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writes:My boyfriend not only is getting hard when just makingout, but he is actually cumming with no physical contact. he has no experience with girls besides kissing. he did have a surgery on his on testi because it was in him so they moved it back out into the sack. could this be why? he ejaculates four times a week but he said he always seems to cum pretty fast. would it get easier for him to hold it longer if he jacks off more?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Like k_c100 says, teenage boys are very easily excitable. He will get better at "control" as he gets older. When you're making out have him pay attention and when he starts feeling like he's about to orgasm, have him stop and take a break.
It's not masturbating more often that will help, it's that when he does masturbate he needs to practice holding off as long as he can. It's not the frequency, but the practicing lasting during masturbation that will help.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Its not because of his operation. It is because he is clearly too excited around you and doesnt even need to be touched to cum! The lack of experience and his age will be a big part of it as well (I presume he is a similar age to you).
In a way it is quite sweet, that he is so turned on by you that this happens. But obviously I can imagine it is getting a bit annoying for both of you.
One thing I would like to say - are you both over the legal age of consent in your state? I know the law varies in America but you are probably too young for sex in most states, so I'm not sure what you are planning on doing here?
Are you just asking this question so he can stop doing this all the time? Or do you want this to stop so you can have sex? Because if you are wanting to have sex and its illegal then we cannot advise you on that here.
But if you just want him to stop because it is annoying and you are not planning on having sex until you are both legal, then yes if he masturbates more then this should help the problem. As he gets older it will calm down, and the longer you are together, the more experienced he will become, so he will calm down a bit too.
Be patient with him, teenage boys are very exciteable and hormones mean that sometimes these things cant be helped. Heck I dated a 31 year old man who had a similar problem when we first met! They just get too turned on and that is why the problem happens. A break from making out will always help calm him down.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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