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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need advice on how to express my anger more effectively

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I'm 23 years olds and I have major issue showing my emotions..its not like I am expressionaless or anything you can tell when I'm happy,mad or sad..BUT when I'm mad,or angry I can never shout or scream..I hate it when people shout,or even talk in high note when the... (208 words)

I'm seeing a younger man, I look much younger than I am but worry about what people think. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - In need of some advice. I am 32 female and have been recently seeing a lovely wonderful man, but his only 23 and I'm not sure we can carry on because of age difference. I look about 22 and he looks about 28, so he looks older, but I constantly worry what other people thi... (226 words)

If it were just him he would probably be perfect, but his family oppose us living together and his house mate dislikes me. With all these problems is it worth sticking around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm at a point where I don't know if I should be sticking around in my relationship, or if I should strike out on my own. I've been seeing this very sweet, very handsome guy for about two years now, and although I would definitely say that we are really compatible, it just ... (395 words)

Would a woman be irritated by my bending penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my penis is bending (as a arc) left side always...it will irritate a women?... (14 words)

Friends? More? Reading too much into things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy I've known for 6 months now. I almost only meet him at parties but we always hang out a lot then and we've become good friends now. When I first met him I didn't really see him as more than a friend and I said things that totally "friend zoned" him. This ... (244 words)

Which man likes me the most and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Guy 1 I've known this guy for over two years. The second time I met him I asked him out for a drink. He then smiled, looked at me and said that he'd love to but shortly after that I started going out with someone else who is now my fiance so I didn't go out with him. A shor... (674 words)

Is it really that wrong to expect the guy to do the driving /taking out once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Ever since I got a job and car, I've noticed my bf has been turning his head the other way in terms of picking me up, taking me out, etc. Those responsibilities have landed themselves on my head and I'm the only one putting in any effort now (i would say a ratio of 70-30). The ... (214 words)

Boyfriend's family disapproves of our relationship and is forcing him to marry someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This probably an unusual question. I am an English girl living in Spain, For the past 18 months I have been in a relationship with a Hindu man from Delhi. We had planned to marry in November, obviously completely against the wishes of his family. He recently had to go back ... (580 words)

It bothers me that my sister's friend treats her so badly and she won't talk to me about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm concerned for my twin sister. She has a best friend and i can tell she loves her to pieces, she's the only best friend she's ever really had and so with her being her first ever best friend she loves her dearly, tells her everything (sometimes too much, i think) and treats ... (205 words)

Boyfriend on an unexpected break what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted several times over the past 3 years during my relationship. The last post was regarding an engagement timeline. We did end up setting up a timeline with the goal of living together by the end of July and engagement around the end of the year. May and June went ... (583 words)

Can I make sex turn into just pleasure and no pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there i am 23 years of age. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now he's my first serious boyfriend. Now for a while i had a problem when having intercourse i has terrible stinging but had tests and nothing was found. Anyways it could of been psychological because ... (129 words)

18 year old living with us is too friendly. Do I tell her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm in a living with my boyfriend for the past 4 years now,and everything was going great,he has a good job so do I..but now the problem has arised cuz of a third person which unfortunately I brought into the picture.. My best guy friend we have been best friend... (372 words)

Had sex with my long time best friend, things have been awkward. Should I text/call him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am going to try to make this story super short. Basically, I have this best friend of almost 6 years. We are very close, talk to each other about anything, and enjoy each others company. There is also physical attraction that has always been there. He treats me reall... (317 words)

What can I do about my drama queen cousin's boyfriend? He likes me I don't like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am not sure what to do about my cousin's boyfriend. He flirts and texts me quite a bit, mainly when he and my cousin argue. He confides in me about the problems they have, about the trust issues, ect. I will admit, he can do way better than my cousin. She is ... (451 words)

Does it bother women if men like their scent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (M)

age - I just would like to know is it really gross and disgussing to women if a guy whom they are in a relationship or friends with bennefits with loves their wetness and scent down there during the women sexual arousal?as well as smelling their panties just had on? Thanks... (50 words)

Should I try to get to the bottom of this or should I just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'll try to make this as short as possible because it's a pretty lengthy story. There's this girl that I like and apparently she liked me too. She would always compliment me and want me to talk to her. She would also playfully poke me at times. One day I talked her up an... (475 words)

How to ask for sex lessions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I date an older, more experienced guy, whom I recently lost my virginity to. I'm not sure if this happens to everyone, but having sex made me realize it's pretty awesome and made me well.. want way more. Nevertheless, I'm really shy and have quite a lot self confidence issue... (207 words)

