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writes:I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the singapore, he's in the united kingdom. We've been together for over 8 months and we talked on skype everyday on the phone. recently he just got went here to have holiday with me over a month we enjoy being together as a couples we do lots of activities in our beach tour, island hopping. now were planning to our next travel in philippines in mindoro beach to go join a group a expedition trip where as you can meet people. a travellers na a journey. like stay in the boats living in a shore for days or camp on island... i find it cool for friends group will enjoy it. but i think in my opinion im not gonna enjoy it. i think that kind of trip is not for couples. boyfriend wants to meet people. but for me why we need to meet people? we dont need anyone to be with us? were just limited time to spend quality time to be with each other. im scared that my bf will get an attention to others instead of me. my problem is how to deal with him with our situation? we have different wants. how will i talk to him in a nice reason? am i right in that situation??? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2012):
 He probably just likes meeting new people on holidays. I can see what you mean you just want to spend time with him and you feel you both don't need to meet new people. But as long as he is not trying to meet other woman then making new friends, and sharing experiences is a great thing. I know plenty of couples that go on these kind of travels where they meet up with other couples and have fun together. It is not healthy to spend all your time being together just the both of you, it could get boring. Why not talk to him about this and try to understand why he wants to meet new people. I am sure he will still give you attention as well. But it is not healthy if you want all of his attention 24/7 as this is not how life works. I think you should go for it, you might be surprised at how much you actually enjoy yourself.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (25 April 2012):
 Well, the purpose of this expedition to the Philippines is not, presumably, intended so that singles can meet other singles, but more of an adventure.
If you and he get on well together and enjoy one another's company, this trip is more of an adventure with other people. I would expect there will be some married couples, singles and folk of varying ages - might be fun to get acquainted with some of them and enjoy the vacation together.
You said your bf wants to meet people. As long as he doesn't mean "meet other women" I wouldn't worry about it.
Think of it as an opportunity to add enrichment of shared experience on what sounds like an exciting, varied trip!
Hope this helps.
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