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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I asked g/f if something was wrong and she said she didn't know. Now I feel insecure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I wanna ask what is up with my girlfriend and what you think is going on Ok so I started dating a girl over long distance two months ago and she said she would come and see me no matter what well her parents said no twice and that maybe she could come this ... (232 words)

When its good its really really good but when its bad..its extreme. I need to let go!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now on and off (longest break was a month). Am going through a difficult, heart wrenching time right now because I know it's the end but I find it hard to let go. Firstly, when we met, he was not my type at all, we seemed so ... (485 words)

How can I tell if my wife really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and kids are my world. My wife and I have been together for 13 years, living together for 10, ( Ive concidered her my wife that long), married for 7. She was my first love and I hope my only love. Before we were married, she moved out for two months and became involved ... (125 words)

How much of a deal breaker is penis size?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've seen a lot of penis anxiety threads based around "reassure me, is insert size normal?" but I'm going to come at it from another (still similar) angle. I'm 23, relatively slim although my guts bigger than it's ever been (people still act sceptical and shocked if I say... (346 words)

do straight men jerk off with other straight men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi friends Im not american but i live in america though so my english is not that great anyway hope you guys understand what im trying to say. my question are do straight men jerk off with other straight men? is it gay to compare sizes with other male? am I wrong for to... (135 words)

Boyfriend can't get off from blow jobs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend says that he can't come from blowjobs. Is this true of some guys or am i just doing it wrong? Tips?!... (23 words)

I fancy my best friend, but we are both very different, and have a complex past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me, i dont normally ask for help but i need some advice and this seems like a good place to get some. i recently split up with my ex. we agreed to be friends, and so far - not bad. my guy friend, who is my ex's friend, broke up with his girlfriend. who ... (321 words)

I'm a male teacher. How do I handle an aggressive 13 year old female student?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male secondary school teacher (I'm 26). One of my female students keeps staring at me and flicking her hair and calling me over to her desk. She's 13. I try not to look at her inappropriately. She always flirts and makes me feel awkward. What should I do or say? One time ... (77 words)

Should I just back off when g/f is having her period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so through some careful questioning I have learned that my girlfriend is on her period as of now. The thing is while on her period I've Noticed that she becomes very erm....independent. She doesn't want anything to do with me or others. I asked her of she was okay, she ... (158 words)

Are there guys out there who actually don't like strip clubs?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Are there guys out there who actually DON'T like strip clubs? I live in a mining town and strip clubs are starting to pop up everywhere, and since mining is a very male dominated field, guys go there after work to bond, and blah blah. I've been told that if you have the cas... (401 words)

My LDR boyfriend blew off my birthday. His birthday is in a few days. Should I blow it off or at least send him a card?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My LDR boyfriend of 1.5 yrs allegedly forgot my birthday (*actually, I think he remembered 2 days before but decided to be cheap and blow it off). When I didn't speak to him for 2 days, he still didn't try to make it up to me, so I asked him to write me a poem. He declined and ... (193 words)

Sex life has gone downhill and is boring. I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do about my sex life. Ive been with my bf for 2years now, and at first the sex was great and i couldnt get enough of it. Was in college then so it was a long distance relationship. Graduated last year, now working and we're still on. However our sexlife has ... (287 words)

I feel the need to say something to her, but what? I like her but neither of us wants an LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there. I posted this (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-like-someone-ive-met-online.html) over a year ago now, which is quite shocking thinking about it. A quick update; we never really recovered, and she moved permanently aboard in the summer, but would ... (1465 words)

Does his behavior mean he is interested in me more than just a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - are these signs of physical attraction on my guy friend's behalf? sorry if it's a long post but I'm so confused! -we were standing facing each other, talking and I realized that he was holding my hand, I haven't even noticed when he grabbed it. it must have lasted a few seco... (276 words)

My new friend seems into me. Is he? Should I tell him I want to wait until we know each other better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy several weeks ago. We are language exchange partners. So far we have only gone out like 4 or 5 times in more than a month, to practice languages. He is nice and gentle. I like him, only as a friend. But now it seems he wants more than friends. Last time we went ... (384 words)

