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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 19 year old female currently studying in college. My sexuality is complicated...I guess I would identify as bisexual but with a strong preference for women. I've been longing to meet a girl and have a relationship (or just hook up as long as it's not a one night stand) for a long time now but the problem is that my college is very small and the pool of female lesbians/bisexuals is limited plus I'm attracted to feminine girls so often times it's not easy to discern if a girl is straight or not. Basically, I'd like advice on how to maybe put myself out there more, meet more girls, and connect with other lesbians. I'm very hesitant to sign up for any dating sites, and I've been to lesbian bars but never seem to be satisfied. Another problem that I have is that I'm very "femme" and I'm also attracted to femmes. Most of the feminine girls that I've been with have identified as straight which I always accept at the time because I'm so attracted to them but in the long run they always end up going back to men. Feminine lesbians usually want butch lesbians as opposed to another femmes. Any advice for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012): I am a lesbian too. And I'm attracted to "femme" females too! It is hard to find but I go to Gay 90s (nightclub) or townhouse (bar) and try to just meet other lesbians. I have many gay friends so it helps the dating process like blind dates. Dating sites are usually fake. I don't know where you are from but feel free to message me and I can try my best to help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012): Hey I am feminine lesbians and I'm attracted to femme lesbians as well,not into butch..I'v never dated anyone in my college..I met this girl at a lesbian bar(I think its a perfect place cuz if ur there ur lesbian or bisexual you don't really need to crack your head over the other persons orientation)anywys we hit it off we dated for over a year and then she had to move to seattle so things went haywire!but to this day we talk..anywys I think bars,clubs,lounges or you can ask your friends..
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