Why does she keep coming back if she never wants to be with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! I am a 17 year old female who is bi. So, I this is hard to explain but I will do my best. Almost a year ago, I dated a girl for three weeks. Afterwards she went back to her ex who was also my bestfriend at the time. Since we both dated the same girl we went our ... (284 words)

Have you wished you focused on some things but not others during your 30's

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I am a single mother of an 8 year old child who has special needs. I’ve been single for 3 years and prior to this I was in a long term emotionally and physically abusive relationship for all of my 20’s I a mature student who is training as a health professional. I have been ... (339 words)

I don't feel the same about him but am afraid of starting the break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid. Long time no see and since last time I asked help from people I didn't actually know, I've had a really good nearly 3 years with my boyfriend who is half a year younger than me. We both were eachothers firsts and we've been through a lot. But we've never had ... (494 words)

He likes me but doesn't love me but wants to be intimate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm madly in love with a guy for more than a year now and he says he likes me but doesn't love me. i don't know what to make of it. Does it mean he only wants to sleep with me ? cos he often tells me he wants us to get intimate.... (53 words)

One odd date has left things strange between us. Should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there some advice needed pls. I was seeing a guy for few months talking, dating etc, we did get really close and things were going well. We met at a country house wkd away with mutual friends and we got a lot closer after. He took me out and treated me really well. We are a ... (268 words)

This guy I met a week ago won't leave me alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a week ago, yes that's just a week ago, we talked and generally got on. I told him from the offset that I wasn't looking for anything more than friendship and he seemed cool with that, but now he won't stop calling me. Apparently we are like soul mates!!!! I have a ... (203 words)

He offered me sex instead of a relationship!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be insulted that a guy Ive liked for a while has asked me to be his FWB or 'fuck buddy'? He says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be more than friends. Im shocked and dont know what to say! Im 29 and hes 28, Im looking for a serious relationship now at my ... (65 words)

I'm afraid my sister is on the wrong path -- what can I do to help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My 14 year old sister is beginning to worry our family. I'm 20 and have been through the same high school she is now attending, and the way she dresses can and will get her in trouble (school-wise and peer-wise), from what I've seen in my years there. She's th... (307 words)

My boyfriend didn't invite me for icecream!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my bf has moved to my city and our 3years of long distance has ended.we love each other and we were meeting frequently last week.today he went to mall without telling me.he didnt invite me though he knew that next week its not possible to meet due to some busy ... (150 words)

How do I now cope with fact he's slept with 10 girls since we had our partial break-up 7 months ago?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I split up 7 months ago, but we remained close and still had a physical relationship. (not the wisest decision I know). However recently, he told me that he has slept with 10 different girls during the 7 months, one of which was a school friend of mine. He... (94 words)

He hasn't contacted me but has 'liked' some of my pics!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Two weeks ago I went out clubbing with my girlfriends. This guy immediately caught my eye, he was exactly my kind of guy looks like russell brand (I have a thing for guys with long hair)anyway he comes up to me, starts chatting, totally a ladies man! I really th... (164 words)

Should I send a text saying, I miss you so much, I don't want someone else, I want to be with you .

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

2 September 2012 (M)

age - hello i went on a date with a woman 5 weeks ago, she said it was lovley and i was a lovley man xxx . i wanted to give her a kiss at end of date, but did not want to risk it . i told this a few days later and she said she was not interested. but we have kept in touch up until 6 ... (257 words)

B/f doesn't treat me with love and care like he used to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - in terms of problems this maybe isnt huge but it is playing on my mind a bit. i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years now...and he just doesnt treat me with the same care and attention he used to. Yesterday was my 24rd birthday....and i got nothing from him. He hadn't even ... (197 words)

Wife talking to a FWB from 15 years ago. Should I worry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Should I be worried about my wife talking with here friend with benifit from about 15 years ago? My wife and I have been married 13 years and have two girls. About four month ago i notice my wife was becoming very secretive with her iPhone. And an new name of a old friend w... (418 words)

Could he really be holding on even though he can only communicate with my friend in secret? He says he regrets trying to break up with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend's boyfriend broke up with her because he was told to do so. My friend didn't agree and now they are in a stage where they are not bf/gf but secretly communicate like they are still together. The guy said he still loves her and that he's not gonna give up on their ... (97 words)