My best friend and I kissed. I'm in love with him but he has a girlfriend of 5 years. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so upset I think ive damaged the best possible thing to happen to me. Ive fallen in love with my best friend we became cying to leaveose over time . Heres where its gets hard weve kissed a few times and he has a girlfriend of 5 years but please read before to judging. Hes ... (148 words)

I'm married but attracted to a guy at work. My husband is okay with it, but how do I approach him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm 35 yrs old, married and i'm attracted to this guy at work. I feel he likes me too. I told my husband about this and he' ok with it. I only slept with one guy which is my husband. He said it's ok to have sex with him if it comes to that. My problem is the guy is shy and ... (180 words)

I'm with my current boyfriend but still in love with my ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I'm still madly in love with my ex Bf. But we split up cuz he moved away. But him and I have been talking a lot lately and we both still love eachother. But right now I'm dating someone else and I like him but I'd rather be with my ex. And I can't break up with my ... (78 words)

We have been dating for 3 years but he still won't commit!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I've been seeing this guy for 3 years. We both told eachother we love one another. We don't have a "title". He told me he sees himself being with me, sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to commit and I've told him how i felt.. He says I'm worth being with but isn't ready ... (89 words)

He broke up and just wants to be friends, I really want him back. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf 1 month ago there wasnt cheating involved though. I had need dating my bf Chad for 2 years he told me we fighted too much and he just wanted to be my friend. Sometimes I miss him a lot so I texted him begging him to come back but still he just wanted to be ... (82 words)

My boyfriend's lack of attraction to other women makes me feel insecure? Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may sound dumb. I think it does, but I just can't figure it out myself. I have been having low self esteem issues ever since my boyfriend and I started dating. We have known each other for a year and have been dating for 8 months. The problem is, he rarely tells me ... (401 words)

I'm crushing on him but he told my sister she looks better than me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I had this crush on this guy since last year, but me and him kinda started talking this year during summer. His younger brother is friends with my sister. I really like this guy, but he started flirting with My Sister:/ and he told her that she look better than me . . after he ... (160 words)

My good friend told me this morning he has fallen for me but I don't feel the same way. How do I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I am from India and i am friends with guy 3 years older than me.Until today morning,everything was just great.We used to hang out and have a great time talking and being goofy with each other and today morning he told me that he is falling for me.I dont feel the way he feels ... (59 words)

Disagreeable neighbour who is now being disrespectful to my daughter. How do I keep the peace and endure this nasty neighbor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone,i need some help here,i have been neighbours with this women from 2007 and her husband is my husbands friend. in 2009 i saw her husband. I greeted him. He ignored me. This happened several times. I asked my husband about it ,he said he also ignored him. I let i... (187 words)

He ignores his own 6 children. I tried to help but it was too much. Is it reasonable for me to now focus on myself and my son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well here I go... I have had posts about the same thing several times but my situation keeps changing so here I go... I am with a guy I love, he is the father of my only son... He's funny, witty, intelligent, loving, affectionate... He's not great with house chores but he's ... (306 words)

Met a really nice guy at a party - how can I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met a boy at a party on Saturday, looking back I'm rather embarrassed because I had had too much to drink and was talking complete nonsense to him the whole time whilst he was completely sober. Despite this, we really hit it off and laughed if I stumbled my word... (228 words)

I feel like people show me that being a virgin at my age is like being cursed and it's seriously getting on my nerves.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm going to turn 20 in two weeks and I'm still a female virgin. Most of my friends had already sex which make me feel a little bit left out. Besides, some of them are really annoying about it. Generally, people don't know about it and They are so amazed when I tell them I ... (388 words)

Does it mean anything if a guy gives you his phone number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does it mean anything if a guy gives you his phone number? I was at school and the guy I think likes me gives me a hug. I asked him if he tutored for Chem he told me yes, he's always around. I asked how I'll be able to find him and he basically offered me his phone number.(... (156 words)

