned out to be a complete butt hole. While we were dating he started talking to a girl named "Charlotte". Sh... (397 words)

I don't understand why he would leave his amazing wife for a much younger woman? Help me understand so I can talk to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age - hello aunts, never thought i would be on here. ive seen alot of people writing about age gap. im trying to understand my best friends relationship, ive known him since we were 20 years old. when he got married i was his best man, and the woman he married was 1 in a million. she ... (371 words)

Should I tell him I've never been with a man before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been with a man before, having previously been with a woman for two years previously. I've been single for almost a year now and never before had the oppertunity to date the other side of the fence, so to speak. I've gone for a few dates with a really awesome g... (173 words)

My dad's having an affair and I can't even look him in the face anymore, I'm so disgusted. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My dad has been having an affair with a worker (my dad is the boss and this lady works under him) for wayy too long now,my mom found out about it and he said he stopped,but lately he's been having sex with her again!and I'v met that woman I never knew she was the ... (132 words)

What is a 'hormonal rush'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What is a Hormonal Rush!!???my gf told me she had a hormonal rush on reading my love letters to her.since then i have been trying to figure out what it exactly is!!?... (32 words)

Shouldn't it be a given that he would give his life for me, as I would for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - We dated for 1 year and then have been engaged for 3 years. The other day we were having a conversation about life and my fiance turned to me and said to me "I love you so much, that I think I may even die for you." Maybe I am being over analytical here but shouldn't th... (241 words)

Help me convince my boy for a fourth time to try again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for almost two years. we broke up once because we faught about everything and anything. we broke up again because he just wasn't thinking things through correctly and let his life problems come between us, but the 2nd time we got ... (281 words)

Am I selfish to want to break up with him 2 years after he cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago I agreed to give him a second chance we have a family a house now. We didn't do these things to fix the relationship I found out about the cheating after we had settled. I find myself thinking more and more why am I with this p... (146 words)

Reconnected with my high school sweetheart, we have unresolved feelings, what do I do? PS We are married to other people...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi,Iam married and happly so but the girl that was my high school sweetheat went her way due to her wanting us to be friends, we have since reconnected via social media and we find that we both still have unresolved feelings for each, she is also married. Its strange its not ... (71 words)

What is worse? To live with someone you don't desire yet still love or live with a broken heart because the one you love doesn't want you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Which is worse, to live with somebody you don't want to be with anymore in a sexual way, but love them or to live life with a broken heart because the person you love doesn't want to be with you and you can't live without them?... (46 words)

What am I? Bi, straight, something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm unsure about my sexuality. I'm an 18 year old guy, and have always been attracted to girls, I get turned on by girls, and date and have sex with girls. But here's the thing, having sex with another guy where I penetrate them, kiss them, or let them suck me off doesn't b... (206 words)

Does anyone relate to this? Being told by a friend that her desires extend past our boundaries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. very nervous. my dear friend of 12 years just started confessing that her desires extend past our very comfortable, very intimate boundaries. we're both dykes of a similar stripe: as per gender-performance, priorities in life, vulnerabilities, we're both academic ... (167 words)

How do we deal with our different schedules?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for almost two years. Over the past year, our visits have become significantly less frequent and shorter. His work schedule if completely opposite mine. I work 9-5 Monday through Friday, and he is 2-11 Wednesday through Sunday. I am really ... (63 words)

He is a complete jerk! Isn't he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a club. He had dinner and we went his place but I refused to have sex. Two days later he invited me to come to his bro'bday party. I went there but we didn't had sex. then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to hi... (193 words)

My Co-worker has a Gf but keeps on winking at me. I'm interested, but how should I indicate that? Or could I be mistaking his intentions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a coworker that has been winking at me for sometime. I didnt really pay it any attention at first because I thought that he was just friendly. However,I really noticed it this last time when he winked really slow and pointed his finger at me when noone else was around- I ... (150 words)

This guy cancelled a date at the last moment, twice, to me. Why do guys do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Any advice as to why he kept blowing me out. Me and this guy used to work together we got on really well, there was chemistry between us from day one, we arranged to got out but he cancelled on me on the day (this was when we worked together). I didn't speak to him again but... (262 words)

Does checking how I 'feel' indicate my Bf loves me? Nine months of dating and still he hasn't said he loves me:(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, After dating my boyfriend for 9 months I still haven't heard from him that he loves me. I told him at the 6 months make and he said he wasn't there yet but cared for me I agreed and told him that I probably didnt love him yet either (I was drunk at the time *cring... (144 words)

Am I really unloveable?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends for advice on this topic and e... (439 words)

I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good friends and developed a nice ... (255 words)

No condom, took pill next morning. Is that enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had sex only twice before. The last time we did it, we didn't use a condom and he pulled out before anything happened. The next morning I took the pill. Is this safe enough to prevent pregnancy?... (42 words)

Does he want to talk? But not sure how...or just being friendly. I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A coworker and I have a connection but we do not work directly with each other because he works in a different department. We are in a partnership. When we met, our eyes locked, we smiled, exchanged glances and got along well. A month later, he calls me out of the blue stating ... (273 words)

I'm not confident in my dating choices

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not sure if I am confident in my reasons to stay with my boyfriend. In my boyfriends eyes, we have a great relationship, but in my eyes I feel like there is something off. I love him very much, in fact, he is my first love. We have been together for a little over a year ... (179 words)

My boyfriend says he wouldn't go out of his way to protect me! Should I get rid of him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this is probably really stupid but i was talking to my bf and before we hit the city, was joking about getting mugged and asked if he'd protect me. he said he wasn't going to go out of his way if it'd put himself in danger. i was like, so you'd wouldn't die for me? and he was ... (98 words)

I just found out that the boy I like is asexual. Is it still possible for him to return my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so hi everyone. I just found out that the boy I like is asexual today. Is it still possible for him to return my feelings? Honestly, his asexuality doesn't really matter to me at all. It will be a new thing if anything, since he lacks interest in sex which contrasts him ... (114 words)

What can I do to make sure my son is not living in the mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So it has been over a year since I last posted on here, I didn't go back to Pete, and Jack and I are still together. Last year Pete still had my kids, in July last year, he kicked our 13 year old daughter out and I moved her here to Jack and I, my daughter over the past 12 ... (451 words)

Has anybody been with someone who used to do a lot of drugs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

12 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend used to be a heroin addict. He's pretty much done every drug under the sun (pot, cocaine, acid, ecstasy and heroin which he was addicted to for 4 years) and did that for several years from high school till his mid 20s. He's now 31. When I met him a year ago, he ... (277 words)