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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He used to be affectionate but now he seems awkward around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What does it possibly mean when a guy that used to be affectionate towards you, gets a little distant and starts acting awkward? I ask because this boy kind of confuses me a bit. Like when I first met him and we talked like a little he would hug me to greet me. A simple gre... (475 words)

He says he loves me as if I were a wife, but he won't marry me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend are seeing each other for 5 years now why doesn’t he want to marry me I ask him why? He immediately says it’s just that I can’t marry you he told me then I ask him do you love me. And he said yes; what the matter in this relationship bet... (194 words)

How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like what I see". I turned my gaze ... (195 words)

My boyfriend kept his friend's secret, but betrayed mine with ease

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone,It is going to be long but please bear with me! I love my boyfriend and i believe he loves me too.We have been together for almost 3 years now.His best friend is also one of my friends, but he has been acting like a bad friend.It all started with him wanting ... (629 words)

I'm troubled by my boyfriend's new female roommate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Should I be worried about my boyfriend's female roommate? My boyfriend of 15 months has a new female roommate, she moved in about a week ago. He's had female roommates before and it has NEVER bothered me. BUT this girl is different. She's a flirt (just naturally, it seems), ... (139 words)

Some days I get a lot of male attention and other days nothing

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Same dress, same hair, same make up, same place. One night guys are all over me askin for my number, buying me drinks. Went out with same girlfriends yesterday night there, no attention whatsoever. One asked my friend if I'm having fun. I was actually having lots of fun, dan... (186 words)

I don't know which one needs to be set straight: Ben or Jack

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm going to get right into it. So I have a male best friend, lets just call him Ben. He's 21 and I'm 18. We've been as I would call it the best of friends rather than "best friends", for the past four years. To me the idea of calling each other "best friends" j... (664 words)

Confused bi-guy with some questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old bi guy who is so confused. I'm bi, but really want a wife and kids, but I can't ignore the fact I also like guys. There's this guy, he's actually really good looking, he's smart and a Rugby player, he's my dream guy. But he's 18, and while he is gay, he... (360 words)

My cheating ex seems to be trying to inch his way back into my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all got a problem with the ex. We was together for a year or so and things was great between us,lived together, we was like best friends until i noticed he was a bit controlling, didnt like me going out without him drinking, was always on my back about cleaning, washing,... (520 words)

I think being a 'nice girl' also made me a boring girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 'good girl'. I don't cheat, I don't lie, I'm faithful and all that good stuff, so I sort of feel like I don't make much of an impact on my bfs. Ive had two long term relationships, and both times, I left them becuase I felt like I was not important to them. Both of them ... (216 words)

Why are women not interested in me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This question has been on my mind lately and it has to do with how girls choose their boyfriends. Here is my background. I'm relatively short for a man at 22 standing at 5'4. I use to have skinny figure until I started to get fit going from 100 to 135 pounds of lean muscle ... (246 words)

My boyfriend told another girl she was a great kisser

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out my boyfriend was talking to another girl about kissing her in the past. He said "you're a great kisser" and "I like when you kissed me back then" I confronted him and he said she kissed him long before he met me and he was just trying to make her feel good about he... (74 words)

Does she not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl. I sent her flowers. I don't see her because we are not close or have any friends in common, but we are friends so I have her phone number. I left her a message with my phone number saying that the flowers are from me. She did not reply back. Does that pretty... (97 words)

How can I make him fall for me instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy since last year and at first he was really into me but then he got closer to another girl from school and nothing happened between us. Is there a way that I can make him like me? I am honestly realy bad at being flirty and sexy. How can I do it? I c... (94 words)

Help me overcome my fear of performing fellatio

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not given a blow job, I believe I have a fear of giving them. I need help getting over this fear so I can have a good sexual relationship. Please give me any tips or advice to get over this.... (46 words)

Is it normal that my boyfriend and I don't talk when we're apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and and boyfriend has been together for almost a year. When we were together in same city, we meet around 2/3 times a week and almost everyday when we have to study together. but whenever either of us is traveling/ back home, we don't talk at all, no phone call nor skype, ... (326 words)

This woman's obsessive behaviour has me very worried

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm needing a bit of advice on a situation that's been brewing in my life for the last month or so. Its to do with a woman who is involved with my business which I recently set up. I'm 23, gay and am in a long term relationship with my girlfriend. We have a flat together and ... (1203 words)

Advice needed on overcoming fear of public speaking

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a student studying Media and Production, which involves a lot of presenting. We recently got told that we need to do a presentation in front of the class in 3 weeks time. I know that this gives me time to prepare myself and what I will say but any advice or tips on how to d... (90 words)

He left his mistress to reconcile with me but he keeps comparing me to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try to keep this short. My husband and I had been married only 3 years when I caught him having an affair. Long story, but the short version is that he told me he had to visit a sick relative over Xmas. What really happened is that he was 1800 miles from where he said he... (513 words)