I still love my b/f but the joy is gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for seven years.. At this stage, I love him still but it feels like the joy has gone. Apart from that, he's quite a grumpy person and not too affectionate. I'm starting to crave love .. I want to feel wanted and loved. I try talking to him but he ... (140 words)

Is it ok that I tell this guy I'm dating (I'm not) just so he won't try to ask me out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I just started my freshman year of college a week ago. It has been a pretty difficult adjustment for me and I'm just trying to hang in there and hope it sorts itself out. Well, one of the problems I had during my first week was this guy in my French class. He seemed p... (265 words)

I'm still in love but can't take the hurt anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do get over this guy I am still very much in love with? He says that he loves me too and I believe that he is be cuase we did grow up together and have been friends since birth. However we just recently got into a relationship six months ago and it went well, i was ... (178 words)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a female I live in the us and ive made out with my cousin a couple of times and maybe have sucked his Dick but mine and his grand ma adopted his mom so were only related by adoption and I think I wanna take it to the next level I'm fifteen and hes fourteen he is trying to ... (75 words)

Should I come right out and ask if she's on her period?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so normally I know it's not a good idea. But the problem is I've noticed this trend in my girlfriend. At around the beginning of every month (usually around the 5th), She completly ignores me I'm talking she doesn't have any contact with me and will maybe say like 3 words ... (123 words)

After six years of dealing with trust issues I finally broke up with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I feel really sad, because I broke up with my ex last Monday. We'd been struggling with his trust issues for a long 6 years. He had problems with my past, because I had been with a guy he knows (but I didn't sleep with him, I had a crush on him, we kissed and the most I did was ... (538 words)

My mother forbids me to date my boyfriend even though I'm 18

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda a long story, although I will try to keep this as short as possible. So here's the deal, my ex and I are trying to get back together but my mother absolutely HATES him and won't let me be with him although I am 18. I have previously dated this guy for a little... (316 words)

My boyfriend used my phone to send himself a picture of my sister's fake boobs

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs and last year when I was getting ready really early for work I noticed my boyfriends phone receiving a message and I glanced at his phone and noticed the message was from me. I was confused because I had not sent him anything. So I went on ... (291 words)

He seems ill at ease after my joke about living in a big house

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , I met a guy recently (less than a month). I never accepted to truly date someone before him, and he is the first guy I truly want to know, date ... When we met he was very sweet , he asked for my number, and called within two days. He texted me a lot, made jokes, was funn... (732 words)

Why do women from dating sites lose interest in me so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I started using a dating site about two months ago now without very much success. This is mainly because everyone I begin talking to would eventually lose complete interest in me. It never starts out this way however, I'd first hit it off very well with someone and we'd talk ... (370 words)

I have questions about male performance

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age - I have a question about male performance. I was married for 16 years, and my husband never really satisfied me. His age was 24-39 and mine 33-48 at the time. He could easily become erect, but then as we had sex, he could only keep thrusting for about 15 seconds, and then he ... (174 words)

Should I call her and set the record straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, last week I went to dinner at a friend's house. This friend used to be my boss and I met my current boyfriend through her. There were a few women at the dinner party and the topic of conversation got onto sex. I said that I won't do 69ers because of various reasons ... (198 words)

I'm at a crossroads with these two men and need some perspective

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

- Hi Everyone, I'm in a bit of a bind. I've written before to you aunties and uncles in regards to someone in my life who was giving me mixed signals and wasn't really into me. I was sort of in denial because he was saying one thing and his actions said the opposite. This pe... (792 words)

Is it appropriate for an 11 year old to date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - If someone is 11 should they date? ... (9 words)

Is it possible to salvage a marriage with all these problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a year and our marriage has tons of problems. I don’t even know what exactly needs sorting out now. He was emotionally abusive before we got married. I cheated on him before we got married and have a child from the guy I cheated on with. This was only... (309 words)

We had amazing chemistry but lately he seems withdrawn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently started seeing this guy, We have amazing chemistry and hit it off right away, talked for hours and he kept saying over and over how amazing the night was and how he hasn't been like this with anyone in a very long time. we were just at his house, and made out... (212 words)