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writes:Question for guys.. I was dating this guy and recently found out that he was also keeping in touch with another girl. As I see it, it seems that he puts more attention to this other girl. We were together for about 6 months, then he met her and started a relationship with her but continued with me, until I got tired of it. Anyways, it seems that he puts more attention to her than he did to me. He's like always checking his phone, he goes online everyday when she goes online, if we went out, he would look worried and hurry up and go home so that he can get online. Don't understand, what could she do to make him act like that. Something that he never did with me. I don't know what it is that I did wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 March 2012):
 It's simple dear one, he likes her more than he likes you.
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reader, chinana  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Hey such a sticky situation you find yourself in. He is obviously keeping his options open so why dont you do the same. What he is doing is upsetting to you so why are you putting your eggs in one basket when he isnt doing the same, he isnt acting like someone who is in a commited relationship. My advice is dont wait around hoping the other girl will give him the red card. He is very selfish and inconsiderate of your feelings so leave him alone and get yourself a guy who will treat you with respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): He's more into her, for whatever reason. In cases like this it isn't a negative reflection on you. It's not something you did or didn't do, in other words, to "make him act like this". It's just that he apparently values the other woman at a higher level. Maybe he feels a closer connection to her, maybe he thinks she's more attractive, there's really no way to know for sure. Only he does, it's whatever motivated him to change and show that much interest.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 March 2012):
 You didn't do anything wrong except to stay with him. Noe he has 2 women to juggle and you have... 1/2 a man.
So my question is WHY are you steeling for a man who isn't there 100% for you?
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