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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm so confused by this girl. I met her about a month and a half ago and I really like her. We live hours apart so we don't see each other often. But we literally have gotten to where we text constantly throughout the day and talk on the phone for hours every day and night. She sends me dirty pics quite often, and claims she's modest, but not with me. We just recently discussed her getting a camera for the front of her phone so we can video chat with each other rather than just talk on the phone. This all seems like a lot of effort for someone who isn't interested, right? The reason I ask is because she talks about meeting other girls and wanting to find that someone. Yet here we are, wasting away on the phone together for 5 hours a night. Am I crazy for thinking it's a lot to invest in someone if you're just looking for something else?
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (25 April 2012):
Yes, it is a lot you're investing when she's only looking for greener pastures. Simply talk with her, and if you have romantic feelings for her, let her know. And let her know you would like to date if she's interested. She could be saying she will meet or see other chics to see if you becomes jealous or protective. That'll show her u really like her. Females do that sometimes to get a feel of the persons emotions. But honestly, talk with her heart to heart, and if she says she wants friendship only then take a step back n let her know why. I met a chic like that once, who talked about other women to me to see if I cared. Just have that talk and from there it should be no more guessing. Best wishes
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