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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Together 2 years, moving in, talking marriage, and now he hardly ever wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some perspectives to try and help me understand my boyfriend's reduced interest in sex and how to handle this, please, as at the moment, I just feel stupid and rejected. We've been together 2 years, and are planning to move in together later this year (as request... (560 words)

Busy schedule , no time for my relationship.. help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! My boyfriend and I are super close but with school and work we've been seeing eachother less and we just aren't as close anymore. Were still getting used to a busy schedule, were taking a break. Everything seems to be going downhill. Should I be worried? How do I deal ... (104 words)

Do you believe a mans view on a woman can change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If a man has been nothing but disrepsectful for most or all of his years, (since puberty to say) do you truly believe they could see women than more than boobs and ass? Do you believe a man could change and accept a woman properly if theyve had this attitude? What do you ... (58 words)

He's depressed how do I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for a few months, weve been flirting and have met a few times but it's going nowhere at the minute. Recently he's been feeling down and upset and I don't know how to cheer him up? Like, what to say to him? Any advice please?... (51 words)

Living together and dating.. how to secure it..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hello, here is my situation.. I need some input.. In Feb 2012 a friend moved in that needed help. we had previously * 10 years ago*had an affair for 2 years, and were ready to move forward togther, and both decided to try to work out our marraiges. his ended in divorce ... (518 words)

My very serious boyfriend has a 4 year old daughter he never told me about...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been dating my current boyfriend for 10 months now. Although ive had a couple of boyfriends in the past, this is the first time that I know ive fallen in love (im 23, boyfriend is 26). A couple of months into our relationship, my boyfriend left his facebook open, a... (634 words)

Is he playing games or is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my ex been off and on for about 2yrs. I just want to know is he sincere about us. Like he tells me that he knows that I'm the right one for him and no matter who he is dating or talking to whenever he think or plan out his future I'm the only one that's in it. Hw... (151 words)

I'm estranged from this relative, but still want her to know I'm willing to help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a family problem that I hope you can help me with. A few months ago I found out that a relative to whom I used to be very close to is in big trouble and is really down on her luck. This could continue for the rest of her life. We have not spoken and I have not seen ... (305 words)

I think my friend is making a mistake -- would it be better just to keep my mouth shut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend has started sleeping with a guy from work who is married. They live on a campus and he is her next door neighbour. She says they both know it is going nowhere but she is happy for it to continue. She had a terrible relationship last year where her... (218 words)

Does the love for a previous partner fade away in time, or is there always something there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is directed mainly at the guys, but ladies please feel free to answer too :) My current boyfriend is my first for everything, and hopefully he'll be my last! We're a long distance couple, have been together for two years now and I love him very much. The thing ... (247 words)

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's talk and actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend hve been together for 4 months now and our anniversary is coming up. Since its finals,we havent met for like 2 weeks since hers ended n mine is still going on and its going to b like a week more b4 we sees each other again. I m starting to feel insecure ... (215 words)

He played me and tore out my heart. How could he do this to a good hearted person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I hope you can help me because I have never felt more down or heartbroken in my life. I have been married for ten years and my husband left me about a year ago. I do not have a lot of experience with men. I have only had my husband and one other boyfriend ... (682 words)

We're getting married in a few weeks and something seems off with my fiance. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks. Everything's been great, until a couple weeks ago. I started sensing something was off with him, so I brought it up. He explained everything's fine and normal, but my instinct is feeling like he's keeping something from me, ... (223 words)

How do I talk to boyfriend about having children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive just learnt that my bf would want me to have an abortion if i were to fall pregnant now as he doesnt want a kid For at least a few years. He was serious. We've had this talk before but it has never said that. We have been together for 3 years. He is 32 and i am 27. He h... (140 words)

Dealing with toxic relatives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm growing apart from my cousin (about the same age) as she is hanging out with the wrong crowd (parties and drugs are her priorities) and takes no responsibility in life... She always has some kind of problems and is always taking the role of the victim to attract the wrong ... (141 words)

