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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I'm over her but not over the relationship breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex split up in February.i am ok but i am still a bit upset every now and then.is it wierd to still be upset this long after the breakup? we were together a year and a half.i feel over her but not over the actual relationship if that makes sense.any similar stories or ... (59 words)

Why did my friend go back with her boyfriend after he cheated on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Guys, It's ,e again. It's not about me this time, it's about one of my close friends,she was recently dating a guy, that cheated on her... He told her straight over the phone and for a few days was a total mess, crying over just his name. But today she got back together ... (100 words)

I don't want a relationship so why is my FWB acting this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been friends with benefits with this guy for like 2 and half years now!!well here's the thing we met at a bar,hooked up and I thought I would be a one night stand BUT no we ended up doing it over and over again! Its been 2 years now and we set the rules 'n... (168 words)

Is my wifes best friend playing games?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) age 41-50 - Over the last few months my wifes bestfriend has been going through a divorce. My wife and i have known this women for around ten years now and over those years have given her the support she needs during her rocky marriage, through texting, phone calls etc as her husband is a ... (316 words)

He can't have sex, says its his problem. Is he that broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - He and I are dear old friends. He's been married twice and widowed within a few years both times. I was married to his best friend; then my husband died. About a year and a half after my husband died we started dating. All was well, then after one particularly rom... (313 words)

Why am I so scared to have sex with my beloved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m a young guy, I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend. We have pretty big age difference - while I’m 18, he’ s 30, but this has never been a problem for us. He’ s a wonderful person and I’m so in love with him. I have kind of a sexual problem. My boyfriend and I know each other ... (361 words)

Feel stuck in a rut, I'm very unhappy with my life at the moment. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused with my life at the moment... On the outside everything seems perfect- I have a good job, a wonderful fiancé and a nice house but I feel so low... I hate my job, my house just seems like a burden and as for my fiancé.... Well sometimes I wish I was single! ... (389 words)

We've broken up but how can we still be friends? Because I can't lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are broken up, but I'm so in love with him. Help me with my situation? My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. It was long distance for the last 2. He said that the situation was really hard, cause my mom made us break up, so the last few months we were ... (166 words)

He lasts for so long, and likes it so hard that I feel sore after sex. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, this may sound like a strange problem, as it's something many women wish their man could do. my boyfriend lasts too long in bed if you know what i mean.. if we want to have sex then we have to make sure we have atleast an hour and 1/2 free, and that's excluding forepl... (216 words)

Can a man that wants friendship (can't let you go in this way) but keeps making it more like an affair ever really let it be a real relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age - I know I have already figured out what I need to do, but, still have questions about why a man would do what the man I loved did. Two men actually, but will just concentrate on the first for right now. I am a real life soap opera without meaning to be. I'm just attractive ... (1164 words)

Married and feel trapped but not by choice. I love my wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Help----- Hi I've been a relationship for over three years. When we met you could tell we were a couple but now you'd never know. I met my wife and are sex life was great above average. She was so unselfish. We were living on my acrage and new house near a lake. It... (503 words)

He mentioned the possibility of us seeing others whilst we are apart. I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a committed, monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. During this time we attended the same college, maintained relationships with mutual friends, worked together, lived together, backpacked Europe together, etc. We have a very ... (635 words)

Is it wrong to stay in this relationship and go behind my parents' back? I only regret the way we met but not meeting him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok,rewind to start. In a moment of teenage rebellion, I (a typical goodgirl to my parents and teachers) decided to go on to a website which lets you talk to strangers. now, my parents hate the internet for one plain reason: you can talk to stranngers. But I still did..and... (281 words)

It's not like it used to be between us and I don't trust my judgement, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - thank you for taking the time to answer! Basically, me and Him are in a long distnace relationship. We have been together for just over seven months, not met yet. Lately, I've begun to feel a little uneasy with the relationship. At the begining, everything about him was...... (307 words)

Should I be worried that he doesn't want to involve me in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for seven years now and at first there were alot of arguments. It has been a long distance relationship until now that we are on the same town . I feel we should spend alot of quality time together do we can rekindle our relationship and just share ... (155 words)

