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female
age
30-35,
*oopylucy
writes:i met this guy last october, and we have never really talked much or anything, i actually met him after seeing my boyfriend at the time cheat on me so we didn't met under the best circumstancesanyway last christmas, i went into town and he was there, we ended up going back to his mates apartment and slept together, since then, its ended up being a regular occurrence whenever we are out in the same placethe last couple of time he's made it clear to me we have to keep it casual as we both leave for uni next year, which is perfectly fine, i like how things are and the last thing i need is a serious relationship as i need to work for uni right nowhowever we were both at a party at a mates house last weekend, and we ended up getting with each other, but this time we didn't sleep together as i felt weird as the house we were in was my ex's. so nothing happened, but when i said 'i don't want anything to happen tonight', he replied 'its probably for the best anyway'. i replied with 'why' and he said 'well we are both leaving in a few months', i then replied 'so' and he didn't answer.we never talk other than when we go out, which again i'm fine with since i don't have the time to be talking to him all the time, but he's said things like 'probably shouldn't anyway' (sleep with each other again) a couple of times and i just don't understand iti would have thought that this situation would be exactly what he wants, sex with no strings attached, and yet the past few times he has said 'we shouldn't' (or something along those lines) and then he's been the one to still make it happeni just find it a bit strange to be honest. i have a feeling he might like me and is maybe not wanting to go further as he's leaving, so trying to help himself, i'm usually quite oblivious to when guys like me so i'm probably wrong i was just wondering if anyone has any advice about it?i also remember that last weekend we were cuddling and i rested my head on him and his heart was beating so fast, but that could be just because he thought he was gonna get lucky, haha!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): Sounds like you are reading too much into his actions because YOU like HIM.
It is a bad situation, and if you do not want to be hurt I suggest leaving.
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