Should I tell my husband the real reasons why I left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so confused and lost about my marriage. I separated/cleverly ran away from hubby 6months ago, went back to my country, and i never told him the real reasons for my leaving. He knows i'm in my country to manage a skin condition and i should see my dematologist until ... (204 words)

Why won't my boyfriend initiate conversation with me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I are both 18. We used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was understandable, except he said that instead ... (210 words)

Is it weird that we talk on the phone so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal that my boyfriend and I talk on the phone constantly when we're not together, busy, or working? It gets to the point his mom comes on the phone in the middle of our conversation and says "Okay it's time to get off the phone you two!" Then hangs up the other phone ... (102 words)

How do I stop jealousy from getting the best of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am constantly on the social networking side of the internet. I check facebook often, email for work and personal connection, etc. So now that I'm in an LDR I see that my very handsome boyfriend has added a few girls to his friends list that go to his college. So my que... (97 words)

I feel jealous of the man whom my partner has chosen to be our baby donor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a lesbian who has been in a relationship for 7 months with a woman. Her best friend is a male, whom in the past, has declared he was in love with her! Nothing ever evenyuated and they remain extremely close. In the future she want's him to be her donor when we have a baby. ... (81 words)

Should I feel upset that my penis can't bring my girlfriend to climax?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently in my first real relationship with a beautiful more sexually experienced women. we are in our 20's. I am having troubling thoughts about sex, which are kind of driving me nuts! Having lost my virginity to this girl I was hoping someone could clear some issues up ... (294 words)

Flirt at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - okay so there is this guy I work with and I am starting to like him never liked him at first but he has pretty much swept me off my feet in a sence.I never had a crush on him at first but he was so sweet to me and got me thinking a lil.He would go out of his way to help me ... (408 words)

I need a way of telling my boyfriend that I want exclusivity and a serious relationship without him feeling like he has to give up his freedom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks and one week ago we had a talk about where our relationship was going. He said he "cant commit" until college finishes up in one or so months because everything is so busy etc. and asked me what I would like to keep on doing until ... (208 words)

We have a lot in common but we bicker a lot. Is it best to leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all, to make it sound lesser, I am infatuated with this boy(a friend) that I met not too long ago but before I tell you my reasons why, I'd like to tell you more about him for the sake of the question. So, he's a very intelligent, talented guy and really handsome and when ... (824 words)

I cant orgasm from sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, well i've been having sex for the past one and a half year but ive never had an orgasam from it ? i can make myself get that feeling but noone else can . is it me or is it them ?... (43 words)

She never talks about anything so what are we?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - .. I never posted or asked anyone before for a help .. but what im going through is just too much and I dont have the strength of holding it anymore, i need to have an advice or i need someone to take the heavy weight ... see I met this girl who took my breath away , i fell for ... (425 words)

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend spending so much time taking care of his parents?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and half. We are both adults. We both love each other and he has given me a ring. I have not met his parents yet, but I have met two of his siblings and his family is aware of our relationship but they do not know about the ring... (326 words)

I'm finding my long distance relationship very difficult. Am I doing the right thing by staying with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating a man long distance for 6 months now. The first 4 months were great, bliss actually but since then some things in his life have happened that have caused him absolute stress and grief. He was ordered by the courts to hand over a large sum of money to ... (389 words)

I am going crazy obsessing over the thought of watching my wife with another woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

28 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for over six years and have a wonderful family and life together. We are deeply in love and I would like to think be together forever. We have a great and fulfilling sex. One of the issues early in our relationship was the differences in our ... (554 words)

I'm tired of him treating me this way, but I don't want to leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years never has time for me, whenever I call he picks up a fight and tells me not to call him ever. After 2 or 3 days he calls me back and apologizes and the same thing happens again. Whenver i try to talk to hiim regarding this, he brushes me off. I am so tired ... (155 words)