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writes:Hello, well where to start, im sorry if i babble on this might be a bit long but ill try to make it short..so a good few years ago when i was 12 i had a relationship with a boy, that lasted a year i'll call him 'G' this relationship was so emotinal and ended extreemly badly won't go into detail. Anyway after we had broke up a while after i asked out a boy who i will call 'T' this relationship didnt last long at all i was 13 then. My ex 'G' broke us up by saying i said i wanted him back which i had not. So 'T' broke up with me i was heart broken over this for about a year, and 'T' knew throughout that year of me being heart broken 'T' continued flirting with me saying i was gorgeous how he does like me even when he had a girlfriend. Even when they split up i decided not to go back to him and ask him out because i'd probobly just get hurt again. So then i finally got over 'T' after a year of heart break. Then fast forward about 2 years 'T' then told me he didnt just break up with me because of my ex 'G' (i didnt prove i didnt say i wanted my ex 'G' back by the way) it was also because i was frigid and i was 13! He was 13 too. So then fast forward another year from when he told me why he broke up with me, when i had completley moved on and got another boyfriend who i have nearly been with 6 months and im all loved up 'T' starts flirting with me saying things like i might fall for you because your so beautiful" and "what if i do fall for you, what if i already have, what if im trying to tell you that i have" i told him i wouldnt go behind my boyfriends back then he said "but its a great feeling when your doing it behind somones back its called playing with fire, do you want to play with fire?" and i said no. I then told my friend who went and told my boyfriend, who is surprisingly friends with 'T' then when my boyfriend found out he asked 'T' why he was doing it, and 'T' totally denied what he said and when i asked him he said he didnt mean any of it he just wanted to see my reaction! My boyfriend does believe me as i have some messgaes on my facebook to prove it, but will somone please tell me what on earth 'T' is playing at!?!?! he totally broke my heart and then thinks he can crawl back into my life whenever he feels like it!!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Well, T is a piece of work, calling you frigid at age 13, and now trying to get you to cheat on your boyfriend??
This is the part where you cut off all contact with this guy. You have a boyfriend now, so any continuing contact with your ex, no matter how unpleasant, is not a good idea. If T talks to you again, tell him the conversation, as well as your relationship, is over.
Your boyfriend is an understanding guy, but he won't be if you keep messaging with T on Facebook. He thinks he can crawl back into your life if you give him the ability to. If you block T, then he can't crawl back into it.
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