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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

With so many men who claim to need porn should I even bother with a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even really know how to begin this but, here we go, I am confused about relationships. Mainly about if I am good enough. Everyone always says guys like to look, many of them watch porn, have nude magazines, some like strip clubs. I know that a relationship or marriage ... (339 words)

I am in crush with a straight guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there. i am a student from china who is now exchanging in france. i met a guy who is from another school at the public canteen and he is very very handsome. that day he approached me and say he was new in town and do not know anyone. we had a great time and at the end of ... (303 words)

Should I transfer to another college to be closer to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and I'm in my freshman year of college. Some background information: Before I moved here I basically lived with my boyfriend over the summer, and before that we did everything together and are the best of friends. He's made ... (652 words)

He lied to me about watching porn and now I feel I am losing my love for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married since April to a man that I have been dating since I was 16. We have a long long history and a lot of ups and downs in that time. In the past he has hidden things from me and lied to my face about lots of things: seeing his ex girlfriend, chatting with ot... (1302 words)

How can I figure out if he would be interested in getting into a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy (he's 25, and i'm 20) that i've hung out with a few times and have talked to nearly every single day since i met him a little over a month ago (only one day has gone by without us at least saying hii and asking what the other is up to). we've... (602 words)

Do guys like small girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Do guys like petite girls i'm 4'9"... (7 words)

He's all over me but he has a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I started highschool 3weeks ago and I met thIs guy he's really nice and he's a big flirt well about a week ago we started talking and getting close just a week ago he got a girlfriend but he still all over me and everything but I don't bow why I have never had a ... (67 words)

I earn double what my boyfriend does so he expects me to pay for everything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I earn double my boyfriend's salary and I'm a bread winner At home. He always ask for money and when he bring it back he doesn't bring the full amount. He's very stingy and he expect me do everything for him like give him money to go to work,pay his cell account and buy ... (103 words)

Can someone help me understand the male mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone, please help me understand the male mind. I am at the end of my tether. I have been seeing a guy since the end of July and things were going well. After five weeks he told me he loved me. I thought it was a bit soon but nice to hear. Btw we are having sex- have sin... (190 words)

We don't want to go too far but want to try something new

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My Bf and I wanna be a little experimental, but we dont wanna go to far. All our clothes wanna stay on. But we do wanna try something new. We've played the nervous game already. Any Ideas? Him and I are both virgins so we dont want anything to sexual, but we do a little. (so... (75 words)

Do you think she may be interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, this may be a bit long, I just hope is not too long Ok, I'm in uni, and there is this girl in my class that I'm interested in, so like a week ago I decided that I would suck up my fears and approach her and I did, for my surprise we actually got along, but I did... (350 words)

Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breaking up at my home is out of the qu... (131 words)

Love: What is your definition?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am absolutely sick people saying that love is a mutual feeling and if the other person doesn't feel the same way then it's not love, so I thought Id ask what peoples definitions were. Mine is that love is selfless, undying. You put them in front of yourself and would rather ... (58 words)

I love my girlfriend but don't fancy her at all? what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a problem i love my girlfriend been with her a year and we want to live together at some point. have a lot in common and she is a lovely person who i do have have feelings for but only in a frinedship way. i dont fancy her anymore. its not just sex i dont care about that ... (203 words)

I'm worried that my boyfriend of 2.5 years is gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm worried that my boyfriend may be gay. We have been together for 2.5 years. The first time he took me to his house, I thought it was odd that he had 2 teddy bears on his bed, and a large image of scooby doo in his living room. In addition, He is a Lakers fanatic, so ... (312 words)

I think my best friend's boyfriend is coming on to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone is this wierd I feel like my best friends boyfriend is interested in me..I don't know if I'm seeing things but the way he behaves towards me..I don't know if I should talk to him and tell him its inapproriate but I'm not sure..you tell me if he is or not.. So las... (219 words)

I'm going away to college, how can I ease the tension with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in my early 20s and so is my boyfriend, we have been together for about 2 years and i really love him, went from someone who was always single and fell hard for him early on and the feeling was and still is mutual. the plan was even from over 18 months ago that i would be ... (452 words)

2 months of dating..... is it too soon to start talking about future plans?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 year old just separated 5 months ago (see my previous questions) with a kid that has started dating a girl about 2 months ago and has fallen for her. Since break up I have been getting together with a few wonderful women without getting too attached. My objectiv... (400 words)

I want to change but don't know how....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I never thought that I'll be this depressed. Where to begin. I'm 29, which is too old to be single in my country. My family constantly putting pressure on me, I know they (my dad and sister) mean well, but sometimes I just felt that my dad is very embarrassed by me every ... (507 words)

How do I overcome my problems for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm planning on having sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I'm on birth control and me and my boyfriend are 20. He isn't a virgin and I am. So I am asking if you have any advice on overcoming my self consciousness of being naked with him, embarrassment and awkwardn... (66 words)