LDR newbie needs advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm entering my first long distance relationship. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that we'll get through this :) Here's some background info. My boyfriend is going to the East Coast for his last 2 years of college. He's studying jazz composition. We have bee... (151 words)

Can I get this relationship past short messages on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a bar on a friday night, we saw each other the following day and then again two weeks after that. Always in group settings. He is shy and so am I. We also sometimes send each other message on facebook. We have common interests and will send each other book ... (213 words)

He Likes me or He likes me Not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently met a man online. On our first date, we met for tea and kept it short as he had another business meeting to attend that day. He then arranged for a very romantic dinner on our second date and we talked for 3 hours. We kissed and hugged. Since then we have been ... (225 words)

It hurts so much that we were once friends but now we aren't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a bad friendship break up 4 years ago, that still bothers me to this day. 4 Years ago, i was best friends with this girl named Kayla for about a year and 1/2. She was the first person I opened up too, Gave her my heart, and let her know everything about me. Like she ... (670 words)

Husband won't work and we are about to lose our house!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am needing some advice and am not sure what to do about my marriage. My husband refuses to look for work or get a job. First off, he is not depressed at all. He has seen the doctor for an evaluation and he is not depressed. He was laid off last year from a job he had... (303 words)

I'm worried about the age difference!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My long distance boyfriend is 18, and im 15. Im still nervous about meeting him and how he will react when seeing me, but not as much now. My mom sorta aproved so far. And i have not told my dad because he dont like me even thinking about boys :/ thing is that he is a cop and i ... (118 words)

I think I lost my friend since I told him that I only see him as a friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone again. I met this guy at Uni- we were waiting for a teacher to show up, spoke for a few minutes and he asked me if he could add me on FB. He did and contacted me quite often- I found him easy to talk to and quite unusual {not in a bad way, just peculiar} and so... (616 words)

I feel like my love for him died.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, he changed and really hurt ... (212 words)

He doesn't want to see me as often as I want to see him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, my boyfriend is 26. We've been together a little over 2 months. I would like to see him everyday or at least every other day, but he only wants to hang out maybe 2-3 days a week. We've talked about this, and he has said "You're not my life. You're part of my life but ... (233 words)

How do you get over someone that isn't available?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I get easily attached to guys but for a long while I haven't liked anyone until recently. I started my new job a few months ago and there is a guy who is one of my relative's friend that got me the job. I am thankful to him but I notice that I started having an attraction to ... (177 words)

I'm really mad because I think he was leading me on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age - Okay here goes. I have gotten to know a man lately that I first met 2 summers ago. My daughter is involved in theatre and he use to hang around during rehearsals in the hallway and would always come to all the performances. I would always be in the hall doing bios and ... (618 words)

Left an abusive relationship. Started again. Nice Bf now. How do I handle my own social anxiety and become more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know what people think of this. Before I start ill give a bit of background, been with my partner 18 months, before that i was in a hurrendously abusive relationship where my partner cheated, and put me down (and i am aware this is probably where most my problem ... (491 words)

My second Bf ever. He's older. Do I tell him I'm a virgin? Will that discourage him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school and my boyfriend has been out of high school for a few years. I'm still virgin but he doesn't know it. We have only been dating for about a month. We have talked about our past and he has had more experience with other girls before me. So my question is.... (87 words)

Want to break the ice with this new guy. Tips and guidance please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 15 and over the summer this family moved into a new building with a boy my age. We never talked to each other but we saw each other all the time passing in the parking lot. Now that school has started again we've seen each other once and just today he finally talked t... (179 words)

How do I draw him towards me in a subtle way so he thinks he is doing all the chasing? I'll text if I really have to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have started liking a guy ( I havent had buttreflies for a guy in a good long while) so for me this is a bigish deal. Problem is we have hung out a couple of times and I can tell he is not nearly as into me as I am to him. He is always keen to hang when I msg him and when... (287 words)

I told him to get his hands off me! What is he trying to do? He's the Bf of a family member

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Um I have been single for nine years now for many reasons but now I want to change and start the dating thing again. I was visiting one of my family members and it's this guy who lives there it's her boyfriend. We were all laughing and talking they were drinking I don't... (181 words)

Where do I start? How do I apologize for leaving him in the dust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

2 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy we will call him D. that I have officially known for a couple of years but we haven't talked in about a year now. When I first met D. I wasn't in a good place in my life and I wasn't ready for a serious relationship so we stopped talking for a while. We start... (462 words)