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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in the Manchester area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'd like some help and advice on my acne. I have had acne since I was 11 and I am now 17. I understand it is probably my teenage spots. I have tried every product and they just don't work, I have also tried cream and tablets prescribed by my doctor however they dont work ... (113 words)

My 48 year old husband left me for a 24 year old woman and I'm in need of more advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i will ask my question and leave it at that you all know me. im the one who was left for a 24 year old my husband 48. i want to know why he insists on hurting me with his words. i have to pick up my temporary spousal support from him. and everytime i do i hear how broke he... (208 words)

Is this a crush or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a crush on him for going on 4 years now. Even though he has admitted past feelings for me, it's probably never going to happen, but my crush doesn't show any signs of clearing up. I've never had any feelings for anyone else. (Just to clear it up, I'm not obsessed... (91 words)

Does this sound like a double date? And how can we stop getting angry with each other so often? General life advice needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (?) age 26-29 - hey so i have been with my amazing boyfriend around 5-6 months its been so great we really do love each other and i cant imagen my life without him, we get on well but we bicker in a kinda married cuple way and well its fine but now it gotten wrost and he said we arrgue to much ... (181 words)

Should I make it obvious I have a crush on him or play it cool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started college and I met a guy, by met I mean we are in the same homeroom and I've had a couple of conversations with him. We're not in any of the same classes but when we've spoken it's been great, we have the exact same opinions it's scary and I don't feel... (207 words)

How to express myself clearly? Do others have this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of the time, my thoughts flow at a very fast pace and then, when i want to express myself, i can't. At least not with the same exactitude as it were in my mind. And what happens when i realize that i am not expressing myself like i wanted? I get frustrated and it gets even ... (181 words)

Need help with a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I are in a long distance relationship. She moved about 5 hours away for college. I try to visit her whenever I can (about once a month). The issue is about 24 hours before I have to go home she starts to get depressed and sad and tries to get me to stay longer. I ... (84 words)

I like him, but I always seem to talk myself out of a relationship. Please advise me on what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm afraid of relationships. My last relationship was last year, and ever since then, the thought of relationships always worries me. I, like everybody else, want somebody to be with, cuddle, laugh with etc., but I'm so afraid of hurting them. Every time I'm in a relationshi... (162 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'll cheat if I go to Kent

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend doesnt like the idea of me going to Kent because he thinks im going to cheat on him and not tell him because of my past relationships. i tell him everyday that i wont do anything to hurt him and i wont but he thinks im a whole different person when i drink. i... (78 words)

How can I reignite my boyfriend's passion for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i need a guy to answer this... what can i do to make him obsessed with me again? i use to be the love of his life now he hardly even makes an effort. i need him to call me every night like he use to and to hang out with me like he use to. he says that he loves me but act... (100 words)

Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitment but I'm not really attra... (194 words)

My boyfriend is a bit too friendly with his ex wife whom he cheated on before we met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been dating a wonderful man for 6 and a half months. when i met him he was still living his ex wife in the basement of their home because he was waiting for it to sell. they had a very rocky 17 year relationship that he was never happy in. he expressed that he always f... (345 words)

Is it wrong of me to use pornography to unwind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am in my final year of university,life has become just too stressful I have practically no social life anymore..and I use porn when I am stressed,more like when I studied one full day and then I need to de stress..is it bad?... (46 words)

I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I found the backlog of instant cha... (179 words)

My boyfriend keeps files on all his previous girlfriends

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend keeps files on all his ex-girlfriends. Is this normal? He was on a dating site before he met me and he had files, manila folders, with print-outs of the women he dated and their correspondence back and forth through the computer. Then there was other files of ... (220 words)

My boyfriend blocked me on Messenger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 2 years blocked me in messager saying I'm disturbing his work. I don't send messages often, I send one in morning to say good morning and one at night. He never responds when I asked about that, he blocked me. What should I do now? please help me.... (56 words)

I am reluctant to leave my four year old daughter in the care of my younger sister while I'm away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallo guys. I dont know if i am worrying over nothing. My husband is outside the country. And i am going to be visiting him soon for a whole month. My worry is my daughter who is only 4 and is in nursery. I plan to leave her with my kid sister who is 23. She has never stayed... (173 words)

Do you think my wife has forgotten what losing her virginity felt like?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age - My wife lost her virginity to one man (had sex just once before me) and I have been fucking her three times a week for over twenty years. Has she forgotten about that first experience by now or will she always remember how it felt the first time? She has truthfully told ... (102 words)

I treated her badly but now I want her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated on a woman who was madly in love with me four years ago. Not only did I cheat on her, I disrespected her, lied to her, bit her, talked bad about her behind her back to co-workers and family members. I strung her along and I put her at risk for an STD because I was ... (354 words)

Why say you want someone then avoid seeing them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - About 20 days ago i started to chat to a male i met on a dating website. We exchanged numbers and spoke spoke for a couple od days. He told me not to go back onto the website till we met and both agreed to take our photos off the site. We continued to speak and arranged a ... (306 words)

Should I make amends with my ex girlfriend who's getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i can't get over the fact that my first love, my college ex-girlfriend is getting married. I heard the news from my former roommate who was also a friend of hers. when she and i were together she was a bit apprehensive with the two of us having sex. she wasn't ready and i tried ... (318 words)

