A
male
age
26-29,
*ejjibaran
writes: Hey everyone.I recently was on a teen chat room and a guy private messages me. He started talking dirty and at first I laughed but I became aroused. I eventually engaged in the chat and got off on it. After I was done I was shocked and scared that I might be gay. This was never a possible idea before, I felt I wanted girls, but now sexually I don't know what to think. It's not like I want to go out and have sex with a friend. Help?
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (30 September 2012):
HI
I agree with' so very confused' it just makes you human. when your reading a book that has raunchy or sexual wording, it will arouse you, so texting or emailing is the same, just words. Your young and learning things every day, I would advise you to stay out of chat rooms though, as there are many people on them sites pretending to be someone they are not, older men/women preying on young children. stick to sites you know i.e FB with REAL freinds, only add people YOU know.
Mandy x
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 September 2012):
does not make you gay honey.. makes you human! it was just words... and words can be very powerful... don't worry about it.
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (30 September 2012):
No that wouldn't make you gay, it wasn't his maleness that was turning you on it was the talk about sex in general. I wouldn't worry about it.
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