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*ido7449
writes:I have been dating this man for four years but we have never had sex,each time we try to do it i always back down i feel am not ready and he understands me,I am worried because he dosent get upset everytime i back down is it normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, dido7449 +, writes (7 March 2012):
dido7449 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks very much for your advise guys..
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reader, person12345  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Wait, you're concerned because he's NOT being a jerk? You're boyfriend is being a decent human being and you're worried something is wrong? You just have yourself a nice guy there.
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reader, Uncle PJ  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 As long as he is understanding and not getting it from elsewhere, which I'm sure he isn't, then take it as a compliment. There are far too many guys to interested in rushing girls into sex when they may not be ready.
You should be thankful that he isn't rushing and is understanding that you're not ready. You are a lucky girl to be with someone who wants you for you and is ready to support you. Take your time and only have sex when you feel you are ultimately ready. Do not rush into these things and I hope you have the best relationship you deserve. Good luck and have fun.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (1 March 2012):
 that should be looked at as a good thing. at least he is not a guy that is pushing you for sex. guys that are pushy for sex are interested in one thing , and after they get it they are gone to the next victim. when a man is not upset when a girl does not want to have sex, he is interested in more than just sex. he is really interested in the girl, getting to know her, establishing a relationship with her. he is saying he is in this for the long haul, sex can happen on down the road with us. he is saying i value you more than just sex. he is saying i value you more than my on interest. you should look at him as that he is respecting you, and he has a high value of you.
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reader, Rylie-Ann  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 If my ex didn't get upset when I used to refuse him I'd be damn happy!!
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