This picture pops up on Facebook of my boyfriend and this girl looking like a couple....is it reasonable for me to have a problem with this photo?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so my boyfriend just came back off holiday, we've been quite rocky for a while but since he came back we've been really happy havnt argued once until this photo was uploaded on facebook. I just want advice on whether I'm being in reasonable with having a problem with this ... (134 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm soon to be engaged?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (M) age 30-35 - How do I tell my parents about my relationship? I'm just 20 and my girl is also 20 and we are going to get engaged..my girl's parents got to know about the relationship and asked me to break up... I'm not in a situation to break up.. I have gone crazy about her.. should I tel ... (68 words)

Not enough money for a wedding, should we elope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm newly engaged and the date is set for early 2014, after my fiance graduates from university. My problem is that my mom who would be paying for the wedding cannot afford it. Both me and my finance don't have our careers started yet, so paying for the wedding ourselves ... (124 words)

How can I make him understand that he is not the type of man I want, without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman, dating a 33 year old man. We have been together for four months now. My fear is that when we met I told him that "The stay together thing is not part of the relationship" as we are both christians and go to the same church. He agreed on that but after ... (413 words)

I need him, what if he doesn't need me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like more reciprocation in my relationship from my boyfriend. Sometimes (or quite often) I feel like I give him more than he gives me. In the past I have come to the agony aunts with a similar question, and some have said just move on. But that's just the thing. ... (140 words)

Truly love my wife, only been with her, want to try another woman though.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I married my high school sweetheart. We have been together for near 15 years, married only about 5 years. We had kids "really" young. I have only ever slept with her and she has only ever slept with me 100% fact. So in technical terms we have been completely ... (679 words)

I want my father back in my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I turned 19 last month. And this birthday was quite eventful. It has actually sent my world for a toss. And I need help desperately. My parents divorced when I was 2. I've lived with mum ever since. I'm not allowed to talk about my dad. When i did.. all my life, I've b... (406 words)

My boyfriend's mom has just died, would it be wrong of me to ask him to delete this girl from Facebook now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - OK extension of a previous question or ongoing issue sorry so long, My BF broke up with me last Nov for 13 days started talking and befriending a new girl but they never made it on a date due to a death in her family, but he said he never really left for a girl we broke up ... (488 words)

After 3 years of a FWB relationship, I broke it off. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess what I'm really looking for is affirmation that I did the right thing. I think I did, but it takes one varying opinon to make me reconsider what I did. Anyhow, I've been seeing this guy (not seriously for 3-years). I have dated and "hooked up" with people in the me... (495 words)

LDR..I'm afraid of her leaving me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Im afraid of being left. Im tired of the nervousness, im tired of losing sleep, im tired of realizing im most likely overreacting but I cant help it. Ive been dating my girlfriend for 7 months today and we have a long distance relationship. We make it work even though sometimes ... (138 words)

Why will my boyfriend give his friend money but won't help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age - my boyfriend supports a woman who is just a friend he hardly ever sees her but gives her $$ all the time. my water is shut off but he wont help me how can i get him to help? he is with me most all the time.... (49 words)

Should I give it a try with this guy? Give up on my dreams to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - oK I don't even know where to start. I just moved to a different city like a month ago. And I met a great guy on a dating site when I moved. He seems like a great guy. I'm Mexican, but I'm really attracted to white guys, specially if they speak Spanish as well. My dad bar... (778 words)

How do I quit this terrible job? And should I report the company after I'm gone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I quit my job? I work at a very busy yet understaffed restaurant. It's run the traditional east Asian way... I'm sorry for the poor terminology. What I'm trying to say is that they're very cheap. Mangement takes some of our tip, they didn't pay us for our "trainee" da... (367 words)

I'm in love with a married man who is ready to leave his wife for me but I don't want to break up a family. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a married man. I am 23 he is 29. He is willing to leave his wife for me. She lives in another country. I don't know what to do, because ever though we are deeply in love with each other, i don't want to break up a family. They have children together. His w... (377 words)

Do we have a chance? Or could it be pride that this girl doesn't want someone younger than her, like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my best friend who is my former coworker. At work we teased one another all the time while stay remaining professional and worked very well together. Our personalities are very unique compared to most people and we happen to be very in sync with one another. ... (412 words)

Ever since my attractive friend moved in with us, my boyfriend has asking me for sex every night! Should I be worried about him suddenly being so aroused? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So my bf and I needed a roommate for financial reasons and, due to extenuating circumstances, my very attractive friend moved in with us. It's a weird situation that I really did not want to get into. Before he and I started dating, he had expressed interest in her,... (176 words)

My B/f and I have grown distant after he got a job and is busy working.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

20 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend for the most part are very close but lately we have grown more distant , he got a job and spends soo many hours working. and when he's not working he doesn't seem to wanna call or text me and at school he kinda ignores me But the times when we are alone ... (102 words)