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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help , I'm screwing up the best relationship I ever had .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi , I've been dating this beautiful girl for nearly a year now and I honestly love her to pieces . I'm completely crazy about her and I know she feels the same . We had quite a few arguments the first few months we were together . I know this was because of me , but I had a ... (315 words)

I don't know what she's expecting, if anything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Before college ended for the summer I met someone and we were dating for about a week and it was really good, but we've been unable to meet because of distance. Anyway, we've texted a bit, but she seems to have lost interest in me, she says because of distance etc. We'll be ... (162 words)

His wife only wants him back because she knows he was happy with me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help i'm in a muddle! when i started my new job last year i met a lovely bloke in 1 of my calls. we always got on well and chatted. he told me he was married with children and i always asked after them its was strictly professional but i admit had a soft side for him.... (541 words)

I gave him a warning. Is this time to walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now but he's always been abusive to me. He is bipolar has anxiety attacks, clinical depression, and just a whole book full of problems that I dealt with because in the end he's always there for me and loves me and I completely love ... (223 words)

She used to like me. How long do I wait to text to find out if she still cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old in college. Met this girl around 1 year ago. Last semester (January 2012), I had a class with her. She sat by me and we talked all the time. Long Story short, I took her to lunch one day and afterwards I was 100% sure she was into me. 100% no doubt. Anywa... (377 words)

My Bf only wants to play video games. It upsets me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I do love him but our relationship has took a serious turn for the worse ever since he lost his part-time job about 4 months ago. We starting dating when we met at 18 and as always the first 6 months or so were absolutely ... (977 words)

Worried about meeting the guy my friend tried to set me up with

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6 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - In February my friend wanted to 'set me up' with her friend from college which i was okay about at first but then i changed my mind as i wasn't ready for a relationship. We've been speaking since then but haven't met yet (were meeting on monday as i have just joined their ... (121 words)

It hurts to feel this way about my teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a 13 year old girl and i really like a teacher at school but i really do not want to feel this way because it really hurts i often dream about her i know nothing can ever happen but i do no no what to do because it is really awkward around her ... (55 words)

Why was my b/f having online sex chats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 12 years I caught havin online sex chats in yahoo and msn I was really pissed he thanked his lucky stars that I wasnt there in front of him when I found it he didnt come home for a week, he knew how I feel about cheaters.He also thought I was over re acting I dont know ... (245 words)

Friend's wife won't let him have contact with us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi actually we are a group of some friends best of buddies u would say!! now the problem lies with one of the friend he got married a year back. his wife is very much possessive of her like she has asked him not to talk to any of us specially all the female friends. its like ... (236 words)

Ex didn't want anything to do with me and now can't take her eyes off me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, guna keep it short and sweet :) Basically, I was with my ex girlfriend for 9 months. In march this year she split up with me. Break up was messing, I was a mess, completely hit rock bottom and desperatly wanted her back. Over the summer holidays I contacted her ... (291 words)

I feel emotional and grieving over losing a child that was goin to terminate is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4486 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys just looking for support or advice Found out i was pregnant 2 weeks ago after a routine blood test at the doctors it came as an absolute shock as me and my boyfriend were on a rocky road and the fact i had thought i got my period a week before after thinking about i... (186 words)

Guy I've started dating said he'd hidden his on-line dating profile but I've found out that he hasn't.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age - I’m 50 and been on Match for almost a year. I met quite a few guys, most of them were just a first and last time date and a couple of them lasted a few dates, but nothing serious. In mid-July I met this guy online. He is 52; he is a widow (his wife died almost a year ago). He ... (352 words)

Falling for a man I met on the internet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, here's the thing. I'm 19 this year and I've known this 29 year old guy from the Internet for about 3 months now and like most hot-blooded teenagers, I succumbed to showing him my body and having cam sex with him. Initially, I did all of it out of curiosity and fun. I ... (276 words)

How can I leave him but not cut him out of my life completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4483 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am desperatly need advice from a completely objective third party... My question is how do I leave my live in boyfriend of three and a half years? I have been making and remaking my mine up for months on if I should leave him. I definetly dont want him out of my life com... (207 words)

He says he loves me but I don't know what I feel or if it could work.

