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writes:hi people sorry first for my english grammar. right now im in big emotional problems please the people that don't take that serious or only want two offend me please better dont write nothing. i really dont know how two start im young 27 i had most of my life a lot of problems with people long time very possesive and jealous people that made me a lot of pain. i never get sexually abused but a lot of brutal stuff hapened like people hating me very strong since school and fake friends.now at last i have some very great friends but most live far away. i also never get a real girlfriend, i had several very bad moments with depresions during short times i get many times strong in love with girls and i always had troubles. first i was extremly shy after not so more but had so many times third persons looking that i cant get the girl many times, even the mother of the girls or the girls get a boyfriend.here starts the love storynow after again bad moments with girls just 2 girls with dificult mothers, i started two develop a kind of double character. i think it's because all the pain i have i can be totally in love and romantic but when this fail i get crazy very impulsive and go to prostitutes some times even drunk. i know a prostitute that i enjoy specially and booked her many times and can have great conversations and when im with her i feel so diferent to all other girls. im not talking only about sex it feels diferent i notice butterflies in my stomach, i normally almost dont kiss these kind of girls but with her it's diferent when we kiss its so passionate and the feeling with her is romantic love making for me the other girls are just sex or porn.now i think im in love with her i dont know what to do if never see her anymore or go still with her even try to meet her outside? last day i was a little more drunk and i said that she is amazing and that i want only to book her i asked her if she woud accept a small detail from me like box of chocolates and she said yes of course. i dont know if to write any signal or my email on the box? this is sad but after i left i sat in a bank and cried so strong i think im really in love i dreamed several times with her even in other situations having children and getting maried. i told her that i want to book her only to talk and kiss i said maybe it sound crazy but i really like to talk her and that she is friendly and so sweet.the problem last day is that the barmaid saw i was talking too much with her and send her away im afraid that i cant go there anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Tell her how you feel and ask her out. But if she turns you down, don't get all bitter and call her a whore or abuse her. No matter what her profession is...she's a woman with self-respect and dignity...and being a prostitute doesn't take away any of that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 oh poor dear soul, YOU PAY her for her attentions... if you don't pay her she will go away...
27 is not young. Is there a counselor you can talk to and help you work through the emotional problems???
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Hey pal. As a frequent and adamant suppprter of the profession that u describe i can certainly tell u that she probably likes ur company and attention. If youre paying her more money for the gf experience then shes prob being paid to chat u up. More than likely she doesnt share the same emotion. On a different note buying women chocs to seek their approval or gain their attraction does not work.. They do not like nice guy behavior so soon. It shows your soft and a woos. I say respectfully man. Good luck.
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reader, Rylie-Ann  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 She's payed for sex. That's it. No chats. No love. Just sex. I got bad news for you buddy; the minute you stop paying her, she stops pretending to like you.
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reader, Uncle PJ  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Okay, you have a lot of interior problems and possibly some self-confidence/self-worth issues. Your dependency on alcohol and prostitutes is never the way to get over your problems.
I understand that you have had a lot of hardship in your life. I appreciate that disappointments like that aren't easy to manage but you cannot drink your life away or have meaningless sex. (before you say it isn't, trust me it is as it's just her job).
A prostitute's job is to please men as that is what they are paid to do. You're not the first person to pay her for sex and you won't be the last. She probably treats you just any other paying customer and just wants to please so that come back for more and pay her more money.
You must try to stop getting drunk when you are upset and impulsively pay for sex. You need to think through your problems properly and if people don't like you or something doesn't work, yes it is disappointing but you just need to accept it and move onto the next thing in your life.
Life is full of disappointments unfortunately, but it's how you react to them that makes you a better person. Stay strong and think of ulterior ways of dealing with your problems. There will be a girl who is perfect for you but the prostitute isn't her. Good luck hopefully this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): she treats you nicely because you're a customer, sorry to say it flat out but you're needy and now this girl has shown you some attention which you may be confusing with affection, you also probably fancy yourself to be in love with her because with her you can be truly yourself, but to her it's maybe just part of her trade. As to asking her out, you can give it a try, but brace yourself, she may turn you down, she probably has a handful of drunk clients who pay her for sex and get a little love-sick afterwards.
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