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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex isn't fun anymore because he only lasts 20 seconds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months and our sex life is like non existent compared to how it used to be. For the first 6 or so months, we had sex literally like 4 or 5 times everyday, it was great. But for the past few months, we barely h... (179 words)

Is she trying to get my attention? Does she have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30. She's 20. We work at the same office block, but not in the same office. For many months, she's walked past me and just said hiya. But if I'm ever near her she's very shy and quiet, almost to the point where I feel like I am making her awkward by talking to her. ... (326 words)

Fiance's world revolves around his 16 year old daughter with asperger's

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi This is quite hard for me. My fiances daughter is nearly 16 and she has aspergers. I'm finding this very hard to cope with. Its like she's 10 always something wrong with her and when there is my partner has to drop everything and run for her,its almost like she plays up... (189 words)

Was he actually serious-or was it an initiation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - A few years ago, A guy in my class that I liked asked me out and it turned out to be a horrible dare. That experience scarred me a lot, as I was really shy and innocent back then. I'm definitely not an attractive person, but I do think my personality is pretty good. (I've been ... (280 words)

How to regain my girlfriend's trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I while ago I broke up with my gf because my (former) best buddy lied to me and made me believe that she had tried to cheat on me with him. At the time she told me it was the opposite; that he was the one who wanted to be with her and could not take a no for a answer and to get ... (418 words)

I am very confused about my feelings for boys/girls and not sure what I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey,sorry for my English,i am not born in England. I have big problem and i have ocd,hipohondria and panic attacts. I am 16 year old female and i questioned my sexuallity since 12 year.Am i str8,lesbian,bisexual,bi curious?Please help,don't be mean :) I allways liked boys,s... (199 words)

My jealously issues with boyfriend and friends are starting to concern me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'v been having a lot of jealousy issues lately its not only with my boyfriend but even with my girlfriends..like if I think that my 2 girlfriends are getting close to each other I get jealous cuz I want both of them to be close to me and not to each other..!... (151 words)

I'm straight and my best friend is in love with me, how can I help him get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - The situation I’m in, is pretty bizarre. I’m guy and my best friend is in love with me. I’m 27 and he’s 28, we know each other for almost 10 years, we're like brothers. I never knew he was gay. I’m not trying to judge gay people, I don’t know much about them. But it’s kind of ... (239 words)

My parents constant fighting have made me believe love doesn't exist

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents quarrel all the time. They are always disagreeing on matters concerning their marriage. At my mother s uncle s funeral my father didnt show. My mum was so hurt about that because she s always there for my dad. My dad is not a good man to my mum, he always makes my ... (205 words)

Is it normal to have 2 inches of extra condom length at the penis tip? Am I using the condom correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello friends, This a question about proper condom usage. I am an uncircumsized guy and I am not sure if I am using a condom properly. I follow all the general steps in putting on a condom and then use a fleshlight to masturbate (http://www.fleshlight.com/what-... (282 words)

I thought I liked him, but now I'm not so sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 (Please, no comments saying I'm too young for a boyfriend, they don't help) and I'm going out with this boy who has been my close friend for about 2 years. He's liked me since we were 12 but I wasn't interested in him. Time went on then I started liking him back, well I ... (199 words)

My girlfriend's behavior has changed, I need some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, Hope you can help, Ive been seeing my girlfriend for about 18 months - we will live an hour from each other - plus for a long part of this I used to work away so seeing each other was not easy. But at the weekend I would try to arrange to see her - but ... (454 words)

How do I get this situation sorted? My home is not big enough for all this. And my sister contributes nothing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ModNote: two interlinked posts combined Dear cupid,i live in a two bedroom apartment with my three young boys. They used to have their own room. My sister move in with us which i thought was going to be for a short time. She has a two yr old son and a bulldog. I asked her to g... (316 words)

Should I date someone who is always with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i just wanted a bit of advice. i just been talking to a man i like online and he said he likes me as well. we going on a date soon and have met once at his works already which went well. we talk online and will go out soon but thing is he seems to have lots of friends ... (180 words)

Torn between 2 men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister has opened a shop 15 minutes away from her house so i help her to sell. I met a guy who wants to date me and i thought he was just a player and i didn't take it seriously but i gave him my number. Two days after that i met another guy whom i thought i loved and i said ... (141 words)

