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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he very shy or just not interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, all. Ok so....I basically, well, I'm a dork aha. Really I am, because apparantly I'm the type of girl that writes letters to the boy she likes. I even did the little check box thing....yes. But here's the thing, I had already told the boy before that I had a crush on h... (525 words)

What should I get my mum for her birthday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - hey aunties, this isn't a relationship question but maybe some of you may help. my mum's birthday is coming up and I would like to give her something nice, but not so expensive. I got a job this year and it'll be the first time I'll be able to get her something I bought m... (208 words)

My boyfriend is hot and cold with me lately

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is hot and cold for me. One day he'll be affectionate, and the next day, he may not say a word to me. We've been together for about a year, and I'm at a loss for what I should do. Anytime I try asking him if something's wrong, he ends up getting mad, and ignores ... (85 words)

How should I approach my ex husband's new girlfriend about keeping in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i got married when i was 19 years old to a wonderful guy i was in love with since the age of 15.My husband is 7 years older than me. He is the most loving, caring person i have ever met who spoiled me like a princess. i'm separating now because over time we did things that ... (634 words)

How can I tell if I've had a miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so today i got my period well i think i was about 2 months late and didnt know if i was pregnant or not i took a at home pregnancy test and it came out negative but i still thought i was pregnant. so what if im having a miss carriage would i know? would i get really sick? ... (61 words)

My boyfriend's ex still has keys to his flat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so stressed out, I really need to share this, I've been with this guy for 3 months, very much like him, but his ex is always coming round. She has like keys to the flat, comes and stays for weekends if she's in town. Plus not only that but she is an artist and there are ... (501 words)

Is my boyfriend using my negativity as a stalling tactic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are in our mid forties and we have each been married (and divorced) once. He for over 10 years...me for over 5 years. We have been dating for a year and a half. We talk about marriage. We talk about where we will live. We talk about cars big enough f... (931 words)

We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

19 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Facebook friend and changing her phon... (243 words)

What are my options if my Bf wants to meet up with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this. If someone could give me an advice, I would really appreciate it. Ok, after a year of gathering up my pieces from my previous break-up, I found myself again and started becoming serious involved with this guy of mine f... (460 words)

If I behave like them I might be accepted. I don't want to behave like that. What to do to be accepted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4473 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all, I don't have many friends at college. I think I am not well-appreciated also and I couldn't tell why. So many times, I just condemn myself when someone is not nice to me and I feel maybe it's my fault. Like for example, my classmates would just ignore me when... (598 words)

His behaviour and attitudes are unsettling. Should I leave him while I can?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Before we married, my husband was really into me (always holding my hand, kissing - being intimate in every way but no actual sex). I thought our honeymoon would be non-stop, but over the course of 10 days we had sex maybe five times. I was very upset by this and became a li... (150 words)

What if he goes back to her? He is delaying signing the divorce papers served on him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, I have never been happier..he keeps me happy..but now out of nowhere his wife comes in the picture he never told me about him being married..I was upset,I cried I broke things off and it was soo hard for me dealing ... (164 words)

Can you break your hymen during masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 19year old virgin girl who has become quite addicted to porn and mustarbation..thing is i want o wait till marriage so if anyone can answer me truthfully if its possible to push back or break the hymen after mustarbating by opening my legs high high up in the air and ... (73 words)

I just found out my friend likes my girlfriend! Can I lose her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, There was an uneasy moment at the university I want to discuss with someone badly. There is a guy, we used to be friends with, 4 years ago when I entered the university, the kind of friends you meet first when you enter a large place like state univers... (386 words)

Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a matter of weeks later and he ev... (286 words)

What colour scheme for a room of a 20 year old would look nice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this isn't a relationship question, just more so of a question. I'm decorating my room and I wondered what colour scheme is nicest to have, it's a plain room with cream walls. I don't know whether red, dark gold and some black or green would look good. Or whether, dark pink, ... (83 words)

I think my friend might have an eating disorder and she won't listen to anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has just come back to university, but it's strange because she doesn't eat as much as she used to. We went for lunch the other day and she chucked more than half in the bin, then we bought food out at the end of our night out and she binned it again. I rarely see her ... (431 words)

Am I being used as a sugar mama in this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 and my hubby is 30. We have been married for two years. I told him my age just when we met, and he hid his till about a year and half into the relationship. I never bothered much cos I thought he could be just a few months to a year older, which was fine. I was shoc... (831 words)

Is this implantation cramp or normal cramps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - A few days ago i fingered my girlfriend that might have traces of dry precum on my finger,4 days later she is feeling these cramps,she said that it feels like her period is coming earlier than usual. Our clothes and everything were on so there is definitely no direct contact. ... (93 words)

How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Lots of people say once the love has gone it can never come back. Yet so many people get back together and even remarry each other after a divorce. So people obviously can fall back in love. My question though, is how? I'm desperate for my husband to fall back in love with me ... (178 words)