How can I be happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i just got out of a breakup, about a month ago, and im crying every day since, not being able to smile or laugh or have fun, i cant even remember what makes me happy. hes going out with girls, takin gpictures with them who post them on facebook,talks to a lot of them and adds ... (181 words)

Boyfriend with online addiction???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man I met online for 4 months now. After the first month he asked me to be exclusive. He is caring, affectionate, he wants to see me everyday and makes plans a lot, takes me places, takes care of me, and calls me everyday to see how I am doing. He ... (364 words)

I think my dad is cheating on my mum - what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I apologise for the length, but I am in a rather desperate situation and need help. So a couple of days ago, my 12 year old sister (and I am 16) came bursting into my room saying that she found things on one of the laptops we have. She was crying hysterically, sa... (942 words)

What can I do about the unwanted gift my mother in law gave me? It disturbed my husband and I. What was I supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a situation that I'm not sure whether was a nice gesture or something very strange/kind of disturbing. I'm not sure how to prevent future uncomfortable incidents without hurting my mother-in-law's feelings. Some background info might be necessary. My in-laws are divo... (272 words)

At what point should I give up on the possibility of marriage and walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question. I have been with my boyfriend for 2years now. It has been the best two years of my life. When we found eachother he had a huge alcohol problem. I asked him to get help. He had been a alcoholic for about 30 years and had never tried to quit before. It is ... (341 words)

My boyfriend told me he had to study but I found out he was out with friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - recently moved from long distance relationship.my bf of 3yrs and 2 months have moved to my city. we study in different colleges.since the time he has come to my city he has started behaving strange.now a days he dont talk with me much.he is so involved with his new friends(all ... (254 words)

Should I keep my boyfriend or date the other guy instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well im officially dating the boy i had liked for 6 months. Well im extremely happy about that it was official actually last month. But here`s my problem i dont have and classes with him. Since i dont have any classes with him i do have classes with my old crush(see where ... (255 words)

Why can I not find someone who appeals to me as much as I appeal to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - On one hand I csn name five girls that are attracted to me. They flirt, call me over to talk, want to know how my day was, etc. These girls are usually the girls I have no attraction to. I don't know if it's how calm and collected I am around them that makes them like me but I ... (279 words)

Every girl I become involved with rejects me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Every girl I get involved always says the same stuff and rejects me or dumps me They say that they're a screw up, that they'll hurt me, that they don't deserve me or that we have really good chemistry or whatever that I don't want to ruin by doing more than we are. Some ... (175 words)

What do I do about my FWB and how do I tell if he has feelings for me? Alternatively do I consider an LDR with the other guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi hope you can help me with this it would be greatly appreciated I met a man who is in the army on a online dating site who is really keen and wanting a relationship with me but I am not sure how I feel about him. This is because I have had a friends with benefits for 18 ... (203 words)

Should I feel threatened that she wants him back? Do I stay out of this, or do I mark my territory?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A while ago I met a great guy after 3 years of being single. It took me along time to get over my marriage to my previous husband and spent my single time having fun and enjoying life and trying to repair any damaged caused from that marriage. Im now with this great guy,... (700 words)

Is my separation Anxiety ruining my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for coming up to a year. We are in a long distance relationship. He lives in one part of the country and I live in a distant part of the country. We see each other every other weekend or so. He recently came back from being in overseas for ... (316 words)

Two days after I posted our pictures on Facebook he deleted his account

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i started our relationship july17 of 2011. I was working as a nurse in a hospital in Sudan and he was a student of aeronautic engineer in a university in the same place he was still in his 4th year and now he is on his final year. He is a Sudanese and a Musli... (282 words)

Why do women get post natal depression, while others haven't found love/ struggle with infertility?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would you get post natal depression? What is there to get depressed about? As I haven't had children I can't understand. As opposed to be single and getting depressed because you haven't met The right person yet and don't know if you will have any before it's too ... (108 words)