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6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who I have been friends with for about a year. To start with I thought I had other feelings for him, but he clearly wasn't interested and liked someone else. She rejected him, and so did another girl he liked and asked out. This was about 4 months ago. Now he... (242 words)

Why would he jump into another relationship so quickly? Will he come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend last month. i dont kno if it was a breakup bcuz he told me he had a girlfriend after ignorin me for a few days. I was hurt because we were goin out for 4 years. I dont get why he would do this to me. Im a pisces girl and he is a scorpio. I dunno... (127 words)

Why do guys stare at me or laugh/smile when they see me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - there are a group of guys in my school and i never talk to them. its like everytime i walk by they stare at me and whisper, i have same classes with couples of em, and i know everytime i walk into the classroom and no matter what im doing, they always look at me. So today i was ... (105 words)

How do I handle my posessive boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend lately is driving me crazy, he has gotten so possesive, it scares me.. A little background: it took my bf a really long time to ask me out..he is a very good looking man and has easily could sweep any woman off her feet..but with me he saw something... (275 words)

This guy who wanted me to be his FWB is going around telling my friends that he had a crush on me and we were good friends! What is wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I know we used to be in the same university but then I took a transfer..he used to have a massive crush on me,but I didnt respond back.. A few weeks ago he indirectly asked if we could have a physical relationship without really being in a relationship..he dint directly... (214 words)

How can I study for an exam and attend a wedding that are both in the same month?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, This is not a love related question but you guys are soo sensible I decided to reach out to you.. I have an important exam in december it literally decided my life,and who I will become..but I think my family they don't seem to care much,my sisters wedding ... (149 words)

Who is right for me, my ex who calls me a big sh**t or the lovely new guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

- I need a litle help... this is a complex story and my head heart and body mind all torn! Well, I met my boyfriend november 2009 we were so happy both dairy farmers and so much in common going everywher together, now I had personal problems at home with money and he knew this... (638 words)

My girlfriend romantically roleplays with others, would I be wrong to ask her to stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm in a rather unique situation right now. I'm in a long distance relationship with my current girlfriend and she is an avid roleplayer on various forums with multiple people. The problem lies whenever she romantically roleplays with someone. It really gets me upset to ... (95 words)

Dating for 2 years with no talk of the future, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Does anyone think it's normal to be in an exclusive dating relationship with a man for 2 years and still not know where the relationship is headed? We are both middle aged, own homes, spend 5 days a week together going back and forth to each others home. I'... (230 words)

My boyfriend doesn't get horny anymore and I'm worried he's not attracted to me anymore....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my boyfriend tells me he isn't horny anymore like he used to and I feel like he isn't sexually attracted to me I try to turn him on but he tells me it's sensitive down there like it tickles and I don't know what to do. We seem to argue cause he won't try anything sexually ... (62 words)

We cant seem to meet halfway, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I wrote on here last year about my now husband who has the travel bug and had mixed responses. His job means he works all summer and has 4 months over winter off. We got married last jan and in nov he wanted to go travelling again. I let him go to australia for 6 weeks ... (239 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is losing interest in me, how should I handle this? Or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i love my bf, weve been together for 2 yrs now with no plans to move in together any time soon. he rarely sleeps with me which is something ive grown to accept but lately hes more interested in getting a motorbike than me. this summer ive been on holiday as i work term time o... (411 words)

My friend told her I like her and now things have changed, where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok.. There is a girl i have been friends with for 6 years and we would talk amd hang out at lunch break and stuff, and i have liked her for the past year. But i dont know where im supposed to go from here because my friend told her that i liked her and now she doesnt talk to me ... (85 words)

Can you see why I am so angry? My husband thinks his job will be at stake if he stands up to his supervisor. She sends him texts about her sex life!.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here's my problem. Been with bf for 5 and a 1/2 yrs, engaged have a little boy together, and boyfriend took on my 3 kids:) He started a new job in jan this year, and seems to like it now he's settled there a bit. His direct supervisor is female and somewhat of a charac... (488 words)

I have reoccurring dreams of my boyfriend cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i keep having these re occurring dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me with various people he has been with. has anyone else had this and how did you stop it? ... (34 words)

