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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Handling school and jobs -- we're growing distant, how do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! My boyfriend used to be a lot closer to me and always wanted to talk to me and be with me. He got a job and he has to balance school and now our relationship seems soo distant. I do understand now he has less free time and he must be so tired but the time he does ... (171 words)

How do you stay positive when you're single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you stay positive when you're single? I see all of my friends and some of my exes, happy anHow do I get my husband to stop being so insecure ?d in relationships... Don't get me wrong, I'm truly VERY happy for them and wouldn't wish anything less for them. I just wonder ... (251 words)

Serious Trouble with Two Guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in high school and have been dating my current boyfriend for roughly 10 months now and live about 30 minutes away, but during the summer we saw each other everyday. I believe that I truly love him and can see us getting married in the future. He is my first serious ... (352 words)

Dating a man going through a divorce, is he ready for a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship with a man who is going through a divorce. he had been married for 14 years and his wife ended it. he reassures me that he is ready to start something new, that his marriage has been "dead" for years, and that he wants to be with me. however, i can't ... (102 words)

I do my share but I'm the one who gets yelled at

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so in the last couple of months I've been on depression tablets for anxiety an depression. I've struggled with it for years but recently it had got worse. The problem is my mom has started yelling at me and ignoring me when I get in from work, she complains that I do nothi... (318 words)

I fancy famous females as well as guys, am I bi or just straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I basically have an issue with my sexuality, I do not know anymore whether I am bisexual or straight. Before around the time of May/June this year, I've always been certain I was heterosexual. I'd never been attracted to a female in the slightest, yet I've never been t... (668 words)

How can I be falling for someone 40 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there something wrong with me? I am 21 and I believe I am falling for someone 40 years older than me! How is that possible? ... (26 words)

My much older husband is so insecure now. How do I stop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm married to a man almost 24 years older than me well 23 and a half years to be exact . We married last summer and since then he is gotton very insecure and I don't know why . I'm 21 and he is 44 we were together about 2 years before that , before we got married everything ... (455 words)

I thought we hit it off but I haven't heard from her in a month

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - When u meet a woman and hit it off for 2 weeks in San Diego, then you go back home To Colorado for a month and a half and she decides to come visit you in Colorado for a week, you have a great time traveling around and then she goes back to San Diego for another month and a ... (143 words)

I found out my boss had been looking at porn on my computer

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I have a problem and I am hoping to get some perspective. Today at work I opened my browsing history and was shocked to the core when I saw that my boss, (who was alone in the office on Saturday) had been looking at porn on my computer. The words he googled ... (222 words)

How can I let go of this hate toward's my boyfriend's sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a pretty rough relationship with my bf's sister for the past two years since I started dating her brother. She even punched me in the face once for no reason, right in front of my boyfriend and he didn't even do anything. She recorded me and my bf doing some 'stuff' ... (257 words)

Married lover and I want to end our affair but keep going back for more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having an affair for a year now. Married for 9 and a half years with 2 children. My husband is great and I honestly am not sure what lead to my affair? I have been in this affair with our neighbor who we see all the time so it's extremely hard to stop. His wife and I ... (172 words)

In a round about way b/f called me a whore. Am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I basically want to check whether I'm over-reacting or not but this is what happened. I live with my boyfriend and sometimes, when I call him up from outside when he's at home, asking him what he's been doing, he often says he has some girl over and they're having sex. It's a ... (139 words)

Former supervisor bullied me and now is trying to stop me from making a grievance against her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I started working at this new place in November last year as my husband lost his job so I had to leave my current part time job to do a full time job. I got on well with everyone apart from my supervisor who from day 1 never liked me or treated me with any respect (... (596 words)

Is there such a thing as true love? Does it exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. So i got a real quick question to ask. Does true love really exist? or is it just what people create when they are in public in order to hide their problems? I mean ive never experienced true love myself neither do my parents. They are always on a debate infront of us(me ... (77 words)

Is it weird that I call my partner "daddy" during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I just wanted to know your thoughts on calling your significant other Daddy during sex. Not dad, or father, I mean it on the sexual way. It started with him pestering me to do something, and I ultimately rolled my eyes and sardonically said "fine DAD I'll d... (248 words)

Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean anything and this is a normal ... (153 words)

I feel rejected when wife turns me down for sex because I know she didn't say no to the other man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'll start this off by saying this is most likely not normal. My wife and I seperated for a couple months a few years ago. During that time she got with another man. As we were both certain we wouldn't reconcile at this time, I can't hold the fling against her as m... (319 words)

I'm stuck in the middle of two amazing guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I can't decide between these two guys and I feel just horrible. The first guy "Dan" is a laid back, more life adventurous, and spontaneous guy. We went out for almost a year and things got rocky because of our age difference and travel distance after I moved in ... (309 words)

