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*ksparkle
writes:I just wonder why people can't accept that i dont like sex. Ive never been raped, abused or anything like that, i just dont ever feel the need for it. All my hormone levels r ok. I can watch it on tv, if a sexy scene on a programme comes up but that is the only time i wld ever think about it and i certainly doesn't make me want 2 hav sex. Some people dont like certain foods, i dont like sex. People always assume there is something wrong wiv you, well im fine thank you, i just feel it is un-necessary. Does any1 feel the same? Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (3 October 2012):
I quite like it. Im 44, but me an my fiancee have it at least 5-7 times per week. I guess Ive always had higher than usual testoserone levels.
I dont have any issue w people who dont like it, I just dont know many people like that, and given my drive certainly wouldnt date one.
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reader, Agneta  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Like with everything that kind of breaks the norm, this is one of those topics that probably can set people off. They want to fix it, find a solution and so on. It says you are 41-50 which means you are a mature woman who supposedly know what you like and what you don't. I suspect there might be a lot more people that feel the same way even though we don't hear from them very often (who would blame them?) I think you should follow your feelings and senses, just like everybody always should, and do the things you feel make you happy and well-being in life. If your guy choose to accept this and stays with you, then great, but if he would not accept you the way you are, then why don't you end it yourself? And go out and find your own happiness. Do it your way.
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reader, Uksparkle +, writes (1 October 2012):
Uksparkle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for you replies.I have had sex with partners as thats what you do in relationships but to be honest ive never really been into it, i always sex onlu because i felt obligued to.I have had orgasams but again, really wasnt into it. I just feel that its over rated and time wasted when i could be doing something a lot more constructive.I am in a relationship and it wasnt till my parter had a bad back and was in a lot of pain and sex was off the menu for about 6mths, i felt a sense of relief like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders as i knew he wouldnt be pestering me for sex, it was then i really decided that i was much much happier not having sex. I have offered for him to end the relationship as he knows we will never have sex again but he has chosen to stay.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 October 2012):
 I used to not like sex, because the guys were always selfish AND because I didn't know what I needed. Why would I like being poked in the vagina?
But then with the right guy and with the right self-education I started really liking it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): I don't like having sex. I only like masturbating. Woman here, by the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): Have you ever had an orgasm?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Have you always felt this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): I don't, I like sex. I don't think about it all the time but I like it and I think it is an important part of a relationship.
However, I have seen a documentary about people like you, and I didn't feel like it was something bad or anything. If you want to have a relationship, you just have to find someone with a similar sex drive (or lack of) so he/she doesn't feel like something is missing in their life.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (1 October 2012):
 I understand but I haven't met many people like this. Even virgins want it but with that special someone. Well aleast you know so you can inform others. We accept it.
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