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writes:Maybe this is an odd question to ask, but I went on a date with this girl last night and i've only ever seen this girl on nights out when she is in her heels, fitted dresses and i suppose she wears more make up. We were only going for a drink, so i didn't really think about what she'd wear, more just happy to be going out with her.Anyways, she turned up in dark skinny jeans, a grey top and flat ankle boots (yes i did memorise it). It was a very simple outfit that she made look soooo good! I'm always used to seeing her dressed up and in towering heels, but seeing her in casual wear she looked just as attractive, in fact somehow i thought she looked more beautiful and fresh?I'm just a bit surprised because girls i've been on dates with before always look like they've really thought out their outfits, not saying she didn't because she might have. But what I mean is not many girls i've been on a date with have made a simple t-shirt and jeans look so attractive as she did. It does send me crazy seeing her when she's all done up, but the fact she looks that good even when casual i thought had to be a bonus, maybe it's because she has a great figure and is really beautiful it helped anyways. I'm not putting her down saying she didn't make the effort because she didn't turn up in heels, or something sort of done up like most girls have.. because i can tell she made the effort and in fact, i found her a lot more appealing and hotter this way! Has any guy ever experienced this, or am i just some weird guy for thinking this, does a girl look hot to you more when she's in her casual clothes or something that doesn't look to thought out? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (16 November 2012):
 I always think a T and jeans is about the sexiest outfit a woman can wear (though I'm a straight woman). That and sundresses are pretty much all I wear outside of work.
Though I guarantee you, if she likes you, she probably put a TON of effort into that outfit. I think most guys are like you, prefer a woman who looks comfortable in her own skin and laid back. A lot of the time when women put their into crazy hairstyles on cake on the makeup it's because it's fun for doing with other women, not for trying to look appealing to men. Most of the women I know know to go for a more natural and comfortable look around guys they are interested in.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Sometimes, women get so enamored of their exterior appearance that they fail to understand just what it is that we guys "see" when we look at them....
Obviously, as you describe, you saw this lady-friend dressed casually, and - as most of us do - you were able to imagine her clothes in a heap, on the floor, at the side of your's or her bed.... and you found it to be a turn-on....
This may/will happen in the future.... and the best G/Fs will be those who understand just what you are "seeing" and are willing to show you just how they look when you play out this fantasy....
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Hi there! I'm not a guy but i would like to answer your question. Some girls really don't have to try hard to LOOK GOOD. not because their good looking already but because they know how to carry their selves. Nothing more attractive in a woman when she knows how to be comfortable and confident just the way she is.
I do think that the girl your dating have an eye for fashion but at the same time she got confidence so, whatever she wear it goes well for her and LOOKs SO FAB.I write for fashion online advise too...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Hi there! I'm not a guy but i would like to answer your question. Some girls really don't have to try hard to LOOK GOOD. not because their good looking already but because they know how to carry their selves. Nothing more attractive in a woman when she knows how to be comfortable and confident just the way she is. I do think that the girl your dating have an eye for fashion but at the same time she got confidence so, whatever she wear it goes well for her and LOOKs SO FAB.I write for fashion online advise too...
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