What do I do if my married lover's husband calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear cupid teams and ladies and gentelemen! Well z story might be silly and extremely heavy 4 one subject. We me 27 and a lady 31 have a secret love contact between us started a month ago.we have been get in touch by text and cell phone but yesterday her husband saw my ... (145 words)

How can I clear my head of negative thoughts before I go on this date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. After finally battling off depression for 2 years I have met a female that I fancy for about a month now and she accepted a date. I am quite nervous to be honest. I feel that I don't know what to do and I'm finding myself constantly thinking about it. I think I feel like ... (159 words)

My boyfriend and his child are a pair of spoilt brats!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so i have been with my bf for two years now, he has a 4 yr old of his own and i have a 6 and 8 yr old. My bf takes his son every weekend and whenever his son is here i dread it, i know i sound horrible but i treat all children the same so if my kids are not allowed to do ... (884 words)

My girlfriend warms my heart and she's possibly the coolest girl ever, but there's this lingering "what if" about the other girl who I've had a crush on

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. She is pretty amazing. We had a bit of a rocky start, but things have smoothed out and we have a lot of fun together now. My problem is that there is a girl I've known for many years, an old friend at this point, whom I've always... (308 words)

If he doesn't love me the way I am then why he can't make me the person he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for some time. He does not support me emotionally, physically and especially financially although he loves me. He gets whatever he wants from me, like sex, support, and whenever he wants me he gets me. He is financially stable and he knows ... (133 words)

Can a relationship work when both families are so different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a relationship work when you're families are so different? Me and my boyfriend are in love and have been seeing each other for a while now, but his family don't accept me since I'm not the same religion as him, and if my family knew he wasnt Christian they would probably ... (124 words)

I want to be less overbearing, less insecure, and more easy going with my girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Kudos to those who actually read the whole thing. Any advice would be great, be as harsh as needed. I really would like to make an effort to change, and stop being an overbearing, insecure boyfriend... I feel like I may be overbearing and insecure. I frequently get u... (456 words)

After one month of college I still don't have a boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am a 22 year girl...doing post graduation.In my past life I get 3 relationships, but all broke. now in my new college I wanted to start new.....I want someone in my college to be my boyfreind. but here no body takes intrest in me, though I am avarage looking, sweet, ... (174 words)

How can I convince my parents that not getting another dog is the right choice for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My rat terrier is 15 years old and I got him when I was 12 years old. It was great having a dog growing up but after he dies, I do not want another dog. My problem is my parents are making a big deal about me not getting another dog after he dies. They keep on trying to get... (307 words)

Why hasn't real love come my way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am looking for a committed relationship but I don't know how.. I am tired of the games,lies, cheating the whole nine yards. i mean I am getting older time is running thin, not that I'm older than dust, but I am 40 now and I think it's time to get in the dating scene again. ... (142 words)

Am I wasting my time hoping he will change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man almost five years ago. At the time I was 20 and in between relationships. We went on a couple dates and agreed to keep it "low key and simple". Then I met someone that I wanted a relationship with and cut it off with him. That relationship did not work so after... (332 words)

Should we let our friend make the same mistake or bring our concerns to her attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) age 36-40 - My sister in law and best friend was previously married to her high school sweetheart, but she had given him an ultimatum before he proposed and he asked for a divorce eighteen months later. No one liked him, friends or family, the unanimous agreement was that he wasn't good ... (431 words)

I have a crush on my boss' wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - i am a male, gemini, married but not happy after 5 years and i am in love with my boss wife who have problems with him ever so often and i think she has a crush on me and now he kind of suspects us any help ... (47 words)

Should I have another child or pursue a career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just turned 36 and my husband is 50 and we have a 6 year’s old beautiful smart son together. Our marriage is not 100% perfect but it is ok. We have some financial issues at this moment but down the road we are in a good shape. My husband has a good investment for his ... (367 words)

Should I go and see him or write him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy one night that I really liked and we arranged to meet up again. The date went well until he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship and he came on a little strong so I rejected him as I didn't feel ready to take such a step. I said that we were obviously ... (585 words)

These two girls are using me for my popularity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused right now. I don't know if they're friends or not. After I joined like, a zillion clubs,these two girls come and I genuinely liked them, and we start being all buddy buddy. They liked the same stuff that I do and I was impressed since no one else cared about it. ... (244 words)

We're both attracted to one another but I'm concerned I may be rushing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

24 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a lovely girl I am interested in, and she in me (she has said so before). Problem is that her last boyfriend cheated on her. Things haven't been going well between us lately, and I realise that I might be pushing her, when she isn't ready for a relationship w... (122 words)