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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think he likes me but why wont he talk to me about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been talking to this guy online and he has shown interest in me for several years but he never came up to ke and spoke about it. We've met (never spoke to each other) at parties etc. He'd always stare at me and ask about me in my absence. Now, that we are conversing, ... (123 words)

Why does my married ex give me his schedule and tells me to call him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age - My ex who now is married, talks to me often. My question is why does he not call me but says it's alright to call him??? He gives me his schedule so i know when to call. Why doesn't he just call me?? i have a bf and it's just nice to talk to an old friend!!... (57 words)

Why is it that only penetrative sex does it for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So this is a sex question, I was wondering if anyone could help me understand why I can't orgasm from anything other than vaginal sex and very rarely clitoral stimulation with fingers. Basically I've been with my partner for 3 years and we've both discovered everything toget... (209 words)

I think I've fallen in love with my teacher!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had feelings for my teacher for over three years and they've only gotten stronger. I think I'm in love with him and I know I can't do anything about it (I'm clever enough to figure that out). But it's become harder and harder to keep it in, like, whenever he says my name I ... (202 words)

Why do I still love her this much to this day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, I feel really stupid for asking this one. My ex girlfriend and I broke up three years ago and haven't spoke for a year or so. She went to be with a man that she started seeing as we fell apart. I mean, we were F buddies when they hit it off. I messaged her on ... (417 words)

If he has time to spend with his friends, why didn't he have time to call me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Currently im in LDR with my bf, since he travelled to a different place for work. He will be returning back in 2 months. We are in LDR for 3 months, been seeing each other for 2 years. 3 days back my bf told me not to call him for 3 days, since he is busy with his ... (193 words)

How do I know if he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 17 and I have been talking to an 18 year old guy. I got talking to him through a friend who originally was trying to set us up, but at the time I didn't want a relationship. As we've been texting I've started to like him, but I dont think he likes me. I also cant get my ... (87 words)

What can I do to make my teacher like me again and prove her wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - ok so im in year 9 and i didn't do my homework for the second time. My teacher got really really angry with my and said, "are you trying to make my life impossible!!!!!" i felt really bad. at the end of the lesson, she kept me behind and started kinda shouting at me for not ... (328 words)

How do I communicate to him the fact that I don't feel as important to him anymore in a nice way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i tell my boyfriend in a nice way or needy that i dont feel as important to him anymore... im trying to act like its okay that we hardly even communicate anymore but im hurting because i want a little more attention from him.. i just want to be put before everyone else ... (104 words)

Am I overreacting to this text from his ex the night before her wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married in a month to the love of my life. He broke up with this girl 7 years ago and one of the reasons they broke up after a 5-year-realtionship was that she wanted to get married while he didn't. Today my fiancé got home and told me that this girl (who lives in ... (189 words)

Have you ever split from ex, one or both of you moved on, but later got back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for anyone whos been through this........ Have you ever split from an ex where one of you has got into another relationship , engaged even, and then ended it because you and your ex were meant to be together? and then got back together? My ex is is now with some... (86 words)

Why do guys like this only want us for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a guy, but I'm not entirely sure what his motives are. He definately likes me back in some way or form - he watches me quite a lot, comes over to me a lot, has kissed me on the cheek a few times... But my friend says he just wants me for sex. The thing is, this girl fr... (308 words)

GF doesn't want friends to know about relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so i've dated my gf for almost 2 years now. Only people that know we're in a relationship is her family but not her friends. I asked her why she doesn't want other people to know about our relationship and she said that if we break up she doesn't want other people to know ... (113 words)

Is it wrong of me to get involved with the son of my lover who passed away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my fiance of 3and 1/2 years took his own life in january of this year. thru hate emails, i came to find out that there were like 12 of us that he had proposed to. but that didn't stop me from loving him and mourning for him. he has 3 children, all to different women. the oldest ... (221 words)

Why can't I enjoy oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an embarrassing question but I'd like to know why I cannot orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, either by myself or from oral sex. I can sometimes orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or during masturbation when I clench my pelvic floor muscles and thigh muscles. But ... (56 words)