A question for the men: why are images of other women always better to masturbate to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Just some questions out of curiosity and partly from experience, why are men so different from women when it comes to getting off on something? Porn is a deal breaker in a relationship for me and my boyfriend knows and respects this, but I know he looks at picture... (334 words)

I no longer enjoy sex with my fiance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. Im 23yrs old been with my fiancee 3 yrs we have kids. I do not enjoy sex at all. I think the problem is i cant get horny or wet. It used to be that i would get horny and we would have sex and sometimes id love it and sometimes i would wish it was over. But no... (221 words)

How can I put him at ease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have a lot of history with this guy at school. We go four years back, but I have had a crush on him way longer. It got awkward and even though we never went out we kissed. I haven't been in his class for five years and now the sets have been mixed, we are. I didn't e... (148 words)

Why does every guy I meet seem to only want sex from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HEY GUYS my problem is every guy i meet wants sex. not even one wants to have a relationship and am wondering am i the one attracting those type of guys. am pretty and all but i dont understand why evry one i meet be it anywhere its only sex and it pisses me of i have never be... (72 words)

Is it possible for a man to respect the woman with whom he has a sex only arrangement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for a man to REALLY have respect for a woman with whom he only wants to have a sexual relationship with? And....why would a man who is 47 years old NOW in his life be looking to get married and have children? I'm not judging anyone, but I find it kind of stran... (384 words)

I told him I love him but he said he would never love me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy 2 months ago on a dating site. we agreed we were only going to be friends with benefits. but now i am in love with him but he says he will never love me. we have seen each other 16 times now and thats alot. i give him blow jobs and we have sex. i have called h... (276 words)

This married man suddenly ignores me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HEY i feel confused i started talking to this married man and we started meeting up and he used to call and text me. the other day we were to meet up and unfortunatley he had to wait for me as i was talking to my friend because she appeard and i couldnt leave her alone. t... (188 words)

My wife is more like a room mate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I guess I'll get right to it... I have been married for 6 years and have a 4 yr old daughter. I have known my wife for 18yrs. We started dating when we were both young (21 me, 23 her) and broke up 4 yrs later. Then 6 years after that she was passing through where I lived in FL ... (334 words)

How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be willing go out on dates? S... (169 words)

How can I gain more confidence in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound quite strange, but is there anyway to gain self confidence in bed?. That doesn't include anything drastic. As, i've only recently came to grips with my body (like i'm no longer that interested in loosing weight or anything like that), but when it ... (141 words)

What chance do I have with a normal woman if my only experience is with hookers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to go about this. Just let's say that I have some serious issues that would probably prevent me from ever developing a successful relationship with someone. For starters, I was a late bloomer sexually speaking, with my sex life only taking off after I turned 2... (221 words)

This hot guy might be a player who thinks I'm easy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met this guy recently at hard rock cafe. In fact, i met this bunch of guys. Let me start from the beginning. My friend and i went to HRC on the weekend...we were just having some fun and chilling. My friend got a bit tipsy and i was trying not to drink too mu... (682 words)

How does one go about ending a marriage amicably?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've decided to go for a divorce with my marriage of 9 months. I can't talk to my wife and have not been laid for 3 months. This is crazy and she's driving me out of her arms. I've tried and tried to let her know that I'm not happy. I do well in life and can do or go anywere in ... (379 words)

He says I'm a great woman, but he only wants a sexual relationship...what am I to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He says that he doesn't see a serious relationship with me because, I'm not part of his culture and that when it comes to building a family, the way he children will look, they language they speak and the culture is very important to him, THUS he says the only type of ... (548 words)

Boyfriend is losing interest and I'm worried our relationship is falling apart....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for one and a half years, and everything's always been really good between us, but lately I feel like he's not puttin in any effort. Since I met him we literally spoke everyday, where as lately We speak once every few days or I ... (192 words)

I've had it with my husband's cheating, what is the quickest way to get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband has been cheating on me from when i was pregnant and ive just had it with the cheating...im really tired of all this...a week ago i went to the doctor and discovered that i have a stress related infection in my mouth...i dont want to end up collapsing ...i want to ... (92 words)

Never had a girlfriend, friends wont go out to pubs/clubs....this is all really getting me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Right I have to vent, because this is just taking the biscuit. I'm sick of the same things day in day out, now I must admit that I may not be all out there but I'm just like every other guy.. well maybe not like EVERY guy, I am my own person although I share common interests ... (385 words)

My friends always exclude me and it's tearing me apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends have started to exclude me from outings and alienating me or acting as if I'm not even there. I haven't done anything to hurt anyone, I don't even bitch about people, I'm usually just a by stander as my other friends bitch. I don't understand why would they exclude ... (301 words)

