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male
age
30-35,
*azzedUp
writes: I need help with my fiance. She's been really distant lately, and I hardly talked to her the last few days, and then today, she was completely short with me. When I asked her what was wrong she just stopped texting me. Tonight I got on facebook to see if anything was amiss on her page to find out she had deleted all my comments, all our pictures together and removed us as in a relationship. She completely erased me from her life like she didn't want anyone to know we were together. What do I do? Should I prepare for a goodbye?
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reader, Aunty Susie +, writes (11 April 2012):
You need to have a talk with the girl. You may have done or said something to upset her; or she's met somebody else. But as you have no idea, you'll have to keep asking. And don't text, go and see her face to face. If you are engaged, you are entitled to an explanation. Sometimes, women expect men to realise what it is that they done wrong, without having to be told, or to guess what is wrong. Tell her that you don't know whats going on, and that you want to know. But it's not looking too good for you is it!?!? All the best.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2012): You mention text and Facebook but have you tried asking your fiancee directly, face to face what is wrong? There will be a reason why she`s become distant and removed you from Facebook. It might be a fixable reason. Try talking to her and asking for an explanation.
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