Is it normal to feel like this? I keep thinking about having sex with other people, even though I'd never cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have been with my bf for 5 years now and I'm 27. I do love him very much i think hes attractive and we get on really well and he treats me good what more could i want! But i feel like theres something missing, i don't feel that urge to have sex with him anymore and the ... (209 words)

Situation with my dad and his neighbour is getting out of hand, what can we do to help the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am writing this on behalf of my Dad, as none of us are too sure what to do any more. About a year ago, a man in his mid twenties moved in next door to my Mum and Dad. Due to his age, my Dad instantly started worrying that this man was going to be having lots of parties ... (615 words)

I need my ex to be part of my life, how do I get him to be my friend despite me dating someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get my ex to at least try to be friends with me?? Despite of me dating someone else. He was an important person and in a way still is... i mean i feel like someday we will have another chance. But when we are more mature because we were struggling in the past. ... (190 words)

Relationship or career? Do I stay in this relationship where we both love each other ? Or try to convince my Boyfriend to move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I am a 22 year old gay man and in a dilemma of love vs career. About 14 months ago I graduated from university with a degree. I decided then to move back home temporarily with my parents from my student life in another city, whilst I found a job related to my ... (564 words)

My boyfriend's sister and husband are talking about me behind my back, how do I confront them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend just bought a house a little over a month ago. His sister and her husband asked if they could stay with us for a while. In there camper. Well ever sense they got here I feel very uncomfortable. I felt that they have been talking about me behind my back from ... (142 words)

My Boyfriend has forbidden me to talk to my best friend. How should I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year now. things are great between us but he found out 4 months ago that i used to have feelings for my best friend and my best friend has feelings for me this made him very upset and he forbidded me to speak to him. it has been 2 months n... (199 words)

How can I fix this? My husband speaks badly about me and flirts with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband talks bad about me with other people about me. At first, he would let his friends make disrespectful comments about me. Then it went to him telling his relatives bad stuff about me whenever we differed, and some of his relatives would also make disrespectful comm... (252 words)

How do I climb out of this pit of despair? People claim I'm worthless. My Bf called me a whore. Others call me names. I feel lost and need help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and I feel all alone. my friends have abandoned me. i have to sell my horses which are my life. i'm told all the time i'm not worth anything. people call me a slut and i'm faithful. i'v lost everyone in my life who ever made me feel wanted and happy. my boyfriend ev... (98 words)

Why has my friend of 10 years cut me off? I'm so confused. I've dug deep to try to figure out why she's mad at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been good friends with another woman for almost ten years. We met right after we graduated from college and moved to the city. Throughout the years we shared a lot of laughter and tears. Two years ago she and her husband had a baby. I was still desperately sing... (445 words)

What if she doesn't call? Should I still attempt to talk to her if she does not call, or leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, sorry this is so long. I met this girl. We started talking recently, since we started talking she offered to buy me lunch once and gave me her e-mail address. She is extremely nice to me and she always smiles at me. Recently she mentioned she is having some trouble. I ... (123 words)

Are we allowing this to move forward too quickly? My 42 year old school teacher from the past and I have just started dating. Is this a good idea or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody my name is katie and i am 24 years old. And i am currently dating my former high school science teacher. You see 3 weeks ago i bumped into him waiting in line for coffee at starbucks. And we exchanged number as a way to catch up. And what was supposed to be a min... (143 words)

I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he still owes me money from it which I'm ge... (240 words)

What can I say to my friend? I was not sure what to say about a 13 year old teen wanting to read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' Could a 13 year old handle reading it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I've asked a question here before and I got very good advice, which I used very well, thank you. I have another question and it concerns my friend. I don't really sit with her in lunch very much, and I only have one class with her which is civics. But anyhow she's very smar... (310 words)

Pregnant and in love with someone else ..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated a guy for almost 2 and a half years , he was my high school sweet heart. I literally love everything about him. We've been through so much an supported one another through many many problems. Unfortunately a few months ago we broke up. One of his former friends had told ... (483 words)

He's a good friend, but he wants more. Am I leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been texting my male friend very often these days. He is my classmate, class project group mate, and two years younger than me. From our chats I learned that he has never had a girlfriend and from our friendship I know he is very genuine and somewhat innocent. He is ... (235 words)

Is this just some fun for him, or could there be more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started a online chat relationship with a guy I met in a chat room. Things progressed and became more sexual in nature i.e. cybersex but the without the benefits of a cam, we would call each other or send IM messages. The thing is I dont know if that's the only... (177 words)

Isn't it a bit extreme for my boyfriend to just cut certain people out of his life?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This really weird interaction happened when I was out with my boyfriend. We were walking along holding hands. We saw a friend of his in the street, my boyfriend called out to him to say hi. Then they were chatting briefly and then his friend looked at me and said, 'I don't ... (246 words)