Why am I having much difficulty landing a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) age 36-40 - While dating and having much difficulty landing a real relationship, I've noticed that many women avoid getting into a serious relationship with a guy who has not been in a long term relationship in the past. Why is that? I don't want to lie because I am very honest, but... (173 words)

Why do my blowjobs have to hurt so much? Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When my girlfriend gives me a blow job, it hurts me. My penis tip is too sensitive and I can't enjoy it. I always have to jerk myself and cum in her mouth. When I touch my tip with my finger, its not sensitiive to my finger touching. When I cum in her mouth, my penis is so ... (69 words)

I was a virgin and she was not. Now I feel cheated. To me this is a Big Deal. Am I making too much of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and we had sex recently, but she told me she had sex when she was 14 and lost her virginity with her ex. I am 17 and she is 16. I feel like I gave her everything (my first kiss and virginity), and I got nothing back. She told m... (97 words)

How else could we have a baby considering that I am HIV positive? My Bf is HIV negative..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my b/f want us to have a baby,and my problem is i m HIV positive and he is negative and we are so much inlove so please help us the is alternative to have a baby without infecting him please help me I am confused... (48 words)

How should handle really rude, mean nasty insensitive aunt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last time I saw my aunt, I was in tears from being cruelly dumped by my boyfriend at the time. She ignored this at and proceeded to have a huge go at me for not futhering my education. I wasn't in the mood and depressed. Instead she yelled at me. As always my parents said/... (108 words)

How can I get over my feelings about my facial discoloration? It makes me wonder what my wife sees in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a highly successful business executive and married to a very gorgeous woman. My problem is that i have a lot of discoloration on my skin especially on my face which i can remember i have always had as a kid. it hasn't stopped me from all the good things in life... (148 words)

All my friends throw doubt and scorn on me for me LDR and say nasty things. What to do about their words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I have another question what do i do if my friends are giving ishh about my long distance relationship? like half of them would be like yeah you should give him a try and keep your realtionship and the other half is like you dont know what his doing like he could be cheating... (167 words)

I-am-in-love-with-my-straight best friend, How do I tell her? I'm hesitant to tell her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I am both a lesbian and straight. My friend is a girl too. Once we did this weird/gay test. It's where we do gross stuff to each other (like humping and all that) She made it up. She did to me first. Every time she did something she would say, "is this weird" and I would ... (152 words)

Why do people find me odd?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hy. I feel different right now as to what s wrong with me? Many people(especially my relatives) find my behaviour/personality odd. Really. .i dont know why they think im a bit strange. Im a nice person, caring, dont take any illegal substances, respectful, polite, ... (317 words)

Can we start again afresh? Does the relationship start over because we took a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with my boyfriend for just over 17 months before we broke up. I broke up with him because I needed time alone to sort things through with myself, and during that time neither of us had a relationship with another person, and we still talked to eachother almost every day.... (114 words)

I'm a plus size woman who has lost weight recently. Why has my Bf made no comments on my weight loss?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a plus sized woman with an average sized boyfriend. He makes me feel so confident with myself and always shows so much respect for me. I have been starting to lose a sigificant amount of weight, and he hasn't mentioned anything. He always avoids discussing a... (81 words)

What does my ex want from me now? How do I tell him it will not happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was dating this guy back in 1995 and we hit it off andfor a while we were in a relationship for a year to two years. We would constantly break up and then make up. After that we lost contact I moved away and so did he but I most likely wanted to keep in contact because his ... (184 words)

Should I be scared about talking to random guys in a bar? Recent events have scared me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was in a very strange situation tonight. I was just out for some leaving dinner and drinks for a friend who is emigrating.. There was a few of us, we went to a bar after dinner, i got talking 'having banter' with a guy at the bar, and later someone else chatted to me o... (221 words)

Ladies only: would you decline to have sex with a man with erectile dysfunction resulting from surgery?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

8 September 2012 (M)

age - This one is for the Ladies here ONLY!I am asking this for a friend of mines. Thanks Ladies,Say if you was to go out with a guy you met and things became hot and heavy between the 2 of you,then the 2 of you end up at a place that you have picked out to have sex.You find out... (138 words)