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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to be a desperate, clingy girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...this sounds really sad but I'd like some advice on how to cope with missing my boyfriend. I'm usually not the clingy type (completely the opposite in fact!) but this ones different and I really really like him. When I dont see him for a few days I get really down and even ... (81 words)

How do I get over anger from a troubled relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I get over this? Sorry for the ramble in advance. So it seems I'm at the end of a very troubled relationship. Me and my boyfriend have gone out for almost a year this month. He moved in with me in Dec. Since around January we've had some serious fights since I ... (600 words)

What can I say to get him to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my boyfriend last week, we had the stupidest argument he ignored me for a day and told me he didn't want to see me again. He rang me the next day and I ignored him, I set up my facebook account again because he asked me to delete it before, it just caused ... (238 words)

Is she telling the truth about miscarrying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl i was seeing told me she was pregnant with my child and after stating her reasons she decided to terminate it as she said he wasnt mature enough or financially ready to bring up a child and also since alot of stuff had gone on between us she didnt think it was fair to ... (223 words)

How do I help my mother and stepdad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my stepdad left my mother to be with a girl 25 years younger than him. hes not rich by no means you know not a millionair, but he does makes huge bucks. he met this girl at work she worked in the office and he works as a car sales manager. they have lived together for about 8 ... (455 words)

Am I being used or Shes really busy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently knew Ms.XXX for 6months.I been asking Ms.XXX if she likes me; but I been getting "I don't know" as answer. Ms.XXX knows i love her and We been going out dining for the few months until Ms.XXX started working as a financial planner. Ms.XXX started asking me to grab ... (94 words)

Depressed over teacher leaving school!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i really like this teacher ever since i came in year 7. i had him for two months (i really really love him, but i never tried anything on him) and my grades went sky high and moved to a different class. i was really depressed for a few months, but all went ok (but i still had a ... (177 words)

Is shyness a sign of interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - What is the meaning if the girl cannot look in your eyes or she is feeling awkward when you are talking to each other? she knows that I like her since 4 years ago but im shy so i cant show it to her. Only now im trying to talk to her. Is being awkward good or bad?... (58 words)

15 year old pupil is hitting on me - her teacher. Should I report this?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age - I am in a terribly difficult situation. I have been teaching for 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever had this particular problem. There is a girl in one of my classes; she is very young, 14/15 years old, a child. Now I have had students have crushes on me before, nothing ... (572 words)

Is okay for me to revive a long lost love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I really wanted to know the answer and the story is this: When I transferred to a new school ,I had a crush in my lower year schoolmate who is also a transferree from an all girls school. I was very shy back then so we only talked through text messages. After the end of that ... (221 words)

I'm not sure how to be dominant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age - Hi, just after a bit of advice please... I've been seeing someone for a few months and she likes to be dominated.. we have good and exciting sex, tying up, shackled toys, spanking etc.. my problem is I enjoy doing it with her but not sure what to say to dominate her more and I ... (98 words)

I'm stuck on a guy from 3 years ago

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey dear agony aunts, I see that lately I have been obsessing wayy too much about this guy I had my first kiss with,and I don't knw why..it happened 3 years ago and all of a sudden I saw him and can't stop thinking about him,I check his statuses often and its just driving ... (322 words)

I'm scared about my feelings for another woman and what that makes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to feel about a girl. I have never had a relationship before, I am a 22 year old female. I have never had a crush on anyone before until i had one on a female close friend. I told myself it was fleeting, and when she was with her partner, it was, but now shes ... (257 words)

What's the worst thing that can happen with yeast infections if it's not treated right away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend told me she might have a yeast infection. i could tell she isn't as wet and it's actually thick like cream. she's going for a check up this week. but i am worried about my mouth. should i get it checked?! what's the worst thing that can happen with yeast infect... (62 words)

How do guys see needy girls? If a girl is very needy will it not matter to a guy if he TRULY loves?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused. Two days ago, my LDR ex bf broke up with me. Deep down I know it's mainly because I was being too needy and pushed him too far. I always cry during our skype, complaining he didn't spend enough time online with me, I was even upset and angry just seein... (154 words)

Is my husband interested in Lisa? Should I be worried that he's angry that he missed out on a chance to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

- What do you think about this situation? My husband and I occasionally hang out with another couple, I'll call them Bob and Lisa. Before we met, we both hung out with this couple seperately. My husband used to be Bob's best friend and when I was in my late 20's and early 30's I ... (482 words)

Is this younger man interested in me or am I imagining things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Well I am in a little dilemma. I work with this really cool, nice man (he is 32) and I am 42. I know age difference ei. well dilemma is that recently I noticed that he gives me this looks and big smiles often and always compliments me. He usually notices if I change something ... (156 words)

How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I deal with my sister-in-law's rude comments? I'm still in my second month of marriage and my husband's mother and brother are living with us currently, because they are repairing their home... It's only a matter of a few weeks until they move back to their home. The ... (302 words)

What to do? I don't want our relationship to be based on amazing sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my baby's dad have crazy sexual chemistry...its off that charts... I just had a baby 3 months ago and don't want anymore for a while. But anyway because of our attraction it seems like we can't even be around each other without having sex... The problem is that ... (119 words)

I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is I know she likes to ... (262 words)

I cant get over the fact that my girlfriend wasn't a virgin when we got together and that she lost her virginity to her ugly ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi.. My problem is that when i start my realation with my gf i wasnt vey serious and she told me that she isnt a virgin... I minded that but i thought iys ok.. But now am getting so close to her and atracted but i feel bad that she is not a virgin... We r having so much sex and ... (107 words)

