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writes:This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that he was messing around with another girl while we were together and got her pregnant. So just recently this week he contacted me and explained everything and he confessed that it all was true and now he wants to continue things with me like nothing ever happened, but now he has a child and he thinks just because time has passed that everything is supposed to be okay now. Everytime I think about what he did I get upset. The best solution that I could come up with is to tell him to stay out of my life because I've moved on to better things, but he's just too set in his ways thinking that I'll take him back, but I won't. What else can I tell him?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 April 2012):
 What else can you tell him? Seriously, he's such a stalker that he won't go away?
Tell him you will call the police if he tries to stalk you again and do so if needed. Block him, on the phone, on the internet, on any device he could try to reach you.
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reader, chocoholicforever +, writes (26 April 2012):
You don't have to tell him anything different, just repeat what you've already told him. If he's going to ask the same questions over and over again, then he'll get the same answer over and over again.
Better yet, let your actions do the talking. Simply don't return his calls or emails, and start behaving as if he is no longer part of your life. eventually he'll get tired of contacting you if he repeatedly gets no response.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2012): Hi. He sounds like a `chancer`. Just trying his luck every now and then to see if there`s a chance you might still be interested.
To be honest, you probably give his contact more thought than he does and he probably periodically says exactly the same type of things to the child`s mother as he says to you.
Ignoring him will eventually make him go away. If you have had your closure and want to move on then ignore, ignore! He will get the message and go away. ANY responses from you will be seen as encouraging signs by him. So silence is the order of the day x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 April 2012):
I agree with the post below. Block his phone number, block him from social networking, never enter a conversation with him, ignore him as much as you can.
Just stop communicating with him entirely.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (25 April 2012):
 If you dont want him bothering you then block his phone number and remove him as your friend from any social networking site. If you don't want to do that then just ignore him. My ex was like this, I ignored him for a week and he stopped bothing me.
He's probably thinking that you're playing hard to get to get your own back on his betrayal. If you keep responding to him he will think you're playing a game and you like the attention. Just ignore him!
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