My girlfriend is having white discharge 2 days after I fingered her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright so.. about 2 days, 16th September ago me and my girlfriend started to get a lil horny and after awhile i started fingering her, i think i could have precum on my fingers but i wiped it off and fingered her a few minutes after that. 18th September Today, she just fou... (142 words)

7 year itch. Why would she leave without even talking to me and telling me what was wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am still a little confused about why my wife left me. She says she left because I was having an affair with a friend of mine, which I wasn't and she knew this, we have been together for 7 years, always have been able to talk, but in the last few mths before she left, sh... (196 words)

I've fallen for my friend who was my friends with benefits !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help. I met this guy a couple of months ago, we went on a first date, got to know each other really well. Then we carried on talking everyday for a couple more weeks. Because we had both come out of serious relationships , we decided to just be friends with ... (269 words)

Is this the way? I want to make him jealous. In retaliation for how he has treated me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to make my ex jealous. do you have any ideas on how to do this? He has always told me that i need him and we are meant to be together, but I am done. I think he wants me back, then dump me. Every two months he comes crawling back to me. I want to make him jealous and... (88 words)

Should I doubt his commitment to me? I don't feel secure in my relationship with him as he's getting closer to a girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've really liked this guy for 2 years now - I told him about a year ago, and we've endured some troubles over this period in coming to terms with our bisexual statuses, of which has resulted in some bad arguments. During this time, he met a girl and enjoyed a flirtaci... (335 words)

Should I break up with the love of my life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little apartment, life was good. He ... (1562 words)

How can I be more assertive without coming across as an ass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend were just chilling in my room the other day when I randomly just told her to sit down on the bed, and suddenly she is talking about how she liked it and wants me to be more dominant/ controlling in the relationship. I was like, whoa Black Betty, settle ... (100 words)

Boyfriend feels neglected because I'm spending time with another friend. Views please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 26 nothing significant there but I thought of mentioning it cuz my boyfriend has been acting really immature these days.. I have a best guy friend we go bowling,dinner's lunch we have a lot of fun,and we r in the same profess... (174 words)

Boyfriend problems involving facebook. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems facebook is the source of all of our issues :/ I'm really insecure about myself and always end up comparing myself to other girls and my boyfriend and I have talked about this. We live together and he treats me so well, but we do have issues. We've had a problem wh... (259 words)

Does he have feelings for me and is afraid of being hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright guys, im having a huge dellima... I met this guy through my cousin, and it seemd like a good idea. We atrted texting, we met once but it was brief, and i knew there was just something about him. I thouhgt about him off and all, and he finally got my number. So we start... (305 words)

Need a Older Man's Opinion

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a single man(in this 30's) last year from canada and we have been in contact for 1 year now. We only met once and had a great time and chemistry and everything(did not do anything with him at all, I'm more respectable). So, now he emails me that he isn't REALLY looking ... (169 words)

I feel too skinny - am I over-reacting to not having enough weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that I should not care about what others think but this is coming from my neighbors, boyfriend, and friends.. I lose and gain weight really quick. I am 120 pounds and im 5'5 and I feel like I am perfectly fine. Everyone thinks I look super skinny now to them and my own ... (116 words)

Proposal to share FB passwords to deal with Trust issues - too far?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - reached the point in our relationship where trust issues are flaring, now both trying to resolve the issues. We have come to the conclusion to share fb passwords, (have not done so yet) told her id seek help first before we do this. Just wondering if sharing passwords will ... (101 words)

Did I push him away? 9 year age difference. How do I get things back on track? Please help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I pushed my "guy friend" away. About a week ago this guy that I have been friends with for 6 months finally admitted he was attracted to me. Since I've known him I have always been attracted to him and wanted to take it to the next level. And he knew this. I have tol... (359 words)

Uncles: I need your thoughts please? He told me he didn't want a Gf but did want to hang out. Then an insulting offer. Now what? Do I accept him apology and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a single man(in this 30's) last year from Canada and we have been in contact for 1 year now. We only met once and had a great time and chemistry and everything(did not do anything with him at all, I'm more respectable). So, now he emails me that he isn't REALLY look... (173 words)

Does regular sex with a psuedo vagina have the same health benefits as any other form of sex? And is it OK to date while I am separated from my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has recently left me, so I have been using a fake vagina for release. I was wondering if having sex with a psuedo vagina has the same health benefits as having sex with a real person? Also I was wondering if it is acceptable to have sex with someone else while we are ... (77 words)

What to do about my Bf? When we argue he completely shuts down and never has enything to say when we have issues to discuss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I fix our comunication problemes? My boyfriend and I are kind of stuck in a rut when we get into an argument he completly shuts down and never has enything to say. I try not to pressure him but he always seems to take serious discussions as if Im complaining about ... (146 words)

Told him I had a crush on him. But then remarks from a so called friend tried to ruin things.Could there be a chance he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I ask this because my friends kind of kept bothering me XD and I am also nervous. You see, I finally told this guy I had a crush on him. He's very shy and quiet, rarely talks, always sleeping and yet he maintains a 4.0 ....he's very intelligent and nice and artistic(some of t... (570 words)