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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now and we fist started kissing three weeks ago and making out one week ago. We were in his room one night and making out. Im really new at the making out thing but he was making these noises and then he started to grind against me. It felt weird at first and i had no clue what to do but then it felt good and i got into it. He then put his hands up the back of my shirt but only to rub my back. He wears two shirts with one tucked in so it was kinda embarrsing to pull the first one up then then i had to really yank on the second to make it come undone. My question is are we going too fast? I really like him and we'd hung out for 2 months before he finally asked me out and i dont know if were going too fast or not and im really emabarrased to ask him and he hasn't tryed to touch my chest or any other part. Well he did slap my butt once when i was walking cause i through a paper ball at him. Sorry if this is so long its just my first time at this and im till a 100 perent virgin and i know he knows that its just...idk how to expalian it.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (25 April 2012):
 No, you are fine. As long as you stick to making out and dont do anything more than thats ok. Most teenage couples spend a lot of time making out so it is perfectly normal.
You have known him for a while so its not like he is a stranger. As long as you are enjoying it and dont feel uncomfortable then its all good - but if he starts trying to touch you in other places and you are not happy or comfortable with it then make sure you tell him to slow down. Take it at whatever pace you like - you dont have to do anything that you are not comfortable with.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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