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writes:Hey! So my girlfriend of 3 years decided to call it quits with me over email after she earlier told me i was the one and that she in time wanted to marry me. I felt like i was wanting to do the same. I don't know what to do. how to respond what i should do with all the stuff that i got over this time and the pictures. also is it wrong for me to think that she is undeserving of a guy like me? oh i forgot to mention some details. so for the last few months she refused for me to see her while she was doing her thesis and she says she was stressed so i respected that for her school work and while she blew me off for her friends. while she kept teilling me that i'm the one for her and she wants me to move in with her. at the same time she is talking to other guys and i completely supported her studies and ehr career. i just feel like this is a very cold way to end something with someone and i want to retaliate but i know that won't achieve anything and i don't know how to either. so how do i get over her and not be so angry at her. Reply to this Question
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (25 April 2012):
 Hi have you asked her why she has ended it?
Sometimes people end relationships not meaning to and are not thinkin straight at the time..
To throw 3 years away is silly over nothing. She obvioulsy has her reasons and you need to know about these and have a explanation least you deserve..
Try give her some space she may not mean it and will come back when she as had time to think what she wants in life..
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2012): Man, that is cold. I am sorry she did this to you...and it's going to take some time, but you will heal, promise.
Honestly, if a guy was not man enough to break up with me in person and took the coward route by sending me an email, I would not respond...at all.
When you are ready, you can pack up the memories and put them in a box and store them away. One day you will look back and remember the good times and she will be just a memory, with no heartache.
You can be angry right now...you have every right to be. Vent to your friends, family, whatever you need to do to let it out and you can be sad and hurt too. Keep yourself busy, get on with what you do each day, spend time with friends and when you feel up to it, get back out there and start dating again...just give it a little time first or you end up making them your rebound and take it all out on them...
Again, sorry, and best of luck to you.
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