Why did my married lover cut things off and say I wasn't part of his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am a married woman having an affair with a married man, we both decided not to upset our respective personal lives because of our affair. From the begining controlled everything in our relationship ( laid down the rules like no phone,text,contact after office hrs, embarked the ... (184 words)

He acts one way around me with friends but his texts show a completely different side to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if a guy in my class likes me or not. It's my third year in college but my second year with this class and all last year he was quite a nob head to be around and just mean to people but he was okay with me and a couple of my friends. Towards the end of the year and ... (171 words)

I've been caught stealing and my employers know about it, they have given me 2 options, so what do I do now?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been working for my company as a new business rep for 4 and a half years and always been good. I normally get my lunch from a supermarket down the road from my office but about a month ago, i had some fraud done on my bank and while it got sorted out, i had about a we... (509 words)

How do I approach our married female friend so I can explore my bi-sexual curiosities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my BF for over a year now. We are both in our early 20's. We are very open and he know I am bi curious, and he is even willing to let me "explore" those curiosities, if an opportunity happen to present itself. Well, we are friends with a married couple that is ... (162 words)

Scared to talk about sex with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just met the man i love and he's working away and comes back on weekend. I'm ready to have sex with him and i'm sure he wants it but we're both scared to start the topic. I so wish i could have sex with him. I don't know where to start. Should i tell him how i feel?... (59 words)

I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol thinking it would reduce the ... (173 words)

Why is it so difficult for me to get a girlfriend? Why am I always the guy who girls don't look at in a romantic way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I give up. What does it take to be dateable? I just don’t get it. I’m told that I have a great, easygoing personality. I’m pretty average I’d say. 5’9, 150 pounds, thin to medium build. I’ve even been told by both my male and female friends alike that I’m a good looking ... (260 words)

Why is this guy doing this to me and how do I stop him and his friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - At first I thought this guy was cool and we could be friends. However I found out he as talking saying not so nice things about me like how I'm so into him and made me sound like a weird creep. He also seemed to start rumors that I like him. I do not but now his friends and ... (154 words)

I'm very insecure about my size

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I feel very insecure now that I bought a girdle for football. I am a 19 year old male that is teenager cup size that is small. I feel very insecure about that. Am I under developed? My size is 4 inch erect and 2.5 soft. ... (48 words)

I don't know if my boyfriend is the one for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never written in any love advice sites before, but have been enjoying reading this site, so I decided to give it a try. Thanks for reading. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. From the beginning, I thought he was not the right person. First of all, he... (463 words)

Can I expect some kind of commitment from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have dated this guy for 2 months. It was a mess at first. Basically he dated me and my friend at the same time. I didn't know about this until my friend told me after a week. I talked to him and he said because we were not BF and GF yet so he could see other girls. He ... (272 words)

Is his recent interest in seeing me with another woman a sign he's losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together over a year and have a great sex life. He used to be very against porn and the idea of girl on girl or threesomes. Now he looks at porn every day (even after we just had sex) and brings up wanting to see me with another girl everytime we have ... (113 words)

Can my long distance relationship with a much older man really work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and love each other very much. We have so much fun together, whether it's going out or just enjoying one another's company. The only thing is that we are in different parts of our lives. He is 34 ... (292 words)

My threesomes have come back to haunt me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About four months ago, we moved in... (825 words)

What does this master manipulator want now?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age - My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses why he didnot have any money. ... (194 words)

What exactly does 'take a break' mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does "do you want to take a break" mean?? My boyfriend and I are having some ups and downs at the moment, and he asked me this. I don't even know what that entails. ... (36 words)

How do we solve our trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I need abit of help and advice on what are the best methods to do in 'fixing trust'. Basically our trust issues comes down to facebook, and i messed up chatting up a girl (ALTHO please understand, i did this purely for boredem and would never EVER cross the line and ask for ... (316 words)

Do you believe in 'if you love them let them go'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a random poll question: You know how in movies or TV there's always the theme of "if you love him/her, you'll let them go and be happy"... do you agree with that? Given that the relationship in question is pretty good but not perfect, would you let the love ... (75 words)

Did we have sex too early in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and we began having sex about 5 months into our relationship. The problem is it seems like the sex isn't interesting to either one of us anymore. I mean she says she enjoys it, and maybe she does. Maybe I'm the one with... (109 words)