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*usiesalmon
writes:Help I am 18 and having a rough time. I feel ugly and I dont think any guy will ever want me or choose me over anyone else. My mum says I am beautiful but I think she would say that. I am at the stage where I dont like anything about myself. I am very quiet and dont feel comfortable with groups of people except my friends on a one to one basis. In any case all my friends have boyfriends and I feel there must be something wrong with me. I am at college but I just feel different to everyone else. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Zaaleena  +, writes (15 November 2012):
My eyes teared up reading this because at 17 I felt exactly the same. As difficult it is to make yourself feel happy when you feel sad, try balancing every negative thought you have about yourself with a positive one - even if its something tiny. After a while it will help to change how you see yourself.
The right person is out there and as much as you don't think it is - just trust it will happen at the right time when you are ready. Just focus on being happy yourself.
*Hugs* x
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 November 2012):
 You need to feel beautiful inside before you can feel it on the outside... that is how true beauty shines.
Dont compare yourself to other women and make the best of the features/ DNA you got, i am sure you are not ugly!
By focusing on the good things about you (in your personality) it will radiate out to the world as outer beauty!
Dont stress, and prehaps read some self help books that deal with boosting up self confidence, self esteem and worthiness, thats really the toolkit to beauty!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): I assure you there's nothing wrong with you. I felt the same way. It's the signal you send off.
Put yourself out there. Everything will work out. Best of luck
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reader, DV1 +, writes (15 November 2012):
 You can't have a boyfriend until you're happy with yourself. You can't use someone else as a crutch to fill in the gaps of what you feel that you're missing... The best thing that you can do is travel, spend time with loved ones, figure out where you want to be in life, and stop worrying so much about small things... Who cares what your friends and other people are doing? You're the captain of your own ship, and you shouldn't care what the deckhands are saying... Life is short, party naked...
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