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writes:Okay so my best friends brother is amazingly cute and I sadly like him alot and he works down the street from my job and with out fail he comes and visits me at least to 4 times a week with out fail . He doesn't even work.on saturdays and he'll still come visit me. And one day he came in three different times and and he kept asking me if I liked his hair cut and I was like yeah it looks good and when me and his sister were talking about guys he kinda got jelous and was like dont talk about that kind of stuff infont of thier little brother but I didnt really matter because he was doing the same thing earlier. and and I am kind of skeptical about telling him I like him because thats my best friends brother. There were times when she tried to gets me to out with him and and I had said no at the time. And when he did visit me at my job one of my coworkers had saw him and liked him and and she wants to talk to him but he, doesn't like her and and if I, did go out with him do you think shell be, mad everyone said no because she doesn't know him. But idk should I tell him how, i feel ??
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (2 October 2012):
 In your shoes I would just tell her "Hey, I think I have feelings for your brother... I like him because (insert reasons here) BUT I don't want to make you uncomfortable. If you don't think anything should happen, this stays between us and I won't do anything because I respect our friendship. If you're okay with this though I'd like to see if it could go anywhere. What do you think?"
Feel free to paraphrase, this is just my input. Hope it works out!
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reader, 90zbaby +, writes (1 October 2012):
90zbaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know what to say to my best friend. i met him first in the 7th grade. then i met his sister in the 8th grade and his sister and i have been friends ever since.4When we were younger i had told her i had liked him and she tried to get him to date me but he said no. Then in high school his mom tried to get him to date me but at the time i wasn't intrested. Now for some reason i like him again. I dont want to hurt my friendship with his sister. because a couple of girls have used her to date him. But i'm not using her to get to her brother.i really care about our friendship AND i really like him but i just don't know how i would tell her.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 October 2012):
 I agree I would talk to your best friend first. Sisters ALWAYS have the best insight into their brother (s).
My SIL (sister in law) is one of my best friends. I think she first started having a crush on my brother when we were 13. At 16 they were dating and now 30 years later they are still together, married with two kids. I couldn't have picked a better girl for him :)
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (30 September 2012):
Talknto your best friend. If she says it's okay, go for it. If not, tough luck, there are other guys out there.
Be a little weary here though because if anything bad happens with you two it could hurt your friendship with his sister. Do you actually think you guys will work, or is it just attraction? Gotta think it over, hun.
Hope this helped!
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (30 September 2012):
 Yes you should tell him. That's if you want to have relations with him. He probably wants you to but waiting on you to make a move. This indicates there's a chance in hell for him and you to be a item. Tell him text him call him right him
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 September 2012):
 Did you talk to your best friend about this? She is the person you should talk to first. It's just what you do!
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