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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to a uni for freshers week with my mates got a hotel and that and texted her on the way just to chat cos the trip was boring, and she kept putting boring convo killers like "awwwwww" and "haha" that sorta crap so i left her alone (the right thing to do) she then 2 hours later to my joy texted me asking if i was in middlesbrough yet so we got talking on and off all night (i was getting drunker and drunker) and so with me getting more pissed i started to flirt more and stuff and i think i said to her somthing like "if you wernt fit i wouldnt be texting you! you are hot. i deffo would ;) xxxxxxx " (obviously not written as well as that haha) and wich to my amazment and joy she replyed "haha thanks :') take my v? ;) hehe xxxxxx " so i was like ok ye i will if u like and ill take u out on a date n stuff. stopped texting cos i fell asleep, i left it two days until i re texted her and said what u up to wanna come out? (we ended up not going out cos she had plans) and i cleverly got back on the topic of her loosing her v to me and she said she was slightly drunk but didnt know how she felt asin i was asking does it feal right? would u actualy loose it to me? and if ur not ready then dont bother all that stuff but the replys i was getting wer crap like i dont know like she wasent interested in texting or she wa busy or summat, so i left it and said text me sometime.now what do i do? shall i just forget about her loosing her v? cos i think and hope im meeting her sometime this week cos she asked if i had plans, so shall i forget about her v or shall i ask her in person how she feals? cos i do realy fancy her and think shes beautiful and i would take her out with a view for a relationship... just a bit confused as to why she told me she would loose her v to me, i meen whats to say she hasent told loads of lads that? and she said she was a bit drunk...
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 I have to agree with the other aunts you come of as a total douchy guy.
You don't give a flying duck about the girl. She is 16 and most likely immature as all get out of town.
She will REGRET having sex with you.
And really do you think you are MORE of a man and less of a child if you take a girls virginity? Does it make you feel all MANLY ? Gives you something to brag about to your friends?
Grow the heck up and leave this CHILD alone. Yea, she is old enough to HAVE sex physically, but not mentally.
*shakes head*
I'm a mother of 3 girls and I can tell you this, I hope to GOODNESS none of them gets contacted by a creeper like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): Find someone your age. You're a college student. You can manage to hook up with another girl...right?
And as another person said, you don't fancy her. You want to fuck her with no strings attached and then take off. The fact that your entire post revolves around her "V" says enough.
Even though you said, "you could take her out with a view for a relationship," I'm not buying it and neither should you.
Don't get me wrong. I don't care if you hook up with girls for the fun of it, but not with a 16 year-old virgin who can't make up her mind and allows herself to be vulnerable around adults who have one thing on their minds: SEX.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 September 2012):
 She wants you to take her VODKA???? Why? Do you need a drink of alcohol?????
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 September 2012):
 You don't fancy her. You fancy your own penis.
You have no relationship with this woman, are bored with any texting except sexual texting, and she was drunk and talking about you taking her virginity. Now, all you're caring about is taking the virginity of a woman you barely know.
You're the type of guy who, after you take a drunk woman's virginity, would take off down the road.
Have a relationship first. Don't have sex with her for 6 months while seeing her regularly. You should give her your heart before virginity is even considered, but you want to move way too fast, and frankly, she's a piece of ass to you.
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