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writes: I met someone from online about 2 weeks ago. We spoke for 2 weeks prior to meeting as well. We met and the date went pretty well and we seem to like each other. He doesn't live very close and I am going to go visit him this weekend and it will be our second time seeing each other. I know he is a decent guy so I am not worried.On the first date I wore a black skirt, black top that showed a little cleavage and a cardigan along with boots. It's my most slimming outfit at the moment. I am still trying to lose a few pounds before I can even wear jeans comfortably. Since it's been about 2 weeks I am sure he has forgotten my outfit. Would it be ok to wear this again to his place for the second meeting? I feel the most confident in it. It's not a mini skirt or anything. It just fits me best right now.A friend said it's weird to wear a skirt there and most people would just wear jeans etc. While I agree, I am not sure if it's a good idea to wear a pair of jeans that aren't flattering me right now and I don't want to get an even bigger size.Is it ok to wear this again? I have been lose weight but not enough for this weekend.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Ouch I get that you want to look your best and feel you best... is there any chance you can buy ONE thing different to add to it? maybe a different top under the cardigan...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Normally I'd say guys aren't paying attention, but if he's interested he probably does remember your first date. I'm sure you have other very flattering outfits, invite over a friend to help you pick something else out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Here's a hint about guys and clothing:
IF you wear something that makes you look hot (as you've described)... ALL the guy "saw" was that outfit, in a clump, on the floor, next to his bed.....
You may be pretty certain that, if you wear it again, he'll "see" exactly the same thing this time, as well....
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 I'm not to crazy about you wearing the same thing twice in 2 weeks, only because the relationship is new. I know guys don't notice much, but I'm worried, maybe he thinks your really poor, or maybe he thinks you wear this outfit and aren't that good about cleanliness. (sorry)
I'm not to keen, except it's BLACK!!!! YIPPIE, yep, wear it, wear all the time, wear it, because black can be a look, a lifestyle, an outlook, your like a fashion designer, black is who you are. Black is slimming, think you friend might be right though about everyone else wearing jeans, but it don't matter, black can get away with anything, it can be overdressed or underdressed and makes a certain statement.
You could think about replacing the skirt with something else back, maybe some leggings to go with your long cardigan. But as I said it doesn't matter if everything your wearing is black. You do however need to go shopping and pick up a few things if your going to keep seeing this guy. Three times in a row, I'm not sure if even black could cope with that without something changing.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (1 March 2012):
 I think it will be absolutely fine and he won't notice. You could always dress it up with a pretty scarf or different shoes or wear your hair a different way. Really most men wouldn't notice, he will just be happy to see you.
One thing you must wear when you see him again...a great big smile :-)
Good Luck and have a lovely time xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): I think it's ok- it's really up to you. He may not have forgotten about it completely so I would wear a different top/sweater with it and accessorize a bit differently. Or just wear sweats and a nice sweater to dress them up.
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