Should I pack my bags and leave? He has been really depressed about his mom's passing and he is pushing me away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I've asked a few question on this site I'm still a bit confused my question is should I pack my bags and leave? My bf is offering nothing to me I love him dearly but as you know he has no compassion no love nothing he has been really depressed about his mom's passing ... (87 words)

I unfortunatley set up a pattern where I do the majority of the calling to my BF and am now trying to undo it and it not working!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Please advise. I unfortunatley set up a pattern where I do the majority of the calling to my BF and am now trying to undo it and it not working!! For instance - I saw him last week - all was ok, then I did not hear from him so called him today like 5 days on, and h... (270 words)

I just want to know how to leave my son's father and be strong enough to never take him back because his lies are getting too much to take.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I just need to get this off my chest and rant a little and hear back from people... I have an 18 month old son. His father and I knew each other for years but weren't in a relationship when I became pregnant. Things weren't great while I was pregnant, but after his birth ... (558 words)

I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all. Is this because of hormonal imbalance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old male and I was wondering if my sexual orientations are due to hormones? I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all.. And I am only attracted to some women (usually middle aged) but have emotional and romantic desire with girls ... (73 words)

LDR. I think the advice I need is how we stop these little arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been in an LDR for a year and 2 month's now and I love her so much I can't imagine life without her. We always get into argument about the smallest thing, other then that we are amazing together. We do have a plan to close the gap,yes we are young an... (118 words)

All of my friends have boyfriends except for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently all of my friends have got boyfriends, or have someone who likes them, all except for me. I feel as though I'm the ugly one of my group of friends, they don't make me feel like this, it's just I know that in our group I'm probably the least attractive. I'm the only one ... (140 words)

B/f cheated, got her pregnant but says he loves me more. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 3years cheated on me for 3monthes with a girl much younger than me and even got her pregnant. i found out recently from the girl her self. i asked him but at first he was denying later on he told me the truth but he says he loves me more than her but he cant ... (92 words)

Does the no contact rule work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, does the no contact rule work? ive been told that if you give enough distance to someone who left you, they eventually miss you and come back. but does this ever work? plus what if you try this for ages and then they just forget you and have already moved on b... (72 words)

He told me to repair my behavior or he wouldn't call anymore. He still hasn't called!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was doubt about something that he ... (663 words)

B/f said we'd move in together but now he wants a car. I'm ending things because of this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for two years were both 27yrs old , weve got a great relationship and was going to move in together last year , until i found out he had some debt with his ex , so ive waited a year for all that to clear , we then said we was going to move in the ... (174 words)

How do I stop teacher from having a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hey all i need this site very important like me z story goes like this... Hellu is my teacher she is a little older zan me.she has a husband and a child despite z fact that she has a crash on me and has been calling and texting me till today. Even she has addicted to my voice ... (104 words)

LDR break up because of my neediness

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a typical story. Of a needy girl. I shall begin with 2010. Back then I was with a guy for almost two years, we lived together and bought a new apartment which was not yet ready. I saw it as a very stable relationship so I basically let myself go. Like I made all the mis... (1546 words)

Why is he not responding, and how do I get my "stuff" back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice following my decision to move on after a breakup with someone who seems to be “emotionally unavailable.” My question appears at the end of this post. Here’s the background: I dated a man for 6 months. There is a big age difference: I'm 38, and he's 60. We ... (902 words)

Can masturbation interfere with a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - If a man masturbates 5 or 6 times a day when he is single and then gets in a relationship and almost never wants sex could this be a problem? How? Is it possibly that he maybe masturbated too much? I am just wondering.... (44 words)

How to deal with girlfriends depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so recently my girlfriend has had something bad happen in her life. The only problem is I have no idea what it was. She refuses to talk about it, from what I understand with anyone. But whatever it is it has sent her into so far 4 sleepiness nights and a depression. She's ... (123 words)

My abusive ex boyfriend refuses to pay me back the money he owes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am stuck and need serious advice. I just got out of an abusive relationship (emotionally, verbally and recently, physically) and trying to recover. We bought a condo together but he put the mortgage under his name. I, however, paid the lawyer costs, as well as buying furnit... (155 words)

Am I driving him to drink?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 3yrs now. We got married in feb 2012... He has a drinking problem. He stopped for 6 months that is why I agreed to marry him. I have 3 kids he has 2 we bought a house a yr and half ago. Here is the problem and I don't know what to do. He start... (305 words)

I've been very depressed since moving to the US from Mexico

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I have been very depressed. I move to the US for college six months ago, I've been in a LDR since then. I haven't really made much friends since i moved here, people are just very different and not that open compared to the people in my country. I miss my family, ... (186 words)

Before I speak to a doctor can anyone tell me about Cerazette (birth control)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

5 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Been on the cerazette pill for quite a few months now and I hate it. I would bleed constantly for 3 weeks have a week without bleeding and then bleed for another 3 weeks. It's just a nightmare. I've taken the pill correctly everyday and have never missed one. I have ... (223 words)

Is he flirting or just very friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

5 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I work at a position where my university hires their students to work.. Well, this 36 year old undergrad (went back to school) befriended me and he's married for about 4 years with a baby. He's extremely friendly and always asking for hugs (one time he kissed me on the head ... (249 words)