Answers needed to a lot of questions on Long Distance Relationships

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to limit my background info so that I don't bias the readers of this question. I am entering my first LDR. That's all you get for now! So here's my questions: *What's been the hardest thing to go through? *What were some of your techniques to keeping the relations... (128 words)

Should I get the gastric bypass surgery done?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 almost 17, I have always been overweight and at this time in my life I think I'm ready to move forward and start working to lose my weight. I'm in the 300s and I'd really love to lose this. I know people are going to say your young and whatnot and I understand but I... (172 words)

Every time my g/f talks about her past I get pissed off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me start off with introductions.My girlfriend and I have been together for like 3 months already. But we have known each other for 3 years already,took us long before we really bonded since we didn't really talk in the past. Well doesn't matter. Recently she told me ... (474 words)

I had sex with both brothers but I'm wondering if its possible for me to be in a relationship with one of them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the situation..I've know this guy since we were like 6 years old and you can say he was my childhood love but we never actually dated but the feelings were mutual and we just never got into a relationship with each other but I knew he had feelings for me and I for him ... (423 words)

I am seriously bored with my relationship and have been thinking about my ex...a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so lost in my current relationship, I don't want to end it, I want to fix it, or tell my boyfriend to wake up and see if we can grab our relationship before it has nothing left. I am seriously becoming bored with my relationship. When I am with my bf we have a good time ... (318 words)

What should I do if you are nervous and have anxiety on a new job

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6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been so nervous and having a little anxiety. I need some advice. I just started a new job and I am scared; I am afraid of messing up and having my other employees angry and frustrated. I don't want to be embarrassed.I am also afraid to ask for help because I don't want ... (75 words)

I love my wife and I can't tell her to chose me over her father but it's starting to feel like it's him or me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

- My wife and I have been married for 2 years now. I have known her for about 7 years and for the last six years her father has been an increasingly son of a B#$CH. I wrote him off personally about a year ago. But my wife still tries to have a relationship with him and I wouldn't ... (362 words)

I feel trapped because I can't find my true love for him? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2.5 years now! He just went on vacation with my family and I for a week and we had a blast. I've been spending more time with him and when this happens and I'm with him a lot I feel content. He is my first "real" boyfriend and I am so ... (282 words)

My libido has gone from 100% to about 10%

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over three years. I lost my virginity to him when I was thirteen, but as soon as my parents found out they broke us up. Anyway I’m eighteen now, and recently my libido has gone from 100% to about 10%. I love my boyfriend with all my ... (360 words)

How to get over him - should I get over him? I don't know where to begin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Agony Aunts, please help me understand this situation. I'm completely devastated, drained and not sure what to do, think, say... :( This is long, but I just don't know how to condense it. I promise it will be worth reading... I met a guy (22 - about my age), through a ... (999 words)

Should I keep hoping that there is something with this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and this guy already had the talk on the 3rd week after all the daily extreme sweet dates which i knew that’s a big mistake already. He told me he's in fear to be in any relationship again due to the last 2 3+3 years were too hurtful and also his parents failed marriage,... (399 words)

Student/teacher relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My personal fitness coach at my high school is close in age with her students and is an attrative woman. Theres one student in her class,a senior male, and they are always together, the teacher and the student. If we need partners in the class they are always together as ... (203 words)

What do you guys think of the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy online and we've been out on three dates. But he hasn't really tried to kiss me so I'm finding it hard to decide if he's even all that into me. We've held hands the during the last two dates but that has been the extent of the touching. Usually we just say bye and ... (158 words)

Should I wait for him to miss me? How do I get him to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

6 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday over something stupid. When we fight, I usually keep quiet but yesterday i was so full of anger so I fought back. I know I got so angry because he never keeps his promises and he always lied to me. I love so much despite all the lies he ... (243 words)

Could any of this mean he's gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

6 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was on an elevator with 2 other guys.1 of the guys was close up to the doors and when he got off, the guy left with me reached in his pocket and started rumaging around 'down there' with rapid up and down hand movement.. I tried not to notice but out of the corner of my ey... (194 words)

My girlfriend wont tell anyone about us

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6 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - am i overeating that my girlfriend off a few months wont tell any off her family or friends about me also wont change her relationship status.... as in her words thats only for nosey people... i asked her about it tonight again and i was just fogged off saying i will get around ... (86 words)