How can we make time for each other in our relationship now we are in college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How can we make time for each other in our relationship? you think after 11 months we'd have this thing down but we don't. last year we saw each other every other day and were ok now we are in our junior year of college and this is a hard year for my gf she says she has a l... (381 words)

My girlfriend is making me choose between her or my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. About a year ago while we were still dating my best friend ( a girl) Hun out at her house and things got carried away. I touched up on her and touched her private areas a little bit. My best friend didn't let me ... (242 words)

Our different views on religion are driving us apart, we both love each other but I cant stop thinking about an affair! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, looking for some advise. Ok where to start.. Well I have been married for 22 years, have five kids, I love my wife, she's a good person, but she has issues, she shouts a lot at the kids and is very moody, She is not a natural mum and the kids really play her up when I'm at ... (569 words)

My Ex: What to do? Do I take a break from him or stay around and see what eventuates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i text everyday and talk about everything School,family,work,cars and Guys/Girls we find attractive and i mean everything. We even go out to eat and see movies together, its like were best friends. The thing is he knows i have feelings for him and he says he like... (84 words)

Do I take a break from him or just keep hanging out with him and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im falling for my best guy friend but im very confused on how he feels. See im 21 we dated on and off for two years when we were 14 it was one of those First Love type of things, and now where in are 20's we tried the FWB thing but i was confused about it all so that stopped. ... (193 words)

He seemed very into me, so why did things change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A while ago i met a guy while out for a friends birthday. I started talking to this guy everyday (through text and over the phone cause we both work a lot and he lives about an hour away) he called me babe and always had nice things to say..needless to say I really started to ... (339 words)

His ex is being nice to my fiance all of a sudden and its worrying me, how do I stop these thoughts so I don't become paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is my fiances ex! He has always been her back up guy in the past. Before he met me they were good friends, they have children together. When he started seeing me she became quite nasty to him always having a go about one thing or another. Now her most recent ... (169 words)

Should I be worried that he doesn't involve me in his life? Or does he just need time alone with his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for seven years now and at first there were alot of arguments. It has been a long distance relationship until now that we are on the same town . I feel we should spend alot of quality time together do we can rekindle our relationship and just share ... (155 words)

Should I date the new guy, or wait and see what happens with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i met this guy me and him started talking and i really like him he asked me out. I havent gave him a answer yet because im still hung over my off/on ex guy ..boyfriend i dont know where me and him stand with each other but anyway i feel like im waiting for something th... (108 words)

Should I make a move or wait until she is single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I like this girl and I know she likes me too, the problem is she is taken. Should I make a move on her and disregard her boyfriend or should I NOT make a move because she has a boyfriend?... (44 words)

I've become attached to my fiance's nephew

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old. My fiance, boyfriend, whatever you want to call him is 50. We are swingers, which means we're in an open relationship. now that the info is over, here's my story. I was driving home from my uncle's house one night and saw my bf's nephew walking back to ... (276 words)

She keeps talking to this guy and now I don't trust her or her life choices

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - This is my problem. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now but sometimes i have to leave for work for a period of 4- 6 months. It's not often but i've been out of town for about 4 months this year. Right now i am in another country. During the summer she got a job where ... (1313 words)

Ex had miscarriage, took her back, although the feelings aren't there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - About 3 weeks ago, my girlfriend of two and a half years had a miscarriage, neither of us knew that she was even pregnant, until this started. Literally 2 days before that I had broken up with her because the feelings just weren't there, and she was just an emotional ... (287 words)

My beautiful girlfriend can't get dates. What hope is there for the rest of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question for guys. I have this really beatifull girlfriend. She is a model type: 5.6". Very thin, with big boobs, blond, blue eyes, pretty smile, very friendly. We go out with her and another girl sometimes. Me and that other girl are mArried with kids, but my ... (288 words)

Does she want to date? have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4486 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I started texting this girl I seen around college. We been flirting a bit by text and would txt nearly everyday although the conversations weren't exactly exciting after the initial 2-3weeks, now its been over a month. We have met up with other friends around, nothing too long. ... (316 words)

Masturbation: How do I get past the point I get stuck at?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I have started masturbating, but I've never been able to cum (even though sex). I always get to just before my climax but then get to scared to release, as it feels like I'm going to wet myself, which makes me feel awkward then the climax is gone. How do I get over ... (82 words)

Do I tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with an awesome guy for 4 months but known him a few months before. Sometimes it pops in my head 'i love you' but I can't say it out loud. I'm pretty sure he does too as he gives obvious hints. I look at him sometimes and I think he knows because he ... (174 words)

How do I call out my girlfriend for ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So recently my girfriend has taken to ignoring me. I have absolutly no clue why! But on thurdsday we had a nice conversation, then suddenly nothing for friday or saturday. So ive waited most the day, giving her a little space. Then she isuddenly posted on facebooik, so I sent ... (95 words)