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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone hope you can help me I ended a fwb relationship a few weeks ago as he was treating me very badly he would text after work early hours of the morning wanting to come and eSee me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him and I had fallen in love with him so I had to end it I ended it by making him jealous he text me saying he would delete my number today I got a text off him asking why I had changed my haircolour with kisses on I admit I do still like him so do you think he still likes me thank you
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 March 2012):
 "See me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him..." then he has behaved correctly. Your in a FWB, otherwise known as "lets have sex and nothing else". If you've fallen in love, then it's in your best interests to walk away and have nothing to do with him. He and you agreed to sex, not to dates, not to being boyfriend and girlfriend, you may be in love, he isn't, he likes the original contract, sex only and nothing else.
I think he likes the sex.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Honey he was treating you exactly as a FWB should middle of the night booty calls are what FWB is all about…
If you fell in love with him you were right to end it…
He likes you as nothing more than a handy penis holder… you really need to accept that all he wants is sex… but he can manage (as can most people) to make it seem like there is more there for you to be taken in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): Nope he doesn't like you as a real person,he just likes free uncomplicated sex. Beats using his right hand
He's got in touch because he can't find a replacement and thinks you will lay down and put out.
Ignore him, always.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 You are still useful to him and he'd like to use you some more. He probably hates the thought of losing a readily available, uncomplicated, effortless source of physical release.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): "do you think he still likes me thank you"
Nope, because he never liked anything about you except that you were an easy lay. His after-work bit of fun. The girl he could wink at his colleagues at the end of his shift and say "well I'm off, she's waiting for me there legs open. hehe"
He's just trying to get back in your knickers again by playing games. You know this feeling of hurt you feel right now? The feeling of loss tinged with contempt? Use it wisely OP and use it to stop getting used by this guy. Block his number.
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