Caught feelings for a guy but things seem different after the night we finally spent together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, this might be long but please help me out. Around august of last year some guy friend requested me on facebook. He wasnt just a random because we had about 45 mutual friends and he lives a few towns(15 minutes) away from me. Anyways I accepted his friend reque... (1480 words)

Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together, it was a bit like one of t... (466 words)

Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my dreams) and when I was extremely ... (782 words)

I'm so confused about my feelings. Is there a chance it could work with him? What are your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So here's some background: I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. And there's this guy..lets call him D. So i have known D for about a year. We met in one of my classes last year, but we didn't exactly hit it off. He sat directly across from me, and he stared at me. A lot.... (528 words)

What should I do? My Boyfriend is SO Jealous. Made a scene at my work. Calls me a slag almost daily

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad about what I did to my boyfriend. We have been arguing so much throughout our entire relationship, he always thinks I'm cheating. He calls me a slag almost daily when he has no reason to think it. He came to my work shouting at me so we split up. My sister ... (375 words)

Why is my ex mad at me about my new life changes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Today I talked to my ex boyfriend about coming to this new state where I live now to make better choices for himself we both did some wild things during our relationship that's why I chose to move away. I wanted better for myself. I have a new job now I told him if he comes ... (165 words)

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and after a year and half I begin to s... (596 words)

If I tell all I think he'll break up with me. Should I keep the whole truth from him forever or be honest about my earlier cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've cheated on my boyfriend of 1 year 3 times, but that was when we first started seeing each other. I didn't like him that much at that time and was still quite hurt/ messed up from my last relationship, which ended 2 years ago but that was my first serious love. When I di... (286 words)

Why wont my 59 year old boyfriend make love to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age - why wont my boyfriend make love to me? im 56 and he is 59, we have been together now for a year. i care about him deeply and hope that we can spend the rest of our lives together. we get along great other then this one thing. he wants other sexual favors but wont have inte... (85 words)

Do you think he is playing me? My friend says he is. But if he's playing me, would he go to so much trouble for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I guy I have been seeing for the past month and I have been dating. We havent gone very far and I heard that he kissed another girl on a night he got drunk. A few days ago I asked him what we were, and he said he hadn't thought about it. Two days ago I asked him if he had thou... (308 words)

Possiblities? Is he worth pursuing? Is it possible that he may like me as well as I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

22 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The preliminary details: I am an open gay man and I have no problem with my social life, but my curiosity in meeting interesting people all around the world led me to a social networking site that connects strangers from every part of the world. More specifically a f... (632 words)

Is an Ex and Ex? And should it stay that way? I think my Bf may be in contact with this ex again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I suspect that my boyfriend might have added his ex-girlfriend back into his phone, I am not entirely sure. I just have a feeling he might have. Should I just ask him if I can look at it? I don't know if it seems odd. I really hate his ex and he knows how upset I was when she... (153 words)

My boyfriend of 2 months creeps me out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have only been going out for about two months. Lately, though, it seems as if every little thing he does annoys me or creeps me out. He's constantly making fun of me and he brings the gift I gave him (a stuffed monkey) weeks ago everyday to school and ... (168 words)

Am I causing her trauma? I am a disabled man. How does a Prostitute feel when she has paid sex with a disabled man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a disabled person and I started visiting prostitute for paid sex. I am very nice to her and I always give her some extra money. She is also very kind to me, she helps me undress my self and later putting clothes back. She alway seems to be glad when i call her but.. I ... (186 words)

Is he worth it? Part of me wonders if I should just give him a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy over the summer and we got on pretty well, but as far as I was concerned we were just friends. However, he started sending me really dirty text messages and basically wanted to hook up with me. I am a virgin and have never had anyone approach me this way so I ... (455 words)

I want him to really miss me and forgive me for what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi its abit long but Basically I really liked a guy who's in the army we used to speak everyday and always kept in touch and got on really well we could talk about everything. He asked to take me out 2years ago and went on a date, I dint sleep with him because I dint want him... (894 words)

He says I am the problem, but doesn't want me to get help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well now where do i begin.. I've been married for 4 for starters total of 4 kids (2 from previous 10 yr relationship) I've known my husband for a total of 12 years altho we've only been together 6 we were friends before. My problem.. when he gets angry everything is my fault... (982 words)

Trying to find the root of my fat fetish and get rid of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been having this fat fetish since I was 11. I fantasize people getting fatter or myself getting morbidly obese,Having a feeder or me being my own feeder,letting myself go,fat humilation. Id be afraid to do it in real life because of medical risks. Im a slender attractive ... (114 words)